posted October 23, 2012 06:08 PM            

I know him for like 2 months now, approx. We work together. From the first day we know we like each other, in every way possible. It's ok. But then there's that physical feeling i cannot explain.

I AM aware of chakras, of how they work, i feel them very well. He does not, as far as i know. But the thing is.. when we are in each other presence, i feel like my crown chakra is going to explode. It opens up and so much energy is coming out and coming in, that it almost is painful. And the funny thing is that he most probably feels the same sensation too - he rubs the top of his head so often when he's in my presence.. What could possibly make the energy go insane through our crown chakras? It's kinda annoying, considering i work with him and thus i have to be in his presence 8 hours a day, it even begins its action when i just think of him, lol.

posted October 23, 2012 06:58 PM            

I have had this happen to me. I didn't attribute it to a specific chakra, but if it's making yours go crazy I can definitely sympathize. My crown is my most sensitive and active chakra, therefore I've gotten used to the feeling that I'm going to pass out from vibrational energy passing through me. It doesn't help that I'm susceptible to migraines and bad headaches because of having a very active third eye and crown chakra.

Well, when I experienced this, similar to your situation, that energy got even more heightened, I wasn't sure if my body could handle that. It was hard to ignore. It felt as though all my spiritual centers were opening up and it was intense. It happened to me over a period of months while I was in college. Way back when, in a class with this guy I didn't know. We had some major energy exchanges going on between us and we didn't speak for most of the semester, we barely even looked at each other. I could psychically see a mist surrounding him, a foggy mist that was odd. When we finally looked into each others eyes, it was like whew! Energy, volatile electricity firing back through us both. Very weird play of energies. We ended up becoming friends and dating when our class ended, and that energy didn't subside except, when I wasn't around him the world felt chaotic and hard to bear yet around him (I mean just being in his presence even if he was on the other side of a room or street) I felt eery calmness and peace. It was the oddest thing. Oh and in addition we we're practically identical in our speech, gestures, mannerisms, personalities, ideologies, and both ended up getting the exact same grade in that class we took, an A-. But it didn't work out because I think the energy exchange was too intense for him. I honestly think the energy between us scared the living daylights out of him. It didn't scare me only because I'm used to that type of very heightened energy and intense energy exchanges (heavy 8th house).

posted October 23, 2012 07:20 PM            

I definitely can tell you the whole story. I am Libra, too, btw.

This guy, i met him at work, quite accidentaly, as i never applied to that job, they found me on their own. There was a connection between us two from the start. And only then i found out he's a childhood friend of the man i love and can't forget (he is from the past lives, which i remember).. It was already wow, you know. It's not everyday that you find a person so close to someone you try to forget, lol.

We do look in each others eyes, and it's magnetic. Like you can see each others soul in there. Actually we look in eyes every time we speak, and for a long time. He's not my type, really. But i cannot cease thinking of him. Astrologically we do have wonderful connections like my Moon exactly on his Mercury, his Moon on my SN, both of our Saturns exactly on each others NN, his ASC exactly on my IC, etc.

But these physical sensations are killing me, literally. I have experienced crown chakra before, while meditating, or so. But i could "turn it off" when needed. Well, it's not possible in his presence. The energy just flows in, gives me undescribable feelings, like waves of goosebumps, only from nowhere, through all of the body, starting in crown. Intense pressure on the crown, so, gosh, not possible to sit around him, although we have to, we work in the same room.

posted October 23, 2012 11:53 PM            

Thank you for sharing your experience. Hearing your words takes me back to my own experience. Your experience sounds so magical. If you're developing feelings for him, I think you should go for it and tell him. I always like being in situations where I'm not obviously attracted to someone, but somehow they manage to seep into me without me even being aware. That's a powerful connection to have with someone. I know us Libra's like to be wooed and take time to evaluate others thoroughly, but it's hard to ignore such intense energies passing between you and someone else. Sometimes you just have to take the risk. You might have come into contact with each other spiritually because there's something you need to learn from him and vice versa, if this isn't about attraction it could be about spiritual lessons and evolution.

There's all kinds of connections and synchronicities going on in your situation which is very interesting. Hopefully these intense energies you both are feeling won't have a severe effect on your ability to perform your work responsibilities. In my own situation, I was still able to focus in class and get good grades on all my exams because I'm a little too good at bottling up my feelings. The guy I had this connection with was an Aquarius, so us both being Air signs might have been why were so effective at numbing our emotions and the intense energies between us, we were still able to get through that class without failing. I'll never forget our first date. Mirroring each others movements, finishing each others sentences, trying to think though feeling incredibly overwhelmed. He'd think of a film and I'd say it. Funny thing was in addition to all our similarities we had some interesting opposites in our outside lives, for example he came from a small family, I came from a big one. He was from the northern most part of the state we lived in, I was from the southern most part. He was obsessed with languages, I was obsessed with cultures. He was Vitamin D deficient, I was lactose intolerant...

And about others noticing the similarities between you two, I bet you they most definitely have picked up on your similarities. What would be really funny and it might actually happen is if they accidentally mix up your names and call you by his name or vice versa by accident. Because of how similar you two are, they forget who they're talking to! That happened to me with this guy in my situation. It was like we were the same person not only mirrors for each other but evidently to the world. Like our professor couldn't say his name without including mine in the same sentence, it was so odd. She'd have him go before me in presentations or me go before him. She'd ask us both questions at the same time, just us. She'd even try to specifically put us together on projects. I'd be thinking is anyone else aware of this, like am I having a mental breakdown. What is going on? It was the first time I'd ever experienced that kind of synchronicity and parallelism in my personal life.