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tuxedo meow
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posted October 26, 2012 08:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for tuxedo meow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
confusedi married and divorced one and have been in a few relationships with them. iit is better as just friends but they always charm and push and cajole and it always turns into some not so good relationship- they vrave other women right infront of me-they restructure the truth plenty-they have a thing about butts i am just not into-they are sometimes jealously violent even while they are cheating or chasing other women-i almost ran over the new one i was dating as he rode his bike in the middle of a crowded street straight at my very large vehicle. he had this 'Lab smells b@#$h in heat" look as he leaned way off his bike and looked like he was trying to stick his nose in the crack of a large woman helping move a tv/ I honked at him and he never even looked up hahahaha embarrassing for me-hahaha well at least he stays in shape chasing butts-
aargh seems i keep getting in relationships with them (not heavy ones nowadays). when they say tehy are Libras i can feel my face fall- they are temporarily sensuous and giving but it's all part of their web-does not last AND constant criticism about anything I like or do AFTER a few weeks-before that they love it all!!!
What gives with these guys?
I am Pisces sun, Leo rising in Pluto, Sag moon, pisces mars and aquarius venus:

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Randall
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posted October 26, 2012 09:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moving to Soul Unions.

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Randall
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posted October 27, 2012 12:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Chasing butts?

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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark

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AscTaurus
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posted November 02, 2012 03:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AscTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was actualy wondering why you are attracted to Libran men?

Your Asc in Leo has a 5th house/Sun affinity. But since it enjoys a powerful conjunction with Pluto(in Leo), it puts Pluto way out there in the external facade of the first house(colouring things a little)

Now your personal planet, Venus, sits in the 7th house. And if you have a cusp position for the Sun-Mars, it fills up the 7th house nicely; showing a Libra / relationship theme in your chart.

I looked to when Pluto was in Leo and that was waaaaaaay back in "57. And interestingly then, Neptune(your Sun's ruling Planet) was in...* ding ding * LIBRA.

Now am almost satisfied because it ties in greatly with why Libra may be a sign that you are definitely not indifferent to.

I wonder if your Venus(love planet) makes aspects with Neptune by close trine hmmmm, coz that would be just plain spooky.

Let me Summarize as follows:

You have Pluto conjunct the Asc in Leo.
Pluto opposing the inner planet Venus.
Venus(Libra/Taurus association) sits in your Seventh house(a house associated with Libra and relationships)

Also, your Sun is in Pisces. The ruler of Pisces is Neptune and Neptune was in Libra when you were born.{I'm still betting there is a connection between this planet and Venus]

Venus is in the marriage and association house and its opposition with Pluto can show a relationships that first starts off nice and breezy(Venus) then degenerates to over-bearing, controlling and dictating(Pluto).

Conversely, it can also manifest as a relationships that starts off deep and soulful(Pluto) then degenerates to something deceptive, superflous and fleeting(Venus)


If you were born with the famous cluster of
Uranus , Neptune , Saturn in Libra then it can be deduced that with Venus in Aquarius opposing the Pluto(Asc ruler), almost all problems with regards to the relationships are centered around communication or mis-understanding within this regard.

Criticism is Pluto/Venus opposition manifesting; especially since you mentioned that things start off peachy then degenerate.

I wonder though, if you were born with this cluster, were there involvements in your relationship by "well meaning" neighbours, close relatives, siblings, associates that contributed to the break-up? Or was it a case of supressed communication/inability to express oneself openly?

There are many 3rd house themes highlighted. So am just curious....

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tuxedo meow
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posted November 11, 2012 01:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tuxedo meow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
asc taurus! I lost this thread and just found it finally!
wow! thank you so much for your superb input!!I was always wondering why i have these libra relationship woes and any relationships at all with these guys!!
They are good looking and popular and charming but not for me.

so am i doomed in my love life? i am in Libra hell? is my soulmate to be a man who i am not compatible with?
I could be just friends with one and enjoy it aaargh
i would like to draw a cartoon of this last one leaning off his bike and stretching his neck and elongating his nose towards that butt as he almost rode into the front of my suv-hilarious in a way-and that is just one example.
thank you again asctaurus-does what you pointed out show they are attracted to me because they always make the first move, become quickly and charmingly possessive and agreeable then, just when i relax and start to feel like their girl i realize i cannot and am not really because they seem to want and compare every woman they see and are very obvious about it. i feel like screaming when the men always seem to be Libras! like a bad movie!
i am attracted to sag, aries, leo, caps

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tuxedo meow
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posted November 11, 2012 01:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tuxedo meow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
and yes, very often "well meaning" interference from friends and relatives every time! i hadn't thought of that-my mother and brother were involved in my break up with my husband. my daughter and some friends from church with another relationship and communication does fizzle out. the communication fizzles because their interests being "mutual" or simpatico with mine was just a big fake front to trick me...after awhile they have absolutely no interest and try to assert plenty of control..In fact the butty Libra actually said he looked up what i was interested in and studied those things on line. he openly criticized and ridiculed all those interests after we had seen each other a month or so. he also said I must obey him and do what he said.
i stop communicating because of the constant criticism and lose my sparkle. it does then become him having some control because I become self doubtful and hesitant waiting for him to say "ridiculous!".
the "well meaning" interferers and the Libras become a little group sort of judging or weighing me and discussing it and me on the outside of the group-
very right on-
will this attraction then burn out continue over and over or should i just run next time one says he's a Libra?

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