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posted November 04, 2012 10:33 PM            

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Omg! I've ask my Cappy crush out! Keeping it casual I simply said "would you like to meet up sometime". (We used to work together and would hang out as a group). He was quite cool with it, his reply was "well just let me know the date and time" and we exchanged numbers.

So few days later I texted him and didn't get a reply. How long should I wait, do Capricorns take a long time to reply or does that mean he changed his mind? Should I text him again or let it go?

I'm a shy Pisces, this is the first time I've asked a crush out. He seems to be quite shy too and I want to understand him.

Any advice will be greatly appreciated.

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posted November 04, 2012 11:50 PM            

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Welcome!

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posted November 05, 2012 12:23 AM            

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How long has it been since you texted?

If he wants to go out normally he should be texting you back within a day or two. I wouldn't wait the third day. Don't text him more though.

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posted November 05, 2012 10:25 AM            

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Well he replied, but was quite "cold" in his reply. I started with some small talk and we didn't get to hang out part.

I just need some advice if I should give up or try once more. He was much more friendly in person but why is he so uninterested in his reply.

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posted November 05, 2012 10:26 AM            

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Well he replied, but was quite "cold" in his reply. I started with some small talk and we didn't get to hang out part.

I just need some advice if I should give up or try once more. He was much more friendly in person but why is he so uninterested in his reply.

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posted November 05, 2012 12:12 PM            

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You mean you didn't ask him out in your first text?

He should've replied with an answer, not a hey.

Als, Capricorn dislike small talk over text. Just get straight to the point, or text him something about a movie, that he can contribute to in conversation. Also, they have a tendency to sound when they txt, but you never know. They hardly use emoticons and just say what they have to say. Don't read into that stuff.

Don't try again. He has your number...If he wants to hangout, he will get back to you. Maybe he is busy or whatever, but you've done enough by asking him out. Once is enough for a girl in these early stages.

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posted November 05, 2012 02:08 PM            

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TrueTaurus thanks for the advice.

As a pisces I truly felt there was a connection when we hangout in a group, also he always found a way to be beside me and we would sit together... We also complete each other's sentences. His aloofness over text just caught me off guard. :'(

It's not even a date, I would just like to hang out as friends individually and get to know him more. How can I stay in touch while giving him space?

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posted November 05, 2012 02:53 PM            

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If I give it one last try, ask if him he is still interested to hang out (since he agreed the first time I mentioned it) would that be too direct for a Capricorn and push him away?

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posted November 05, 2012 06:08 PM            

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Not a problem. I'm happy to help.
I'd say once more is ok, but keep it very casual... Text him sometime next week and ask him if he has gone to such and such cafe that you've been wanting to try. Go dutch, too. Or ask if he's seen such and such movie, that your friends don't dig indie films... Or something. Movies aren't best for first time hangouts, but you can go for coffee, drinks, or snacks after and chat.

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posted November 06, 2012 11:34 AM            

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He probably doesn't think he was cold or aloof--just succinct.

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posted November 08, 2012 05:00 PM            

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Friendship is the way in with Cap men. They are not real trusting at first inspite of what they show you. It takes awhile for them to open up. I would reach out one more time and see how he responds. You might have to be a bit more creative when you reach out again. US Pisces women don't have to try hard to reach men especially Cap men. But go ahead and try it one more time.

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posted November 08, 2012 05:05 PM            

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Welcome!

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posted November 08, 2012 05:07 PM            

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*Wink* Thank you!!!

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posted November 08, 2012 06:17 PM            

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Hey I don't think the guy is interested. You asked him out and his response was pretty much almost a blow off. if I were into a person I wouldn't be responding how he did. You then continue to chase him by texting, which he didn't even reply too. Just don't text again, he's not into you at all. Sorry When a guy is into someone, you'll be able to tell from their actions, they will make the effort. All he's doing now is sitting back while you're doing all the work. Don't even text him back if he randomly replies days later, he's just bored if it does happen.

Guys always make time for sb they wanna get to know.

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