Lionlady
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posted November 08, 2012 10:53 PM
  
So I'm kind of new to astrology. I have never really felt fully connected to my Leo sun sign but recently read about the cusp of oscillation and it really made a lot of sense to me.Ive been reading the other posts here that talk about cappy men and they all describe my guy. Super cautious, slow to open up, patient, persistent, has super high standards and expectations for both himself and me. He is such a cappy but would hate to hear that he isn't just completely unique.
Our relationship has taken a really long time to develop, I was really patient with him, but sort of freaked out just as things were getting really serious and ended up embarrassing and hurting him. He ended things and we stopped talking for a few weeks.
He then started showing up places he knew I would be which wasn't the best thing for me. I like to be prepared. After 4 1/2 weeks of not really communicating, he wanted to talk and be in each others lives again.
I allowed myself for the next 2 weeks to be completely vulnerable and really let him in and he just withdrew. It made me feel really confused and hurt. I know he cares about me but he just won't let me in.
I told him that I wanted more, and he said he was still too gunshy, that he needed to know me better as a friend before he could "just jump" into a relationship with me. (we've known each other 2 years, this is our second time dating, I have miscarried his baby. I really don't think we would be jumping into anything)
I can't be just his friend anymore so I ended it. I am trying to move on. I have a full life with school, work, friends, and kids. I have been on a couple of dates but am really not over him so that is really difficult.
I know he is having a hard time with this. The last time he texted me he said how much this sucks. We were at the grocery store at the same time last week, just said "hi" and walked by but when I got to my vehicle, he had parked right next to me.
Am I doing the right thing? Is moving on and only giving him what he wants when I get what I want the right thing to do now? Is this going to get him back? I just miss him a lot and don't want to imagine not being in his life long term. IP: Logged |
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posted November 09, 2012 11:21 AM