posted November 18, 2012 10:18 PM            

His sun, moon, Venus, and Jupiter are ALL in Cancer. His Mercury is in Leo and Mars is in Taurus.

(As for me, my sun and Venus are in Taurus while moon and Mercury are in Aries, Mars in Pisces, and Jupiter in Virgo.)

I feel a really intense attraction to him, and he's inspired me so much creatively - I haven't been so inspired by someone in years. We're young though; I'm twenty and he is twenty-two. I know he's attracted to me as he compliments me a lot and I have impressed him professionally and personally. (Made a Thanksgiving dinner for a group of friends and he came - yep, really impressed him in the domestic sphere. )

But he also pulls back. I bit the bullet and asked him out (sort of), but he keeps "rain checking" the date.

I also hang out in the cafe where he works a lot, so we'll see each other but not really talk. He doesn't approach me, though I think he's warming up to me.

I just don't know how much is too much with him. I've read that I should play hard-to-get but I've also read that I shouldn't play games with him. My Aries influences make me impatient but I know I need to have patience with him.

posted November 21, 2012 09:06 AM            

What I have come to know at my age is that people tell you exactly who they are from the get go, and he is telling you he has some heavy baggage.

Through actions, body language and verbalizations.

In my (horrible) experience with Cancer men, they side step for a while, then like overcompensate and become very clingy, Cancer once comfortable tends to cling anyway.

His Mars in Taurus is a slow go getter, especially for a man. Tho once he does get going, passionate and earthy, but very, very slooooow.

Be very wary of this one. At your age, you dont need to start your life with men with psych issues..been there, done that.