posted November 19, 2012 12:23 PM            

I have a Scorpio Moon.

I love my little Ram. His energy inspires me and when we're not fighting, we have so much fun.

We're never on the same page, emotionally. He thinks my feelings are frivolous and too frequent and because of this refuses to apologize or even address a situation. I like to talk about problems in order to solve them.

The longer he draws out the situation by ignoring the problem the more hysterical I get by crying, screaming, punching & hitting, and storming off. He's not one to chase after me either so it makes things worse.

I just want to be adored and understood.

posted November 19, 2012 12:57 PM            

(not meant offensively...)

...besides, violence and violent outbursts aren't appealing to anyone, not even fiery Rams.

Imagine if he reacted at such a degree... wouldn't you back off too? Personally, I'd be off running without a second glance in your direction. (I'm a Goat too, btw... Taurus Moon though.)

Master your mood-swings and try seeing his point of view/embracing his philosophy a little bit more... (I've learned tons from the Aries in my life. My son being the most exceptional teacher, Aries Sun Libra Moon and Leo Rising... --- you just don't get anymore unapologetic dynamism and dramatic flamboyance than this little critter's combo~!)

As for being unapologetic... hehe --- I'm going to have to say that's also a life lesson. Some people just don't like admitting their wrong, or being liberal minded enough to see arguments from any other angle but their own. Of course it doesn't help when the Aries competitiveness/desire for victory comes in, being wrong is tantamount to admitting defeat... hehe And, if a point is deftly important and he isn't hearing you out, and you try to find other ways to illustrate it for him, like making it sound as though it is "his idea" (usually works like a charm on either sex when dealing with such types), it is probably a sign to move on. Self-respect and all that stuff.... that's what gets you adoration. ^^;

<3 wishin' ya the best~~~~

0_o; (~~~~~~~~musta' been typing away as the thread was moved~~~~~~~~ oopsyy - sarry)

posted November 22, 2012 05:52 PM            

I only joined up in Aug~ due to some hiccup I couldn't post until October...

I'm stuck in my ways~ and very much female, I thank you... ^^;

The tilde use comes from online gaming (life-wasting, if you will) that I did between shifts in nursing. I haven't been able to shake the habit entirely, even though I haven't done any game playing since my son was born in '07.

It's my age showing~ the ellipsis were so common in chatrooms/boards/games years ago...

>_>;