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posted December 17, 2012 07:54 AM            

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I have read sooo many threads regarding the compatibility of these two star signs that do not get along well, are complete opposites, etc. I have dated a Gemini guy recently who was just amazing all round. He was a true gentleman, he made a lot of intelligent conversations, he's a real clown, I mean only a gemini can drive into a one-way by accident! Lol.. He's just such an open, kind and generous person. He would look like the hard exterior type, but actually he's got a very soft interior and heart. I had no problems with him, I am someone who loves my own space, I love my freedom, I don't like clingyness at all. The problem was that he moved too fast into the relationship and instead of just talking things out, I had ended it, as I've been cheated on by another guy just a month before and could not rush into anything then. He probably couldn't wait any longer to have me as soon as I was single.. I don't know. I regret what I did, I really do, because as months passed, through our friendship trials, just everything, I have noticed that when I see him, I get butterflies in my tummy still.. The feeling is just indescribable. I have told him how I feel about him, because I'd rather open up than always wondering what would have happened if I did. Now from his side, he would change instantly when he sees me. He would have this bright, colgate smile on his face, he would even hold my hand, give me tight hugs, rub my arm, he would basically find any excuse just to touch me. He would look into my eyes and not take them off me, I would catch him staring at me A LOT, he completely ignores when I get attention from other guys, because it does bother him, he tries to impress me by picking up extra weights in the gym, etc. What I do know is, yes, Gemini men are flirty and very open (I am too), but one gets a feeling when you're liked or loved, I mean, we do have a past, so the feelings are there, I think from his side aswell? We do have a very strong connection, we are very attracted to each other, but what I would like to know, from a gemini man's point of view, is, what are your opinions?* Concluding my whole essay, our compatibility is actually just fine compared to what astrology says about it. To those who are more experienced in astrology, here's my planets & their signs: Sun-Scorpio; Rising-Aquarius; Moon-Sagittarius; Mercury-Sagittarius; Venus-Virgo; Mars-Scorpio; Jupiter-Virgo; Saturn-Aquarius; Uranus-Capricorn; Neptune-Capricorn; Pluto-Scorpio; Lilith-Capricorn; Asc node-Capricorn & his: Sun-Gemini; Moon-Capricorn; Mercury-Cancer; Venus-Aries; Mars-Leo; Jupiter-Libra; Saturn-Pisces; Uranus-Capricorn; Neptune-Capricorn; Pluto-Scorpio; Lilith-Pisces; Asc node-Sagittarius. If you have some insight on this, I would really appreciate it & any comments. Thank you.

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posted December 17, 2012 12:17 PM            

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Moving to Soul Unions.

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posted December 18, 2012 12:40 AM            

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Hello Golden Wing! I think Geminis and Scorpios can get along just fine! I am surounded by them! My sis in law who is one of my best friends is a Scorpio. My father is a Scorpio. Another one of my best friends is a Scorpio. And last but certainly not least, the love of my life, the woman I believe to be my soulmate/twinflame (whatever you wanna call it lol), the woman I have been in love with for the past 24.5 years (but we aren't together ) is a Scorpio. Though Scorpio and Gemini are quincunx signs, with some adjustment and willingness on both sides, these two signs are amazing together. Gemini loves the deepness and non-superficiality of Scorpio and Scorpio loves the mercurial nature of Gemini which is so different but yet fascinating, to their own nature.

As far as you and your guy goes, do you want to be with him? One thing about us Geminis, if we get scorned by a person, we generally tend not to come back around or open up to them, but that breaking point is haaaaaard to reach. However, it does not sound like he was scorned by you. Sounds like he was more hurt and maybe felt rejected by you when you ended it. He probably realizes he may have caused your break by moving to fast. If you want to move forward with him, the best thing you can do is be honest with him about your feelings for him. Be very direct and don't beat around the bush or talk in riddles. If you like him, say you like him. If you love him, say you love him. If you want a relationship with him, tell him and tell him you want to take it slow! He will understand and respect it!

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Gemini Mercury
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And yes, I'm a guy!

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posted December 18, 2012 12:55 AM            

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Thank you for your reply! Well, yes... I would love to be with him, the only problem is, he's seeing someone at the moment, or at least dating someone and I would not want to be the cause of a breakup or anything similar to ruining his relationship with her, because I am just not like that and I respect that he's with someone else. The thing is, she cheats on him and he just let's her. It is his ex he's dated just before me, he has left her last year due to that, but now he's back with her, and she has not changed? I don't see how a gemini takes nonsense like that? Lol.. Well, the ones I know don't. The thing is, I have told him how I feel, whilst still being with this girl and he told me he was sorry for moving so fast, he thought I was a girl who had lists of guys ready anytime and he just totally got me wrong.. He told me he values our friendship (which is understandable, because what else was he supposed to say, he IS in a relationship), but the thing is, we don't talk ever? I mean, friends talk, they're there for each other and by saying this, the only reason I could think of is that he does still like me, because being friends will just complicate things, hence having a past. I told him that I'm sorry for making him feel rejected, but he must find comfort in the fact that I did start to notice that I DO love him.. I am just so scared I came off too strong. I just don't get why he's with someone like this girl? When we do see each other, he touches me, even the people around me asks if we're together? I mean, when others can see it, why still question it? That's going beyond flirtation... It's just a "I don't know anymore" situation, where I'm just extremely... Confused?..*

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posted December 18, 2012 01:10 AM            

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Sun sign compatibility doesn't really mean much, unless the two Suns are in aspect to each other by degree, as in by 5 degrees of less. There is absolutely no reason why a Gemini and a Scorpio couldn’t get along if the rest of their charts show good compatibility. Don’t worry about the Sun sign compatibility stuff.

I’m a Capricorn who’s usually most attracted to Fire sign guys, I don’t let it bother me that Fire signs aren’t traditionally compatible to me by Sun sign… I love their vibrant, demonstrative energy and feel that they compliment my steady nature very well. Sometimes it’s good to be with someone who has parts of their personality a bit opposite to yours. It can be fun to be with somebody different from yourself, you can learn and grow together. And, I always study the overall compatibility before I make any hasty judgments about my compatibility with anyone regardless of their Sun sign.

I say be upfront with your Gemini and let him know exactly where you stand on the matter of being with him. If he really likes you he'll probably jump at the chance to be with you again. Assuming that's what you want?

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posted December 18, 2012 01:24 AM            

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Firstly, I would say that your opposition contact with Moon in Sagittarius(yours) and his Sun in Gemini creates an intense attraction and familiarity beyond Sun-sign compatibility alone.

Your Moon/Mercury conjunction(by sign) and his Moon/Mercury opposition(by sign) creates a lot of intellectual banter and friendly conversation between you two and can add to the feeling of "familiarity".

Also, his Mars in Leo projects a confident and inspiring demenour; definitely worth the attention whilst your Mars in Scorpio projects a rather focused and intentful persona:You both may sense strenghth in each other and this inspires both fascination and a certain degree of apprehension.

You both havea Venus-Moon contact in square signs: His is Aries/ Cap moon whilst yours is Virgo/Sag Moon. Bravo to you for being so open about your feelings; that is uncharacteristic of someone with your Venus placement(as Virgo is a very restrained sign).

However, its unlikely , with his Venus in Aries, that the object of his affection, should ever doubt his feelings as he is always open and direct about matters of the heart. His cavalier attitude towards you bugs me a little(even if he has someone)

His Venus forms an opposition (by sign) to Jupiter and a square(by sign) to Neptune. He may view the object of his affection with rose-coloured glasses or beyond reproach(in this case , his current girlfriend).

His Jupiter/Neptune planets also form a square and conjunction(by sign to his Moon. I'd say tread very carefully. Moon-Neptune- Jupiter aspects can be, at worst, self-delusion and seeing only that which you want to see.

Good luck.

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posted December 18, 2012 01:30 AM            

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I completely agree with you Lotis.. it is fun being with someone who is bit opposite. I get bored very quickly and I need that kind of fun in my life. I've missed out on so much of my life.. I would love to be with him again, like I said, I also value his happiness and as much as it hurts, I just want to see him happy. I do regret my mistakes though, but I've done all I can to rectify them. All one can really do is move on and see what happens. It's just, the attraction is there, everything's there. When we were together it was light, casual, fun, it was perfect, because we also share a lot of interests, we're both ready to take on any tasks anytime aswell as new interests. He has also thanked me for giving him his space, I was surprised by that, as I have never really noticed it. I'm very down to earth. We have mutual friends, I've actually met and known his best friend before him and I did not know this until we broke up..lol. It works in a little triangle. It's veeeery weird* :O I find myself very attracted to Gemini and air signs.

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posted December 18, 2012 01:48 AM            

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Thank you Taurus. The thing is, not only do I see it, but the people at the gym can too. I am very careful with this.. My gran's gemini, she's been giving me good advice so far. I don't want to ruine anything.. But yes, I'm glad I told him how I feel. More than that I cannot do.. His cavalier behaviour towards me is understandable. He is a veeeery open guy.. He gives hugs, he's loving, etc.. It's just how he is and I actually prefer that, because I've dated some water signs and they were just closed books. One even cheated on me.. I like to know where I stand with someone. He is the type to tell you exactly how he feels about you, whether it be a random moment. I could be wrong, I could see what I want, but when a guy is usually pointed towards you, etc, it means he's interested. Being a Scirpio, I sense these things and I carefully analyse and pin point things before I just assume.*

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