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hippichick
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posted February 01, 2013 10:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I read something today that quite struck me...

It said that when dealin with Virgos, one must discern between (their version of constructive critisism) and emotional abuse...

I realized I have been dealing with this with my Virgo mother for FIFTY years and it is reliving itself with this Virgo man...

Opinions, please?

Thanks!

t~

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Nine
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posted February 02, 2013 12:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hate to sound cliche, but I think it would depend of what else is in the chart. Virgo coupled with a water sign for sure could lead to emotional abuse.

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posted February 02, 2013 09:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
O, perhaps, the synastry...

Being a Pisces, I sometimes think, being their opposite project all their hidden issues onto me~

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posted February 03, 2013 09:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not a Virgo trait per se'. Other placements would apply.

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hippychic823
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posted February 03, 2013 02:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippychic823     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ugh...Virgos!!! And I say that cause I'm a Virgo myself but I just came out of a relationship with a Virgo man and he was emotionally unavailable, cold, calculating and was a MAJOR player!! He basically cheated on every girl before me and also cheated on me....I'll stick with Scorps....they're my addiction!!!!

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posted February 04, 2013 09:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I love my Virgo ASC.

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posted February 04, 2013 11:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ya'all I love em too!

I am just trying to understand.

And per my research I stumbeled upon this query.

I know for a fact my Virgo mother emotionally abused me terribly, but in retrospect was she just being a Virgo?

This man, who has won my heart is a over-Virgo

I am not the kind of person to just up and walk away, I want to understand, know why and learn.

I am not saying that all Virgos are emotional abusers, but alot of them can sure come off that way, IF we dont walk in their earthy shoes and see things from their persepctive.

blessins!

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posted February 05, 2013 10:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted February 05, 2013 01:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And o boyyyyyyy

Am I ever having to walk in the earth shoes!

Actually I love earth signs cause they bring me down from my Pisces fantasy...walking 3 feet above ground all one's life is where I live, but sometimes it is good to touch base..(atleast I have a Bull Moon to help me along)

"ground control to major tom......"

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posted February 06, 2013 04:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Where is his Mars?

I grew up with a pretty nasty alcoholic Virgo. Moon in Aqua, Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Cancer. Everywhere he looked someone was committing an offense against him, for which he must retaliate.

His boss was a jerk for being rough with him. It has nothing to do with his lateness, and no-call, no-shows. It was also happenstance he as paid at a higher rate than the other guys for doing the same job. Doesn't matter, he was fired because the boss was a jerk who never liked him.

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posted February 06, 2013 09:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nine:

Thank you SO much for responding..

His Mars is in Scorpio, nearly an exactly conjunct to my ASC..O, and his Mars is in a wide conj to Neptune. ((( (in his 5th)

My mother...have to look.

t~

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posted February 06, 2013 11:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a Cancer mom with Virgo moon and Leo AC and I understand completely. COMPLETELY.

Thanks, Nine for your comment, it was validating and slightly healing. It is better to know it is just her nature, rather than "my mother hates me". I know she doesn't. It just very often FEELS like she DOES. I am better myself now at not taking things personally so it doesn't bother me as much as it used to when I was little.

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posted February 07, 2013 10:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Mystic Melody:
I have a Cancer mom with Virgo moon and Leo AC and I understand completely. COMPLETELY.

Thanks, Nine for your comment, it was validating and slightly healing. It is better to know it is just her nature, rather than "my mother hates me". I know she doesn't. It just very often FEELS like she DOES. I am better myself now at not taking things personally so it doesn't bother me as much as it used to when I was little.


awww, Mel a woman after my own heart!

Xactly!!!

ps keep looking for you on fb but still cant find you! ((((( I miss your posts!


https://www.facebook.com/#!/torra.luna.3

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