posted February 27, 2013 03:47 AM
Hi! It's been awhile since I was here, but I've been inquiring a lot about soul connections and things lately and felt like this was the place to discuss I feel like the universe is trying to make some impacts in my life recently.I have 2 topics of inquiry. One about soul connections/ soul mates. What if there's no obvious reason you gain from meeting them? That or perhaps you have insite into my case. The other being (once you hear my story), does it also sound like the universe is trying to tell me something from YPOV?
Side note/lead of story: When I met my current b/f of only 2mo. It wasn't a soul connection by any means or even that great chemestry you find with people sometimes. Attraction, sure. Just not seemingly profound. Yet on the hours of getting to know him we found we have all these commonalities where we could have met each other many times before.
Jump to our 2nd date, and afterwords, I just had this intuitive reaction that yes, I could marry him and live out a happy fullfilling life. I never had such a reaction quite like it before. (our love now is so sweet, and content ..its mind boggling to me).
Cutting to the Chase: about a month ago. I was talking to someone (another regular costumer at a cafe) that, I admit (regrettably), I do share a chemestry with (though I feel and refuse to allow it to have any impact on my current relationship). While we were talking and old friend walks in the door with his current girlfriend.
Back story: the night I met this friend (6 and half years ago) I felt a deep, spiritual, soul connection to him. That night and for many weeks later I tried to convince myself that I was not in love with him (lol). That was the first and only time previously I had truly loved someone. As the close friendship morphed into some strange aquaintenceship I struggled yrs trying to over come it.
So there I am having a meaningful conversation with someone, when here walks in my old soul connection(we chatted briefly). Meanwhile my boyfriend was spending time with his son. Needless to say I was vary overwhelmed at the chain of events. Wondering if I'm receiving so kinda sign here. A couple hours later I look in this news ad (something I never do) and see one for a Shakespeare play. The design for it was an old record player (bf is a musician) but the speaker on the player was actually an orchid! Just the day before this occurance and asks me what my favorite flower is, we both answer orchids. Then there was this other "sign" I won't get into.
....anyways am I reading too much into things? Could there be some purpose or message in those series of events? What could the point be of running into that old friend of mine? What purpose or contract could he have held? Maybe to simply cut ties with him? It was something I had wanted months before meeting my bf but I couldn't ever reach him.
I'm interested in hearing peoples reactions and responses! And if they have any stories they want to share. In particular how they may have felt when meeting a S.O. or if there were any "signs" involved.
P.S. sorry so long and thanks!