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From: Cambria heights,NY
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posted February 28, 2013 05:24 AM            

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Ive been friends with this guy for a really long time now, we are well connected on a spiritual , telepathical kind of way . He calls me every night almost . We talk about everything , he always compliments me. Calls me beautiful , always checks on me, and stays he's just checking in lol. I've even caught him staring at me recently he did it and when I looked he didn't even turn around , I asked him what was wrong and he said just thinking. We recently had a convo and I said I would be afraid to date a friend , I don't think i could date a friend! Then he said that I didn't have to worry about him pushing up on me he thought the best thing he could offer me was friendship, yet he has never said to to me " I love you " but he says it to other friends or if he says something sexually inappropriate around me he'll say I'm just playing , or I didn't mean it like that . I don't understand why he does this ... Help me

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posted February 28, 2013 07:20 AM            

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He is interested in you. He probably doesn't know how to approach you yet though.

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posted February 28, 2013 11:28 AM            

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So is the friend stuff just a front ? I enjoy being his friend . But he thinks keeping this secret if that really is the case is going to make things better and in reality it hinders our friendship because when your affectionate with others and not me it makes me feel like you care about them more and not me. I'm a Pisces / venus in Aquarius he is a cancer/ Venus in gemini

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posted March 08, 2013 10:23 PM            

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Should I approach him about it or go with the flow?

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posted April 16, 2013 04:42 PM            

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Sooooo I have an update! We we're talking and oddly he brought up the Topic , "Love" I then said I hardly tell my friends I love them . ( I'm an Aquarius Venus ) I have a hard time expressing myself emotionally or verbally I should say. He says I always tell my love ones I love them, I said I know you do ! Then he said I actually mean it though...He was silent for a second then he says " like I love you". I couldn't give a reaction at first lol

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posted April 21, 2013 07:07 PM            

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Are you interested in him?. If your not then you should just appreciate the relationship for what it is. He sounds like he a naturally affectionate person and throws around the L word a lot. If you like him more then a friend, you should ask if your the type of woman he would date seriously...see what he says. Otherwise its just a close friendship and he's being a playful flirt. (I've met a lot of guys who did the same thing and were never interested in a real relationship with me). Some people are just like that. Good luck though

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posted April 22, 2013 11:00 AM            

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Venus in Gemini are not serious types as far as committed relationships are concerned. It depends on other chart influences too for over all effect. Many are players but ofcourse not all. You will have to check his other placements like Sun conj venus which may burn up his geminian venus and cancel that effect. But even this kind of person that i have seen is a flirt. Sorry for giving such terrible advices but it makes me weary when someone is looking for a serious relationship and the other is just skimming. It may hurt the first one.

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posted April 23, 2013 06:40 PM            

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He doesn't though the word " love" around i only here him say it to his love ones . NOT outsiders ( there is no point ) him telling me he loves me was the first time since we known each other which has been years . Next week I meet his mother for the first time when I come back to our hometown . I'm a little afraid to tell him how I feel because what If I hear what I don't wanna hear. He's been really genuine lately ( last 5 months ) it used to be a lot of disappearing acts( sun cancer ) but now our communication is better , which is nice ... Last night he expressed he rather be the type to be with a friend

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posted June 09, 2013 04:36 PM            

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Any updates?

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posted June 12, 2013 11:40 PM            

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Clearly they are madly in love and canoodling somewhere....

I HOPE!!! lol

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posted June 26, 2013 09:21 PM            

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Lol hey y'all waves ::: ..we still talk everyday . A few days ago he got into a fight and into some trouble . His mom called me really emotional about the situation , we talked for a little while . Finally I asked her will they continue to stay in our hometown ( I moved away) she said she was going to move out of state and he was waiting to see what would happen with us . I didn't say anything I just listened , I should of asked did he tell her that but I didn't . My ? Is do you think he told her that or is that her saying that because she likes me ...by the way she knows we are just friends !

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posted June 26, 2013 09:33 PM            

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Lol hey y'all waves ::: ..we still talk everyday . A few days ago he got into a fight and into some trouble . His mom called me really emotional about the situation , we talked for a little while . Finally I asked her will they continue to stay in our hometown ( I moved away) she said she was going to move out of state and he was waiting to see what would happen with us . I didn't say anything I just listened , I should of asked did he tell her that but I didn't . My ? Is do you think he told her that or is that her saying that because she likes me ...by the way she knows we are just friends !

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posted June 26, 2013 09:35 PM            

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..we still talk everyday . A few days ago he got into a fight and into some trouble . His mom called me really emotional about the situation , we talked for a little while . Finally I asked her will they continue to stay in own hometown ( I moved away) she said she was going to move out of state and he was waiting to see what would happen with us . I didn't say anything I just listened , I should of asked did he tell her that but I didn't . My ? Is do you think he told her that or is that her saying that because she likes me ...by the way she knows we are just friends !...that's my update just happened a few days ago

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