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Topic: dating a intuitive/sensing guy?
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eyes_like_pisces
Knowflake Posts: 33
From: mpls, mn, usa
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 18, 2013 11:01 PM
  
So my b/f (10/23/83) can sense other peoples moods. And has other sensitive abilities (with spirits, and places with energy)...anyway a few times now..he will think Im upset, or feeling moody. When I am hardly am even aware this is the case. But as a result its got me feeling a little insecure. Like he may be starting to perceive me as moody, and won't be able to handle it. Or take it personally. Sense these occurances have been happening..its got me feeling guilty or bad if I'm not happy..like I have to watch how I feel..which is a lot harder than watching what you say, lol. Is there any general advice out there about dating someone with these abilities? thank you for any feedback!  **This topic has also sparked some related OPTIONAL questions too. For example he's told me I have a healing presence/aura. I'm wondering a little about that?
Also just kinda wondering where I could start working on my own intuitiveness. Or the first steps to transfering energies? IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 26280
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 19, 2013 11:17 AM
Cool! No suggestions, but it seems you've landed a winner.IP: Logged |
SDragon
Knowflake Posts: 31
From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted March 20, 2013 09:25 AM
He's a scorpio - he can handle your moods so don't worry about it!  IP: Logged |
eyes_like_pisces
Knowflake Posts: 33
From: mpls, mn, usa
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 20, 2013 07:37 PM
Thanks both of you!I hope that is true! He just comes off so much more Libra, with his asc, mercury, and Pluto all in Libra. Any time a tense topic comes up he turns completely void of emotion, and will start probbing questions instead, like a Libra. Plus, his Venus and Mars are in 12 house Virgo! Which makes me wonder if he's capable of dealing with feelings (his or mine) or will he just burrow them. IP: Logged |
eyes_like_pisces
Knowflake Posts: 33
From: mpls, mn, usa
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 20, 2013 07:47 PM
Thanks both of you I hope that's true! It's just he comes off so much more Librian. He has asc, mercury, and Pluto all in Libra. Any time a tense topic comes up he turns emotionless. And starts probbing questions instead, like a Libra. Plus his Venus and Mars are in 12th house Virgo! So it makes me wonder if he's capable of dealing with emotion or would rather keep them burried (mine or his). A couple times now in passing he mentioned how his ex's were so moody (fire signs btw), he seemed please that I didn't appear this way. That it be a turn off. Plus his moons in Tuarus (opposition of mine). IP: Logged |
SDragon
Knowflake Posts: 31
From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted March 20, 2013 10:01 PM
At the end of the day you are who you are. If you're worried about appearing moody, you'll soon find yourself trapped in a relationship where you're walking on eggshells all the time.Maybe his life lesson is to learn that moods aren't supposed to be light, airy and superficial all the time - who knows? IP: Logged |
eyes_like_pisces
Knowflake Posts: 33
From: mpls, mn, usa
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 20, 2013 10:24 PM
Ha, good one! I know I don't want to walk on eggshells all the time (it wouldn't work anyways) just hope it works out. IP: Logged |
eyes_like_pisces
Knowflake Posts: 33
From: mpls, mn, usa
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 20, 2013 10:26 PM
Ha, good one! I know I don't want to walk on eggshells all the time (it wouldn't work anyways) just hope it works out. IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 26280
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 21, 2013 12:28 PM
Good luck with everything.IP: Logged |
FireMoon
Knowflake Posts: 716
From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 21, 2013 08:10 PM
Hey just wanted to say overall it sounds like you are happy together, so hopefully it's just a minor issue and the tension can ultimately help both of you grow..Pisces seems very comfortable with the intangible, and will just let emotions flow freely, whereas Scorpio experiences the same strong emotions but wants to harness them or keep them under control, at least according to appearances.. Plus the Libra and Virgo you mentioned, maybe he is more comfortable analyzing emotions or trying to balance out the situation without any conflicts So as SDragon mentioned, maybe you can help him become more comfortable with the fact that moods/emotions ebb and flow, they're not always necessarily pretty, and can't always be fit into categories or neutralized somehow With your moons opposite, you can probably understand where he's coming from with that Scorpio energy, and hopefully get him to break through some of those walls even though Taurus moon would value emotional stability.. So I wouldn't worry too much if I were you, unless he really has deep issues with this. If you don't feel distressed or threatened by your emotions, there's no reason for him to either, and you shouldn't have to hide anything from him. Also about what you said about working on your own intuitiveness... Have you ever considered getting into tarot?? I don't know much about it but if you're interested it would probably be a good way to practice picking up on the energies of other people and channeling your intuitiveness...
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eyes_like_pisces
Knowflake Posts: 33
From: mpls, mn, usa
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 22, 2013 12:42 AM
Wow, fire moon that was amazingly insightful and helpful!!!Thank you so much for clearing it up for me! I think your right about his Libra and Virgo placements making him want analyze them. I kinda took those comments as a personal attack (though unattended) or a personal turn off of his. Now I get that It's probably just his way of processing and will work on stop taking offense to that. I appreciate the Tarot suggestion, it has been on my mind a bit lately (though for some reason I have more affinity towards standard playing cards *shrug* ..I can recall the symbolism better. IP: Logged |
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