posted April 06, 2013 03:01 PM            

He asked for time alone to think things through. Told me he loved me many times in our phone conversation. Ended with "Okay. I love you. I'll be in touch." I'm smart enough to know that his saying he'll be in touch means that he will contact me.

I did send one long text to let him know that I loved him, too. After re-reading it, it sounded like I was breaking things off, so I sent another one letting him know I was respecting his time and space and wanted to clarify that (a) I'm not seeing anybody during this time either and (b) I'm not quitting on "us". He doesn't want to break things off, but I'm not going to let him have his cake and eat it too. He was adamant that there isn't anybody else, he isn't seeing anybody else nor does he want to, and he doesn't want to break things off--he merely needs time to be alone and think. He's a Virgo man--nothing out of the ordinary here!

I know I overstepped by texting when he asked for space, but now he's getting radio silence from me!

Virgo men ALWAYS want to do what is right. But, do they tend to gravitate toward an ex before the new gal? They have history--
we're still in the "discovery phase" of our relationship. I could feel from his tone of voice that he really wanted me to know that he loves me.