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posted April 17, 2013 02:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No, not because I donīt believe in it anymore (maybe I do, maybe I don`t).

No, not because I am disappointed
(actually I have never enjoyed my life more than I am doing now).

The reason is that most of the time it serves as an excuse to stay stuck in expectations and justify something that just doesn`t work.

It doesn`t matter if he is your twinflame or not. Even if he should be (and if you ask the question, he most probably is NOT) your twin flame, but is in a different phase in development, it simply doesn`t matter. There is no meeting ground.
He has a different path in this life than you, but if you firmly believe he is your twinflame and you are SUPPOSED to be together, you may get stuck in YOUR development/ path.

THAT is the reason I am done with that.

Now for soulmates, karmic mates, passionmates, Kundalini mates, all the other juicy mates, that is a different matter.

What I am more interested in is "complements" (which may be the same as twin flames actually), but I am interested in the earthly level of complements.

I once took a chakra test, and the result was that my higher chakras were open and partly overstimulated, but my lower chakras, especially Root and sacral, gruesome, I tell you, gruesome!

Thta is MY path for this part of the way. And I think that is the reason I am not really caring for very abstract or theoretical concepts anymore. They are still interesting to read and think so for me, but they lose value if they cannot be transferred on a manifesting level (even if the manifesting means, manifesting jsut in MY life, and serving my transformation).

Cause at the end of the day I think that is what all these different ideas and categories are about. They are transformational. And they can be that in very different forms of "relating".

For me personally, Kundalini-mates, are the most interesting right now, just because that is closest to my experiences right now.

I don`t really know why the need to know my twinflame ceased. Right now at the moment I couldnīt care less. The question just subsided and lost importance. It doesn`t matter to me.

What matters is being in the moment and flowing (even overflowing) with whatever I am feeling and experiencing.

Oh yes, and wanted to share this link, which probably a lot of you will not like.

Personally I think the guy has a point there.

Especially at about 3:50

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posted April 17, 2013 04:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cfall614     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Ceridwen, I was just thinking the same thing a few days ago!

I agree, while it is a very nice concept to think about, and it could be very well really doesn't help people move on. If anything, it may cause some people to get stuck on a person that is definitely not good for them at the time (i.e. they may associate abuse as "the twin flame getting scared and running, etc" and choose to stay in an unhealthy situation).

The nice aspects of twin flames sounds very nice though!

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posted April 17, 2013 07:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree, I think we sometimes get caught up in the ideas of it, what maybe just maybe we are missing out on the reality of life....

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posted April 17, 2013 08:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dyedye08     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree too, I think we stop our own growth. What's illuminating is the research you find, instead of it mentioning you're stopping your growth it actually says the opposite that you are being enlightened. For me, until about 2 years ago I have never heard of Karmic connections, twin flames. My induction to astrology was through the yearning to learn more about self. I had gone through a lot of bad relationships and been studying my natal chart to find out why I was attracting these type of people into my life. Through researching aspects: conjunctions, squares, past life debt I accrued etc. I started learning about karmic connections. Now by nature we are all familiar with the definition of Karma. It wasn't until I met this guy, that I notice something was different. Now because I'm married, I simply tried to write the feelings off that I had started to feel. What I mean by this was different, it wasn't like a Normal crush or infatuation. I was starting to feel something in my core, something I couldn't explain. At first I thought it was lust, but then it wasn't about sex. I couldn't shake this feeling from spirit. Because I had never experience this before I started looking for answers and that's how I came across the whole twin flame/ twin souls. What makes people question the connection is the connection is usually a 1st for you. Now I'm wondering how did this happen. What's different about them. I was looking for anything to explain what was going on. The research we find makes us compare, wonder and question because as logic beings we try to take our emotions out of it hence people start looking at synastry charts/composite charts, spending a lot of money on tarot readings and countless hours researching. If we put aside astrology and all the tarot readings and come to a realization that the one who controls the universe depending on what you believe religious, you will understand that no matter what the tarot reader told you, the psychic told you, or what astrology says; you realize that if the situation isn't favorable for both parties ( expectations, disillusionment) nothing will happen anyway. Life is all about free will. Logically, I find only of the research makes sense. I have had a lot of bad experiences in relationships. I know that depending on that individual and how mature they are with their own love life. Trust, age doesn't play a factor. I have meet woman and men in their 50 and 60s who haven't matured emotionally due to bad relationships. I think being realistic about a situation helps us to cope with the idea the twin flames/ twin souls thing. I say focus on self best thing anybody who is looking into soul mates, twin flames etc. life to me is too short, to spend time waiting on someone to return to you. I think with research it tends to force us to believe instead of studying synastry I think one should be studying moon aspects and learning more about the way you love. I can honestly say, this has definitely been life changing , true it's painful. The worse feeling I ever felt, it hurts because before all of this everything was fine. The whole no explanation thing through my off, but I'm learning to let go. In replacing this pain with self growth. I think the researching levels out the playing field for those who are expecting a reunion from a particular person. I say this because it gives us an opportunity to see both sides, preparing you for the disappointment, giving us the strength to carry on.

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