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Topic: Soul contracts
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Lioness
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posted May 21, 2013 10:49 PM
  
Idk if its because I have 4 personal planets in h6 or what..
But I seem to have soulmates at work, not necessarily romantic soul mate/ just soul contracts..I do have a romantic soul meeting with fishy, we met through work.. But there's others in a non romantic way.. My boss..
I am totally loyal ang glued to my boss... I have been asked to move to other departments, but I decline, saying I can't leave him...
I have been offered other jobs, but nope.. I won't move on until my boss retires..
I told him, I'm going with you 
He's like a father figure soulmate..
I love him to death... There is another guy, he's a Virgo...
Fishy doesn't really like him, but he knows we are just friends, and he respects that.
I don't hide my friendship with Virgo from fishy. We are very good friends...
He's like my brother soulmate..
No romantic connection, just straight honesty. Only today, I felt a little bothered by him.. Kinda betrayed.
He's been having some personal problems, that we have been talking about.
I bought him a very small gift, just to cheer him up..nothing big.. It was more just a gesture.
He told everyone...
It bothered me.. I'm a very private person..
I felt that was just between me and him as friends..
But he showed and told everyone..
I feel kinda of embarrassed... Idk at this point,if I still even want to talk to him anymore..  Maybe Neptune has bit me, but I feel betrayed by him. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted May 22, 2013 10:42 AM
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charmainec
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 22, 2013 11:27 AM
On the flip side, maybe he was bragging because he felt special that you gave him a gift?IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 22, 2013 08:44 PM
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Originally posted by charmainec:
On the flip side, maybe he was bragging because he felt special that you gave him a gift?
I know, but it really bothers me. IP: Logged |
Mystic Melody
Moderator Posts: 495
From: IL
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 22, 2013 11:36 PM
You didn't say it would bother you.If his guy friend gave him a cup with his favorite football team on it, the appropriate and friend-thing to do would be for him to blab about it loudly in the break room. If you change the rules on a guy, you have to tell him what the rules are now. What if it bothers you because you are afraid your co-workers will think you are being unfaithful to your Fish and it is about what others think? Do you think that is what bothers you? Is it bad that others know you and Virgo are good friends? Virgos love STUFF for goodness sake. You can't blame the guy for showing off his new earthy possession. Do you think HE like YOU and he is trying to give others the wrong impression or something? I think you gave him the thing at work and he honors and respects that you are just friends and therefore did not think it was some secret romantic gift or something and just did the guy thing of showing appreciation by waving it around and loudly calling attention to it. If it is a deeper issue, only you know what that might be.  If it is not a deeper issue, forgive the poor man for loving his friend and trying to make her happy in his fumbling manly way.
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Lioness
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posted May 24, 2013 01:10 AM
I get what ur saying, I'm not really worried about what people think,
I'm just a private person and I don't like my business out there...
I really didn't think he would just show it off..l that got me by surprise... LolAnyways I'm upset over it, and honestly he doesn't even realize it... Lol
Today he brought it up again to everyone, with me right there...
I just walked out of the room... I'm not worried about fishy, fishy knows me and him are friends.. I don't have any secrets from fishy..
He knows I talk and text this guy..he's cool with it. IP: Logged |
Mystic Melody
Moderator Posts: 495
From: IL
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 30, 2013 02:32 PM
You have to tell him for him to know. I think he will be horrified but relieved he finally knows why you are acting so weird to him. Just tell him you are private so it freaks you out and to please not bring it up again but you are glad he likes it?IP: Logged |
Mystic Melody
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From: IL
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 30, 2013 02:42 PM
Also... we are supposed to forgive each other to transcend the karma so you may as well forgive him so you don't have blabbing about presents you gave him in your next life. lol 
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Lioness
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posted May 31, 2013 12:46 AM
Yes, I will let it go... But It damaged the friendship in a way...
I don't feel the same towards him..I can forgive, but not forget. IP: Logged |
Mystic Melody
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From: IL
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 31, 2013 12:02 PM
I don't understand how you can be upset with someone for doing something that had no idea would hurt you, when their intentions were to please you, and you won't even tell them it upset you and why. They are YOUR feelings and you can feel whatever way you want, any time you want... I respect everyone's right to feel any way that pleases them!! I am simply saying that I (ME, this is MY problem) don't understand that response. "It's not logical" sez my Mercury in Virgo Spock personality. Thank you for sharing your experience and feelings. I wonder if my Mercury in Virgo is square your moon or your own Mercury and that is why your response is so different and difficult to understand to me. I think it is awesome that you just kept telling me how it was from your experience without getting impatient or upset with me when we obviously have such different ways of looking at the situation.
Thanks for the chat and I'm sorry you had to feel bad when you were just trying to share with another person. I hope things work out for you and your friend.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 31, 2013 04:03 PM
No, I'm not upset in anyway.. I agree everyone has different way at looking at things.Emotions arent always logical, they just are...
Emotions don't have to make sense...
It made me feel bad, logical or not... My moon/mercury is in Leo, so no square to your mercury.. Maybe it's my Pisces asc that's opposite your mercury I'll try to explain, I'm just a totally private person, I don't really share much with people..
I just don't like everyone knowing y business.. I know he didn't mean anything by it, I know to a sense he was bragging, and showing it off..
Maybe he has some Leo in him... Lol Idk, I just felt it was just between me and him, I didn't feel it was something to brag about. It just deeply bothered me... I really like this guy, in a non romantic level.. He's a good person..
I just wasn't expecting him to show everyone, it completely and totally caught me off guard.... I know it's kinda silly, the gift cost me, like $5, nothing big.. Sometimes he brings me breakfast, wouldn't it be weird if I went around to everyone saying look he got me breakfast.. Looking I got breakfast, look what he got for me, hey everyone look what I got... Idk.. It was just off for me,.. Threw me for a loop... Lol This is just two different sides of the coin.
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Mystic Melody
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From: IL
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 31, 2013 04:09 PM
it would totally be weird if you went around saying "look, he bought me bfast" lol I totally understand now. lol funnyand you know that I didn't think you were upset with ME, just could not figure out for the life of me why you were upset with HIM. My Merc in the last degrees of Virgo, conj PL in the 8th. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted May 31, 2013 04:38 PM
Lol... No worries... Your mercury is prob conjunct my Pluto at 0libra. IP: Logged |
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