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eyes_like_pisces Knowflake Posts: 116 From: mpls, mn, usa Registered: Feb 2013	posted June 09, 2013 10:57 PM So my oldest friend in the world is going through a seperation after having been married only 9mo!! I'm disillusioned by it. They have been together for about 10yrs. As a child I had always idolized her. When I witnessed their relationship together, I felt like a witness to a true spiritual union, as did everyone around them (aside from my friends parents that wanted her to finish school etc first...hence why they took so long to marry). I've always felt touched by their relationship, and its given me something to aspire to as well as faith in love and faith in soul unions. Suffice to say it scares me that anything could shake the two apart. I'm actually conflicted. A part of me thinks they'll work it out or get back together. The other side of me is just starting to doubt it all (which I know is rediculous. I'm not even sure what I hope to gain by posting it. I guess I wonder how often outside factors can disrupt beautiful unions. Maybe some transit aspects at play. Unfortunately I don't know their times of birth. But everything I've read on their birthday comparisons equalled a blissful union. Have you ever felt affected by other couples? I was raised by a single parent, and my grandparents are very private, most my friends parents are divorced. Theirs was always my go-to for inspiration. She's a scorp and he's a cancer. I feel stupid because I hate when people borrow other peoples misfortune like their own. Yet...I just wonder how to process all this. IP: Logged
Lily Knowflake Posts: 111 From: Registered: Mar 2012	posted June 10, 2013 09:26 AM I knew a few people where this happened. They were a couple for like a decade and once they married it was over in under 4 yrs. she cheated on him even though she never cheated on him the entire time they were together. It was bizarre. People change when they get married. It's why I never wanted to marry. If you post their charts and composite ill look to see what transits were going on. IP: Logged
Mystic Melody Moderator Posts: 506 From: IL Registered: Dec 2010	posted June 12, 2013 11:52 PM In the book, The Seat of the Soul by Gary Zukov, he says that certain ideas/words have a certain energy/vibration to them that are basically the idea that an entire society or culture has given to the word... a creation of a word as an entity almost. Gary believes (and I do too now after reading his brilliant work) that we should have a new idea of "marriage" as a spiritual partnership between equals for growth. Those might be his exact words... I read the book so much and underlined so much that I think that is still imprinted in my mind after all of these years. <3 Let your future union be a Soul Union for the purpose of growth. Let any legal contract you enter into for the sake of purchasing a house or whatever be just that, an entry into a legal contract that is just a challenge to conquer in your Spiritual Partnership. Things might have been going wrong for them for a while and one of them pushed the "marriage" idea with the hope of cementing what was falling apart. "in her color portrait world she believes that she's got it all" They are probably meant to take separate paths for their growth because they could not allow each other to grow while together. Life is so messy. IP: Logged

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