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posted June 16, 2013 05:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MissPiscesForever     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
so I have been "in a relationship" with a cancer man. he broke up with me nine months ago because his mom made him (obviously were young) im a Pisces woman with an aquarius moon. so we have been in a relationship. like we won't date anyone else, it's just us until the end. we talk about marriage even sometimes. well I guess sometimes I get scared, and I run away from the relationship. usually if we don't talk for some time, and when I do, I "cheat" on him. I told him once, but this time, his best friend told him, and now he won't talk to me. there's no excuse for what I've done, I feel terrible, and always have, for it, and I love him very very much, but I got scared and didn't want to have to deal with me emotions of depression....and plus its long distance and I got bored. I've had bad relationships before this one, and I'm scared of getting completely broken all over again...why am I feeling this way!? what do I do!!!??

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From: mpls, mn, usa
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posted June 25, 2013 12:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for eyes_like_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Astrologically I think I can speak to this some. I'm a pisces sun with aqua mercury. I love aqua suns. And my best friend is aqua sun pisces moon.

So anyways, its often written that aqua's like there independance and they show affection by giving their partner space, some are afraid of getting close. However, I don't completely agree with this about aqua's. They are a fixed sign (i have a fixed moon too). I think our fixed moons, make it very hard to move on and get over things. We feel things very intensely, both love and heartbreak. Pisces are also known for 'swimming' away when things get too close, probably out of fear of getting hurt and also because they are a mutuable quality. They have a need to be active and experience many things. This does not stop them from loving who their with though. We are romantic and emotional, we do care. And an aqua moon as an air sign probably gives the ability to intellectualize ourselves into thinking it's okayto do things like cheat, until we realize later how we really feel.

Cancers in some ways have a lot in common with what I described. They scuttle from showing their true feelings, and are also afraid of getting hurt. A damaged cancer would probably drive their partner away, before he/she leaves. They're very self protective. Will he be able to understand why you did what you did? Maybe, maybe not. Cancer's feel intensely too and theyre moods and feelings change like the phases of the moon. His emotion and pain may prohibit him from understanding your motives.

All I know is that cheating usually happens for a reason. Something in your relationship is not satisfying you or you don't trust your partner to be faithful to you.

None of what I wrote may make you feel any better. But in my opinion these may be lessons in life that a young pisces/aqua person has to learn. And I do believe that once you recognize the behavior and understand it, you will learn from it.

It's not easy living with guilt but it will stop you from making the same mistakes in the future and find yourself in a more successful and fullfilling relationship.

The right person will come along, and what your feeling will seem like a distant memory that never happened. I truly believe that

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posted July 13, 2013 04:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ltownboogie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Interesting thread. I am a Pisces Sun with Venus in Aquarius, and am currently crushing on a Cancer man..

Our synastry is crazy (lot's of pluto contacts) and we've even joked with one another about this kind of "twin flame/knew you in a past life" feeling we both got when we met and started talking..

We both just ended long/serious relationships with our previous partners, and for more than one reason he has said he doesn't want to be in a serious relationship right now with anyone, so I can already tell that although I am REALLY into him, my fear of being rejected is beginning to surface and I feel like backing off a little bit with contact..

Sun: Pisces
Asc: Leo
Moon: Taurus
Venus: Aquarius
Mars: Taurus

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