posted June 18, 2013 03:13 AM            

Anyway what interests me is why I saw something in a reading about someone's future romantic interest: this person is supposed to be broken hearted or at the very least not happy.

Meanwhile I have been told at length that healing is mandatory for me to get ready for new things. So I was just like is there justice or what?

Perhaps that broken-hearted loser had better undergo therapy as opposed to getting new romance? Why should he be catered to unlike others who allegedly have to wait for the healing process to end?

posted June 23, 2013 03:55 AM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
Hi LL

Anyway what interests me is why I saw something in a reading about someone's future romantic interest: this person is supposed to be broken hearted or at the very least not happy.

Meanwhile I have been told at length that healing is mandatory for me to get ready for new things. So I was just like is there justice or what?

Perhaps that broken-hearted loser had better undergo therapy as opposed to getting new romance? Why should he be catered to unlike others who allegedly have to wait for the healing process to end?

Do different scenarios exist? Why ?

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I think that they do exist. Each person has their own lessons to learn. Maybe the person who is going to find the broken person needs a lesson in learning how to heal people. Or needs to learn to accept people for who they are at all times..uncondiontional love if you will. Being able to love somebody when they are at their worst isn't something all people are capable of doing...therefore they may need the lesson and they learn it by receiving this hurt soul into their heart. Or even a lesson for the hurting person, teaching them to let people in and let people help them when they need it.

On the other hand it could be that an individual is at a point where they need to realize their own strength and self-worth before they are ready to give themselves to someone else.

Not all hurt is the same, or at least doesn't stem from the same place and therefore can't all be resolved the same way..

posted June 23, 2013 07:14 AM            

I am just paranoid, so I permanently make sure everyone else gets their due. It's not really about me at all. Theoretically speaking I believe that broken people are not cut out to give, all they want is their needs satisfied. So it would be selfish on their part to even inflict themselves on another.