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Topic: my scorpio confession about a pisces
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redshift
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posted June 18, 2013 02:27 PM
  
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bumblebee
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posted June 19, 2013 04:34 AM
You really need to read Linda Goodman's Love signs, the part about scorpio and pisces.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted June 19, 2013 09:50 AM
You can read it online for free.IP: Logged |
bumblebee
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posted June 19, 2013 10:45 AM
May you post a link, Randall?Thank you! IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted June 19, 2013 02:29 PM
http://www.scribd.com/doc/75853482/Linda-Goodman-Love-Signs IP: Logged |
bumblebee
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posted June 19, 2013 03:52 PM
sadly the part for scorpio and pisces is not included. Thank you anyway, Randall!Aw I found the whole book
http://sbioak.org/HOROSCOPE2/Linda-Goodman-Love-Signs.pdf IP: Logged |
redshift
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posted June 19, 2013 05:31 PM
Thanks Bumblebee, I read it. And it sounds pretty accurate, even in the confines of a platonic relation, but it doesn't really help me deal with the pain of it all. The pain of being spoken for already. Sadly though, I can not go further and embrace the relationship. I'm married to the Lion. It's so hard to do the right thing, but know that the big love is eluding you. The love of a pisces. Pisces and I were talking about a mundane topic the other day, but our eyes were locked and a whole other conversation silently took place in our gaze while our mouths spoke the words of this and that. Then we just stopped talking and stood there, looking at each other. Helpless to move forward and unable to leave. I shouldn't talk to him. I should stop even the platonic interaction, but I know that I don't have the ability to do that. I just keep telling myself that if it stays platonic, it's ok, it's ok, it's ok. However...clearly it's not. How do I leave the call of the ocean behind and accept life with the lion? That is the question. IP: Logged |
bumblebee
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posted June 20, 2013 12:37 AM
Sadly I can't help you. I am a pisces woman, married to a scorpio and madly in love with another scorpio.IP: Logged |
redshift
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posted June 20, 2013 08:44 AM
Wow. We should talk Bumblebee. Freaking scorpio-pisces vibration. So transcendent if you can go with it and so torturous if you can't. IP: Logged |
jjj
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posted June 22, 2013 05:59 PM
Im Scorpio in my 20ies and I like a lot a Pisces boy, we are in the same college, I cant get him out of my head...IP: Logged |
bumblebee
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posted June 23, 2013 01:01 AM
It's been 4 years, my feelings for the second scorpio totally ruined my marriage, and he keeps a distance no matter that I confessed my feelings for him. Such deep feelings and so strong pull, I felt like my soul belongs to his, passion for him was also so strong, it made me feel physical pain...
Actually I didn't imagine that I would have to go through such horrible pain because I could not be with himAnd I just can't let go IP: Logged |
redshift
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posted June 23, 2013 10:42 AM
Whoa, Bumblebee, listen, I feel your pain, I really do. I wish I had advice or a solution to transcend. The best I can come up with is surrender to the feelings, even if nothing happens in the physical world to channel them, maybe I can at least give myself over to the longing and desire and just be in those feelings and try somehow, to get something out of it for myself. It does feel futile though, when you long for reciprocation and connection. I understand the pain that I think only comes this intense with a Pisces-Scorpio pairing because it is on the deepest, most intense, cosmic level and when that can't be united...it feels like nothing else will ever be right.IP: Logged |
redshift
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posted June 23, 2013 10:50 AM
I don't know if it helps either of you, since I'm a woman, but as a Scorpio, I know that Pisces can seem so elusive and scary, in that we feel we can't possess your souls the way Scorpios like to do. If we aren't sure you reciprocate our intense feelings, even if you say you do, we can bury them and put iron walls around them even though they are still there. Scorpios can feel intense loneliness that no one can ever match their intensity of feeling and so we protect ourselves fiercely and to open up to the flow of Pisces takes a lot of bravery and I think reassurance on the part of the Pisces. I wish I knew how a Pisces man might feel in the situation I'm in with the Pisces of my affections. I wish even more that I knew how he felt but he eludes me. IP: Logged |
bumblebee
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posted June 23, 2013 11:49 AM
Thank you very much for your words Redshift! It really feels like everything is real although there is nothing in reality - no physical connection, almost no real communication.I think you are absolutely right about the scorpio not being sure in me but keeping me at distance doesn't help, I made everything that despite the distance to asure him. Last thing I wrote him was that my heart will never give up on him. I wish I could help with your Pisces guy but I think that Pisces guys are really even more complicated than pisces girls.
I had two scorpio friends madly in love with pisces guys, one of them made the pisces guy leave his fiance and marry her. Actually I think that all pisces, no matter woman or man longs for the scorpio passion. For the deep connection and transcendence (12th house and Neptune) only scorpio can give. IP: Logged |
jjj
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posted June 23, 2013 12:02 PM
I hear you, Bumblebee.IP: Logged |
redshift
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posted June 23, 2013 03:03 PM
That is good advice. It rings true. I sort of almost got there. I was getting defensive and pulling back, until I realized, I will just give up the defense and protection and just love him, openly with kindness and appreciation of who he is and not worry if it makes me seem vulnerable and I saw an instant change too. He was mirroring my defensive behaviour and as soon as I let down my guard, he started approaching me more and being more affectionate in his approach to me (with words, not touch). I still feel a strong boundary in the sand that I am not to cross with him, but I can feel that he is loving me in his own way. I just wish I could have more, but I am going to try to follow your advice more than I have been, and really just try to feel my worth more and be open to giving and receiving love a different way. It's just really hard not being able to dive in all the way...yet?I still get scared sometimes, that he can feel everything I feel toward him and is just trying to allow me to have a bit of him to be nice more than out of reciprocation. He seems like that. He has a lot to give and it doesn't seem to deplete him. Back to the whole being an ocean thing...
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Fiery_Water
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posted August 03, 2013 03:39 AM
I'm a pisces and know what scorpio and pisces have together......Out of this world.... Water w water produces the greatest romantic affairs , and like you said travel together faraway form the world And often lose touch with the ground wwith reality, and become susceptible to illusions , that they can wake up from shocked There s nothing more interesting than a forbidden affair.....allow it, and you'll find it loses a lot of its magic Pisces men are great romaticists .... .bt when the push comesmto shove many of them are unreliable escapists , who can't be easily trusted I know i sound awfully skeptical and negative But I'm a former idealist who s fallen off that castle of dreams too many times and broken my nneck ...
Mystery is sexy
Sexy is lust Lust is not always love IP: Logged |
bumblebee
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posted August 04, 2013 10:04 AM
Uhh what's your point?IP: Logged |
sugarflapjacks
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posted September 02, 2013 11:31 PM
Wow, you guys make this combination sound so awesome. Good for all of you who have experienced it! IP: Logged |
Hera
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posted September 03, 2013 12:03 AM
WELCOME TO LINDALAND, sugarflapjacks!!!!
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sugarflapjacks
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posted September 03, 2013 12:54 AM
Thank you, Hera!
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usc277
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posted March 11, 2014 08:35 AM
the connection is out of this world for real...am a pisces male, the scorpio female doesnt share my feelings...but i swear she does,,a feeling inside tells me she is madly in love...thought she doesnt reply to texts...ignores me..IP: Logged |
usc277
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posted April 10, 2014 07:00 AM
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deleted. it's no use.Sigh, I will try again. I'm married to a soulmate. But he loves me more than I love him.I didn't know that until I felt what it was like to love the Pisces. I respect my Leo and admire him and understand him and trust him. That's why I married him. I thought being loved profoundly and being appreciated and offering myself was the best that could be found. Then I met Pisces. Now I know how it feels to be the one loving profoundly. Even if it can only be expressed platonically. For 2 years I've lived the agony of chanelling my deep love of another through a tiny, tiny stream of platonic respect. I won't cheat. My Leo husband does not deserve it in a million years. I can not stop my love for another, I can only surpress it and try to turn it into something positive. But it's heavy. It's a deep lesson. This Pisces sees into me, I know he does. If I were free, I'm quite sure we would fly to another planet together and never touch earth again, metaphorically of course, but in reality, we can not. In truth he is stronger than me. It's easier because he does not need me. He is his own powerful ocean flowing through life. I am but a scorpion at the shore of him. And my Leo. So warm and generous and sincere. I give him the best that I can, but I can't ever give him what I have for the Pisces and yet, the Pisces does not need what I have like my Leo does. I absorb all the suffering.
am in the same boat,,am the pisces male..she is married to an aires and she is trying to fall in love with him,,trying to forget me..but if i ever call her she always picks up..so i decided to distance myself and let the universe deal with us..but man oh man, this feeling will never be described by a human
its out of this world,,i cant describe the intense feelings..she told me life isnt fair i would have married you had we both been single..
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dadoo
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posted April 10, 2014 03:34 PM
Nice to see that some Scorpios eventually get the mirror thing. It gives me hope  IP: Logged |
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