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DollyMyBaby
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posted June 26, 2013 01:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DollyMyBaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay so here is my Scorpio scenario...hanging with my cuzzo at one of our hang suites she introduces me to a male friend of hers. Handsome, tall, seems to be a cool guy. I can't remember if I danced with him for a sec or not that night but I know I had at a later time. Thing is months later...I've seen him on various occasions where he's flirted with me and has definitely given me the "Scorpion Stare".

So my cuzzo tells me that at some point prior to introducing us to each other they had a fling. Also with another associate that hangs out with us from time to time.

So words is from her...he's not the type that is looking for a relationship however if I felt comfortable with knowing they had once been together...getting my rocks off wasn't too back or complete waste of time. He also stated that he isn't interested in a relationship presently but continues to flirt.

Wellllll...for me that’s not an option...I'd rather be your friend and keep it that way. He and I did exchange numbers at one point in time, always remained cool, calm, and collective when we ran into each since then. He also share per our first convo that he had been with my cuzzo. I give them both brownie points for their honesty....I didn't live in the area when this took place plus they are both like 7-8 yrs older than me.

Anyway...he still is showing some kind of interest in me...asks me how my day is, what my plans are for the evening, etc. So do I sit back and watch to see what he's up to...do I risk the chance of him chasing me because I'm a challenge unlike the others then disappear? I mean what do you do when a man is as FINE as he is? By the way I'm an Aries!!!

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Randall
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posted June 26, 2013 03:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome!

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DollyMyBaby
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posted June 26, 2013 03:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DollyMyBaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you very much Randall.

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eyes_like_pisces
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posted June 27, 2013 01:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for eyes_like_pisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well...you know what Scorpio's are notorious for! Of course that's just a stereotype. If I were you is try to learn his Venus and mars signs.

You could just be straight with him and say your not looking for a fling (if you haven't already). If he keeps persuing you...you might stand a Chance. Though I don't know if it would really be worth it. If someone is enjoying the single life too much and finds themselves in a relationship too soon, chances are they'd resent their partner for it later.

Can a Scorpio change their minds from lust to love? I think so. I'm a scorp asc and moon (conj Pluto). Personally speaking, I have done the not-serious thing. But it wasn't what I truly wanted. It was just what worked at the time, because finding someone truly worth are time and deep devotion is rare.

I guess I don't really have an answer for you, but hopefully this helped.

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DollyMyBaby
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posted June 27, 2013 01:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DollyMyBaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well I've made it very clear that it goes no further than just being friends and NOT friends with benefits. Not my cup of tea but as I said...don't know if he is willing to change his ways on account of me.

Guess only time will tell but I'm not gonna worry myself over it.

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