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grayblue
Newflake

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From: Orlando, FL, USA
Registered: Oct 2010

posted August 05, 2013 11:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for grayblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi everyone! Grab some popcorn, here goes the story:

I am on vacation in Europe for the summer visiting some family. A few weeks ago I get an online message from a friend. Actually, he is my brother's college roommate whom my family adopted every holiday since his family lives in south america, and I've known him for years.
The first message read "should I marry you?" and I thought this guy is either drunk or he sent this to the wrong person! So I send some funny reply back, as if he was joking. Well, he wasn't, because after that came a few other "flirting" messages. I asked him what was going on, and he finally told me he has had a crush on me for years but didn't have the courage to talk to me because of my brother and the family (!!!)
After that we started chatting. He said he couldn't stop thinking about me, sent a few more cute messages saying how beautiful he thinks I am, but then it stopped. I mean, we still talk online but about work, my brother, Europe (he lived in Paris for a year), or him moving back to the US (I forgot to mention he has been living with his family in S. America since April).

So I was wondering what does a Taurus (me) does in this situation regarding a Scorpio (him). I had never thought of him this way before but now that he started I can't stop thinking of him. I mean, I've known him for a long time but for some reason it never hit me how we like the same music, book, have similar degrees, etc.

Why would he come out with "Marry me" and then just fade away?

So confused!!

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SDragon
Knowflake

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From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Registered: Sep 2012

posted August 05, 2013 02:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SDragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Scorpio's are intense people. They feel strongly and also fear rejection. He's most likely afraid that you don't feel the same way towards him and is pulling back for self-preservation. It took a lot of courage for him to say anything most likely and based on your responses is confused or afraid that you won't feel the same.

The difference between Scorpio energy and Taurus is that Scorpio gets hit strongly with what they feel they want and need whereas for a Taurus, it gradually creeps up on us, until we're able to find a place for it in our lives - then we don't want to live without it. (Taurus sun/venus here)

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grayblue
Newflake

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From: Orlando, FL, USA
Registered: Oct 2010

posted August 05, 2013 04:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for grayblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SDragon:
Scorpio's are intense people. They feel strongly and also fear rejection. He's most likely afraid that you don't feel the same way towards him and is pulling back for self-preservation. It took a lot of courage for him to say anything most likely and based on your responses is confused or afraid that you won't feel the same.


Thanks! That makes sense. I was careful trying not to scare him away...much... but I was also pretty honest with him. I didn't know he felt this way about me and I really won't know what I feel about him until we see each other again. Over the computer is all fun and all, but this is a guy I've always known as a friend and I'm not sure what will happen when we are face to face.

So confused right now! Argh! I just really don't want him to give up on me because I do feel like this could work between us.

I'm just a bit inpatient. And we are a few continents apart right now.

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