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AmelieRose81
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posted November 15, 2013 08:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
HI l am new here.

ad a confusing situation with a pisces man.

Tell me about him...what's he like?

Sun is in 13 Degrees Pisces.

Moon is in 11 Degrees Aquarius.

Mercury is in 20 Degrees Aquarius.

Venus is in 04 Degrees Pisces.

Mars is in 19 Degrees Pisces.

Jupiter is in 08 Degrees Libra.

Saturn is in 08 Degrees Libra.

Uranus is in 00 Degrees Sagittarius.

Neptune is in 24 Degrees Sagittarius.

Pluto is in 23 Degrees Libra.

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SparklingSag
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posted November 16, 2013 03:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello

I recently was with a pisces/aquarius/libra energy man....he was a little changeable in his emotions at times and seemed to "think a lot", was soft and sweet.

What sign are you?

Sparkling

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AmelieRose81
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posted November 16, 2013 05:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SparklingSag:
Hello

I recently was with a pisces/aquarius/libra energy man....he was a little changeable in his emotions at times and seemed to "think a lot", was soft and sweet.

What sign are you?

Sparkling



Hello I am


sun and moon: Taurus
rising: libra
Mercury: aries
Venus: gemini
Mars: Leo
Jupiter: cancer
Saturn: Leo
Uranus: scorpio
neptune: saggitarius
Pluto: libra


He is sweet and changeable, thinks a lot and also quite moody when we met.

He did pisces disappearing act I keep hearing about.

he was just out of a long term relationship when I met him and in a mess with his career. he was quite negative. I don't know if it was him or his circumstances that made him that way.

I'm sad I might never see him again.


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Doux Rêve
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posted November 17, 2013 08:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Amelie, welcome to the forum!


What exactly is the problem with that Pisces guy? Is he wishy-washy with you?

It could be Uranus or Neptune in your synastry, your Venus is in Gemini and his Uranus and Neptune are in Sagittarius, possibly making an opposition to your Venus - that could explain the "on and off" vibe (if that's the problem).

Your Gemini Venus probably makes some squares to his Pisces planets and that could point to you feeling unappreciated by him or his actions.

The solution is to communicate honestly, I think.

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AmelieRose81
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posted November 17, 2013 01:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The problem is kinda long:

I met this pisces man online. Our first date didn't go too well, mainly because he was quite shy and dorky.

The next time we met was much better, lovely date, drinks, dinner and I ended up going home with him as I warmed up to him and it felt right.

He blew hot and cold with a lot though. He enjoyed the time we spent together but seemed almost scared to go for it. I had to take the lead and suggest things. He was flaky, saying he'd want to do something and not get round to it.

He had job problems: he had a good job for years but decided he needed a new challenge. His new job was awful & made him depressed. He was between jobs when we met. He seemed happy at the unknown and about what was to come. He kept saying to me he was looking forward to getting his career & his life back on track & then he could focus on me.

Our dates were very sweet. He took me for dinner, made me dinner at home, we went to art galleries, had a similar sense of humour, he made me drinks at home, we watched comedy shows & really laughed together.

He got another job when we were together & he made us a celebratory dinner the weekend before he started. He was happy & looking forward to it. He texted me the first week he started & he seemed ok. It went down hill very quickly as the new job was bad too. His mood got low when he started his new job & instead of getting the same sweet texts, I got worried ones about his job. It was his 3rd job in a year  & he was very worried. He was working 12 -13 hour shifts daily, was too tired to do anything at weekends or evenings and I understood that & never pressured him to see me.

I was sympathetic & listened to him & tried to make him feel better. He seemed to be ok when I saw him & we settled down for drinks / dinner. He would always ask how I was & showed a genuine interest in me. He was very gentle and sweet when we were together.

We had a lovely date a few weeks ago. He'd been having a rough time at work with long hours. He was up at 5am & not getting out if work until 7pm or later. He stayed in touch by text for days after our lovely last date. Then he vanished on me for nearly a week. He told me he.was having a bad week and then he vanished.

I finally asked him on text what was wrong and he text me back and said work was awful & he was not in the right frame of mind for dating anyone.

I was upset so probed further and asked did he mean not now or ever and he then said I'm a great person but he's in a bad place with his job and life and didn't want to date. He suggested he wasn't madly in love with me but we had like 5 dates ....its too early to be madly in love.

Do you think his issues stopped him feeling anything for me as he had too much going on and was too soon out of a relationship? Or do you think it was too soon after his break up and he couldn't take it?

He was also only 3 months out of a four year relationship with a depressed woman when we met. Their relationship was very dysfunctional and they broke up twice.

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airfairy
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posted December 03, 2013 02:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for airfairy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
AVOID AVOID AVOID.

Even if you think you are emotionally capable of handling a Pisces man, you aren't.

Pisces men need to be HELLA evolved, self-aware, and educated about their sensitivity. In our patriarchal culture, Pisces men seldom get the chance to evolve this way. Therefor, getting involved with a Pisces man will bring confusion, anguish, and possible mental issues.

I know this from experience.

The Pisces man has the capability of making you feel like his Saviour, his only reason to live. He is excellent at this. But no matter how much love you give him, it will not be enough, unless he is already working very hard to battle the watery mistrust and insecurity of his nature.

AVOID AVOID AVOID.

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Aquarius Sun, Taurus Moon
Venus in Pisces, Mars in Cancer
Aries Rising <3

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Haplesschild*
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posted December 03, 2013 05:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wouldn't date a guy who has three pisces placements...And a Aqua moon as well?

Wishy wishy, changeable, probably manipulative, chances of cheating is high as he has 3 Pisces placements, distant due to the moon. Avoid.

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Doux Rêve
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posted December 03, 2013 08:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol poor Pisces guys.

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jjj
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posted December 04, 2013 05:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for jjj     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by airfairy:
... unless he is already working very hard to battle the watery mistrust and insecurity of his nature.

I ve experienced the same.

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Randall
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posted December 04, 2013 11:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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