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HPDBlue
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posted November 24, 2013 07:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HPDBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Doux Rêve
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posted November 25, 2013 05:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, Blue.


Welcome to the forum.


Your story sounds intriguing... I'm curious.

We don't have a PM function unfortunately so you can't send the data via PM.
You'll have to either post it here and then remove it (edit your post) or send it via email.

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posted November 25, 2013 11:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for HPDBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello Doux Rêve :-)

Thank you for your reply and curiosity , and for the welcome.

Okay, I'll post a link to the image here. Will take it down when I get home from work today.

Hope the image works- If not I'll try something different. I am curious which aspect might be contributing to the energies I described in my original post?

I really appreciate your efforts! If you need anymore information please let me know ;-)

Many thanks,
M

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posted November 25, 2013 11:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for HPDBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oops, Almost forgot.

I am the person in the inner ring of the chart.


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posted November 25, 2013 02:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted November 25, 2013 02:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi again, M.


You two are Scorpio Suns. That alone makes for some intensity, haha.

Saturn/DSC
North Node/IC
Venus/Neptune
Venus/ASC
Aaaaand their Moon square your Jupiter/Pluto
Venus opposite Saturn
Mars opposite Jupiter/Pluto
Mars in 5H
Jupiter/Pluto conj.DSC
Pluto/MC
Sun/Mercury double whammy

... probably forgot some.

OOOOH only just now noticed the Venus/Pluto square.
Okay that's it, that explains it all, hahaha.

What exactly is your "relationship status"? Are you guys dating? Friends?

Just read about Venus/Pluto, Mars/Pluto and Venus/Neptune and you'll get it.
Venus/Saturn as well and Saturn in the 7H.

Uhh what can I say.
That's what happens with Pluto, m'dear.
I don't know if there's a way to escape it (prolly not, when you look at all the threads titled "Venus/Pluto").

You say you're basically losing your mind over this person. Try to look deeper into the why. What is it, that they have and that you deeply desire? Usually obsessions are caused by some sort of projected "need" - the other person seems to have that something that we desperately want and become fixated on them until we 'get it' (whatever it is, usually affection, love, acceptance, passion, yada yada).

Enjoy the ride, I suppose?
If things aren't toxic and you are able to be honest with each other and have the same expectations, why not?

Can't comment further since I don't know what things are like between you two.

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posted November 25, 2013 10:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HPDBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted November 25, 2013 10:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HPDBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, I read a little on Saturn/DSC. I understand better.

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posted November 26, 2013 05:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi again, M.


Sorry I took ages to reply.

The " / " is used for "conjunction" (that's the way I use it here).

It can just mean "aspect" - meaning, two planets are "interacting" with each other.


You don't know what you want from her?
Well, that's pretty complicated, isn't it...
Uhh. I wish I could tell you something but I really don't know what to tell you, because I know what that feels like and have never been able to find a "solution" to this.

Maybe things will unfold naturally?
Some people say that what's meant to be will always find a way.

It sounds like you're experiencing massive physical attraction but it goes beyond that.
The reason?
I have no idea, I am sorry.

All I know is that, you're not the only person to feel that way.
There are plenty of other people who've been there. Maybe that could reassure you a bit.

Scorpios are pretty resilient, so whatever happens... it won't destroy you, okay?
Don't be afraid, and stand strong.
Always have an inner anchor that you can fall back on if things go awry.

And maybe just try to get to know each other.
I'm sure it's gonna be interesting and breath-taking, haha.


Best of luck!
Keep us updated!

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posted November 26, 2013 05:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh and, ASC = Ascendant (the cusp of the 1st house, which represents our body and personality, our "self" - the way we present ourselves to the world)
DSC = Descendant (the cusp of the 7th house, the house of relationships and partnerships)

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posted November 26, 2013 07:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HPDBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just reading your words has offered me relief. Thank you so much for your support and patience.

After reading your post I read a little bit from one of my aspect books and fell asleep. Had a dream about an old gold pocket watch that looked a little steam-punkish. Very intricate and beautiful. I opened it up and the entire inside was made of gears shaped in the saturn symbol. As I was admiring it, I heard a rhythmic tic-tic-CLICK. tic-tic-CLICK. On each CLICK the saturn symbol would magically transform into the mars symbol. I was amazed at it's intricacies . Maybe I'm reading too many books before bed! lol

Before I get too deep too quickly, might I ask you something specific about our charts?

Are there any aspects on her end that might indicate what she is experiencing through all this? I know it's easier to ask her specifically, but sometimes even we don't know what's going on- (I'm a perfect example! lol)

I will keep you updated, and also search the forum for others who have had similar experiences with these aspects.

Much Love,
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posted November 26, 2013 07:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think she's very intrigued and can probably feel the intensity / pull on some level, but the fact that your Moon doesn't aspect her placements (not within tight orbs, at least) makes me think that she doesn't quite know about your feelings or has a hard time feeling "connected" to you on an emotional level (could be due to the fact that you aren't very decided about your intetions towards her).

If you act shy / withdrawn or emotionally closed off around her, that's not going to help, in my opinion.

Your Mars also doesn't make major aspects to her placements. That could imply that she doesn't feel your attraction to her well, maybe you appear passive or too calm... It doesn't have to be that way of course, but that's the first thing that comes to mind.
She may not feel your "masculine" side (apologies if you're a woman).


Ps. That dream sounds friggin' awesome. Wish I could have cool dreams like that!


Okay I gotta go.
See ya later x

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posted November 27, 2013 09:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HPDBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you! I'm reading more about the aspects. You've been a great help!

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posted November 28, 2013 06:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for HRH-FishAreFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi HPD,

I read what you wrote about what you have going on. I missed the chart you posted, although I wish I would've caught it because I'm going through pretty much the same thing with a Scorpio male. The first time I looked into the windows of his soul, I felt like my entire being slammed into a brick wall...and maybe, even if for just an instant, my chakras snapped into perfect alignment. The more I get to know him the more I like what I see(usually it's the other way around...the more I know the less I like). He seemed pretty interested too and both of us sending out a vibe that said, "I don't know what this intriguing energy is all about, but I want to find out." Our interactions were playful, flirty, and even silly, which I thought it was an especially good sign a Scorpio male would feel so comfortable to be silly so quickly. Anyways making a long story short (I don't want to hijack your thread)... But, that is exactly what I feel happened, HPD! "Kindly excuse me while I go control myself. I need to double-triple lock myself in my chest now."

I have Scorpio rising so you can apply pretty much ALL what you said about an obsession with the situation. Other than being something I wanted to explore, I hadn't yet decided what kind of association I was seeking to develop either. But now without a timely return message from him, I feel like the weight of the chest he locked himself is sitting on my chest. I'm in this funk now and shake it off. I don't have very much experience in any type of relationship with Scorpio men, although I was specifically looking to change that. Do you think I have no hope and should just pray for a bad case of amnesia? Or is there a secret, magic key hidden somewhere? Or a way to pick those big shiny locks and coax him back out to play with me again?

From what I've heard, Scorpio-Pisces compatibility is pretty epic and I've done a fair amount of reading on the subject. I thought just maybe since you're a Scorpio in Hilo you especially might have some LIght to shine on my situation.


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Maui's magic fish-hook is thrown into the skies, where it continuously hangs, the curved tail of the constellation which we call Scorpio. Then one of the gods becoming angry with Maui seized him and threw him also among the stars. There he stays looking down upon his people. He has become a fixed part of the Scorpion itself.

The Hawaiian myths sometimes represent Maui as trying to draw the islands together while fishing them out of the sea. When they had pulled up the island of Kauai they looked back and were frightened. They evidently tried to rush away from the new monster and thus broke the line. Maui tore a side out of the small crater Kaula when trying to draw it to one of the other islands. Three aumakuas, three fishes supposed to be spirit-gods, guarded Kaula and defeated his purpose. At Hawaii Cocoanut Island broke off because Maui pulled too hard. Another place near Hilo on the large island of Hawaii where the hook was said to have caught is in the Wailuku river below Rainbow Falls.

http://www.donch.com/LULH/mdg.htm


Btw. I like your username...are you a real police officer?

I'm just assuming from your username, but nonetheless I made up an astrological policeman joke for you...


Did you heard the one about the police officer who was moonlighting as an astrologer?
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He was accused of astrological profiling.



Kind of corny, isn't it?

Welcome to the LL forums and thank you in advance for any help or insight you may have on Pisces-Scorpio relationships.

Peace , LOve & Bobby Sherman ,
HRH
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posted November 28, 2013 11:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Why did your Scorpio turn cold, HRH?
What happened?

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posted November 28, 2013 04:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HPDBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted November 28, 2013 04:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HPDBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you have a synastry chart with your Scorpio? I'd like to see, if you'd be willing to share.

Here is the link again- I'll take it back down later =)

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posted November 29, 2013 03:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for HRH-FishAreFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know you don't want it up, so just letting you know I got the link, if you want to take it back down now. Thanks!

I'll be back after I look this over AND after I recharge & rest esp. after all the Thanksgiving hoopla and waking up with a nasty cold this morning ughhh. Pretty sure everyone here is either getting a cold, has a cold, getting over a cold, or just got over a cold.

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posted December 03, 2013 07:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HRH-FishAreFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi again HPD,

I'm going to start off with your issue because sometimes helping other people especially those pure of heart and intent can help you with solving your own issues. I looked at the chart you posted and you say you are "trying to survive this intensity"...it's just I think instead you might want to ask yourself, "Would I survive this intensity?"

Similar to Pisces-Pisces, Scorpio-Scorpio relationships tend to be awesome in the beginning while pair-bonding and during the honeymoon period, but negative traits of the Water signs tend to magnify themselves into stormy seas and lashing waves.

The one big difference is when Pisces have their differences they might angrily swim around each other in the fish bowl and then ignore each other, silent treatment, the evil (fish) eye, etc. But, when Scorpio couples have differences it can be pretty ugly...both trying to sting the other, both stubborn, tenacious and unrelenting. Next thing you know the neighbors are calling 911 on them both. If I were you...I would have genuine concerns over the possibility that in the future the whole department would know every time you two were arguing and more than likely the female Scorpio would be victorious in this battle of evermore.

While two Scorpios in battle can definitely scare the neighbors, I personally think (to the detriment of the Pisces Merman) Cancer Woman-Pisces Man combination is more dangerous when it comes to lover's quarrels amongst the Water signs. In the heat of an argument an angry Mood Maiden could be tempted to try to filet her Pisces Merman. For example (and believe me I have quite a few examples), this Cancerian Moon Maiden and Pisces Merman couple I knew--one time while they were arguing (which they did often) she pushed him, he fell back, crashed into the glass-top coffee table in their living room, and he ended up in the hospital with quite a few stiches in his aft end.

Anyways, I would be cautious because even the smallest of issues can provoke turbulence between two Scorpios and spiral down hill from there. Scorpios might actually even enjoy the roller coaster ride--at first--until they realize the coaster car is speeding so fast neither can escape the g-forces of the ride--and in extreme cases the entire amusement park, roller coaster and all, gets sucked up into a vicious drama vortex.

I'm pretty mum about it around here because I'm sure many people would disagree with me and then I'd have to exert my precious Piscean energy to defending myself and methods, but I like to keep my astrology pretty simple. In personal matters, such as personal relationships, I place more emphasis on the personal planets (of which Saturn is not). I also put more emphasis on the relationship between the actual placement of Luminaries and Planets in the Signs rather than the precise angular measurements between them. (Did that make sense?) Imagine for a moment that a chart is a growing tree, wouldn't an important part to consider be the trunk and main branches? If leaves fall off or teeny branches break off in the wind the tree can still live and thrive. However, if the foundation of the tree is not strong it could be easily damaged or destroyed by dis-ease and the elements (bad weather).

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I have a horoscope app I like and I thought you might be interested in thier take on basic compatibility...

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Scorpio and Scorpio compatibility:
The two of you are a perfect match. You have the same traits and share the same way of thinking. You possess the same kind of passion, which will naturally draw you to each other. Your similarities will make you very endearing to each other. You are so fond of each other that you literally want to spend every waking moment together. Despite your mutual attraction, you may still run into some problems due to the fact, that you are both very strong willed individuals. Both of you are very controlling, extremely demanding and overly possessive. If you overcome your hotheaded nature, compromise and work out your problems, your relationship can grow into a long lasting partnership. You know each other so well that you are able to understand each other's weaknesses and work as a team to support one another. Beware of your possessive nature. You both require undivided attention and loyalty from each other and the smallest issue could make you suspicious. This might stifle your relationship, unless you chose to trust your partner completely and leave no room for doubts.

I wouldn't want to threaten you with a good time or anything, but compare that to what they say about basic Scorpio-Pisces compatibility.

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Scorpio and Pisces compatibility:
The relationship between Scorpio and Pisces is almost magical. It is full of amazing love and passion for each other. Pisces will accept you as you are and work with your flaws for the greater benefit of the relationship. Pisces will understand and touch you in a way, that no one else has before. Their ability to accept you just the way you are will definitely make you fall in love with Pisces. On the other hand, your practical approach to life and your no-nonsense attitude is what Pisces requires in a mate to make sure that Pisces's wild imagination does not get the best of them. Pisces tends to be overly emotional, and you will therefore need to carefully watch what you say. Scorpio will help Pisces to see things practically, rather than emotionally, in order to avoid some of the unnecessary heartache that seems to hunt Pisces. The compassionate nature of Pisces will counter the demanding and controlling nature of Scorpio and lead to an understanding between the two of you. The kind of love that Scorpio and Pisces have is the undying kind and no matter what happens, you will still hold on to each other.

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Pisces and Scorpio compatibility:
Scorpio has a strong emotional depth and a vast comprehension of sentimental values. This makes them very compatible with Pisces, since you are a sympathetic and sentimental individual. Pisces and Scorpio are perfect mind readers and have a way of identifying feelings and thoughts of each other. They are also sensitive and intuitive and apply feelings to complex issues. If you believe in soul mates, a suitable Scorpio partner is the closest thing you'll ever find. Pisces is always accurate when they base decisions on first impressions rather than on after thoughts, so if there is a Scorpio that seems right for you -- go for it, this relationship is very unlikely to fail. Scorpio can offer much needed protection to Pisces. Pisces is vulnerable to manipulation. It is quite easy for others to take advantage of their kind heart. Pisces should also be very aware of subtleties in their Scorpio partner. Scorpio's protection may suddenly turn into control. At the same time, Pisces may resort to escapism in order to avoid some of the harsh realities of life, when they feel overwhelmed with issues. Since Scorpio is more independent than Pisces, they are always there to offer a shoulder to lean on. Both of these signs usually have a wide range of interests: music, dancing, artistic pursuits, fishing, swimming or boating and many other similar activities. In the bedroom it is an excellent match as well, since Scorpio loves the way Pisces treat the love making as an almost sacred act. Even though it might be tempting to give in to the sensuality of Scorpio, if you are not serious about the relationship, it is best to avoid it or defer until you have a better idea about where the romance is headed. Once Scorpio made love to someone, he expects faithfulness and claims ownership of that person, which may obviously lead to some problems, if you don't plan to get seriously involved.
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Which brings me to one of my main concerns about Scorpio men. I cohabitated with a Pisces while I was in high school and college(my dad died of cancer when I was a teenager & I moved out shortly after). My Pisces boyfriend at the time had a close Scorpio buddy (partner-in-crime was more like it...smh) who was frequently over to our house and hung out with us when we went out. I was usually pretty busy with school, taking summer classes, 18 plus credits at a time and still getting straight A's, so I know I wasn't keeping a good eye on what those two were doing. Then one summer I kept coming home from school and they would be at the house and his Scorpio buddy was just getting out of our shower. By the third or fourth time I finally asked my boyfriend, "Did he loose his apartment or something? Did his (Cancerian) wife kick him out? Why does he keep taking showers at our house?"

My ex-Merman's reply, "Oh, he's just cheating on his wife.

Of course my next question was, "So, are you taking showers at his house?"

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That was definitely a Scorpio experience that made me leery of Scorpio men. I'm not sure if this Scorpio's behavior a product of youth? Or do they lean towards promiscuity and untruthfulness while expecting absolute faithfulness from their 'main squeeze'? Do Scorpio men typically go through their man wh*re days running around waving their magic wand all over the place? Do they eventually mellow out with age and experience? And if they do age like a fine wine or cheese, how would you know-know for certain whether they are still sl*ts or not?

Btw. I like your Gemini Moon. I have one too.

LOve ,
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posted December 05, 2013 12:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HRH-FishAreFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've been thinking a lot about what you said about testing, M, and now I'm really worried about passing. You'd think since Fish travel in schools we'd be really good at tests. What if want so badly to make this Scorpio's heart my fish bowl that I get nervous and choke? I think I have test anxiety. I wish I had a study guide. Technically speaking, it seems more like 'pop quizzes' to me.

Btw. I'm still sick. Started off with three days of constant sneezing, then three days of green snot (how festive!), and now finally a fever accompanied with chills, body aches and sore throat. I haven't been this sick in a long, long time. Curling back up in bed now... . I'll be back to take you up on that invitation to hijack your thread...

HRH

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posted December 06, 2013 02:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for HPDBlue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi there Fish
Haha Interesting "Would I survive this intensity?"
It's intense yes, and we aren't perfect; but we have come a long way , faced a lot of challenges and transmuted so much .
I have learned that all of my emotional reactions stem from myself, that any triggers I might have with anyone else is my own patterning. I own my own emotions and do not blame others for how I feel. This helps a lot as far as stubbornness, tenacity and arguing. In fact, we are so cautious of hurting the other that there is a tendency to freeze and keep silent a little too often lol

Perhaps there are enough aspects in there somewhere that the scorpio intensity is defused just enough in just the right places to make it palatable.

I like that you keep astrology simple. For now I'm a beginner, I keep it simple as well, because it's all I can handle at the moment- my poor brain lol

Your tree analogy is interesting. I agree. It's lots of fun to analyze all those little leaves though...lol


I enjoy researching all of the planets, especially Saturn and Pluto. Many of my personal relationships are tied to my career, where I definitely feel Saturn has it's role and deeply affects my personal relationships. As far as transformation and getting to the bottom of deeply rooted blocks, I've learned that Pluto really has it's firm hand in there and is perfectly willing to work with Saturn to toss me on my butt over and over until I "get it" lol. The result leaves me with a bruised butt and a more stable and mature approach on how I handle relationships.

Wow I'm sorry that you had that experience regarding the Scorpio man . Cheating is no fun, I've been cheated on by many different signs. It's hard to say if the cheating comes just from their sun sign. I would imagine that there are several other factors to consider , other planets and aspects and elements which might indicate a tendency to be untruthful and cheat. For myself, I have never cheated on someone and never will.

Has something else happened between you and your Scorp? When was the last time you two spoke with each other? It's ok, I have test anxiety too lol

Aww..I'm sorry you are sick I hope you feel better so you can hurry back for some thread hijacking

Well it's time for me to drift into "reality" land. ZzzZzz
Sending you good vibes and hope you feel better soon~
Aloha~~
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posted December 12, 2013 08:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for HRH-FishAreFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Scorpio in Blue,

The Scorpio from the past was a triple Scorpio with his Sun, Moon, Rising Sign and Mercury in Scorpio. That's a lot of Underworld (in all it's definitions) for one chart...perhaps that makes a big difference...and then with Venus and Mars in Sagittarius.

And he didn't cheat on me (I didn't let that happen), but shortly after I caught on to the shower shenanigans he propositioned me (while I was pregnant...Scorpio life/death fascination?), after which I promptly called his wife and informed her that he had been taking showers at my house and had propositioned me. She served him divorce papers. He later thanked me for helping him get out of a relationship he wasn't happy in. I didn't know it for a long time, but I came to find out that he did know quite a bit about astrology and past-life stuff. In retrospect, I'm pretty sure he secretly watched me, tested me, and then methodically stalked me.

Since we're keeping record...my ex-Merman's positions:
Sun - Pisces
Moon - Scorpio
ASC - Sagittarius
Mercury - Pisces
Venus - Pisces
Mars - Aries

It was my opinion that they were not only toxic to themselves, but also to each other as friends. Anyways, I can only request that people "do the good-right-thing" for so long before I need to dismiss them from my company. I'm certain they're both in 'the system' at your work.

With the new apple-of-my-eye Scorpio, I'm not 100% certain of the accuracy, but I think I have his birthday (I'm shy too and didn't want to ask to verify or get a time). The Moon moved from Gemini into Cancer on the date I have. Btw. one of the many things I like about him is I think he's a person who tries to "do the good-right-thing".

PS. I've studied Scorpions, their habitat, habits (hiding from the world)...and how beautifully they fluoresce neon-blue under the moonlit glow of a black light...very magical!

Awww...

I saw your list of signs you attract, been in relationships with, "played" with, etc...and I thought it was interesting that if you replaced all your Scorpios with Pisces, my list is pretty much identical. (Lately, it seems I've been particularly attracting Leos.)

I was thinking, HPD, and it occurred to me...maybe as Scorpios and Pisces are hiding from the world in their respective caves that a chance meeting of the pair would be like two ships passing in the night. What do you think?

"Ships that pass in the night, and speak each other in
passing, only a signal shown, and a distant voice in the
darkness; So on the ocean of life, we pass and speak one
another, only a look and a voice, then darkness again and
a Silence. "

~ Henry Wadsworth Longfellow (February 27, 1807 - March 24, 1882)

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posted December 12, 2013 06:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HRH-FishAreFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Why did your Scorpio turn cold, HRH?
What happened?

I'm not sure, Doux Rêve...maybe I turned cold and he silent. My mom, a super smart Gemini, was married to a Scorpio for a long time and I asked her one day why I keep seeing so many Scorpios paired with Geminis when they are supposed to be so compatible with Pisces. She stopped wiping the counter, looked up at me, and said, "I think it's because Scorpios are only truly happy when they are miserable."

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The song is about unfulfilled attractions, saying that these are normal and commonplace ("We want everyone - no one is to blame"). It uses a number of metaphors, such as "You can look at the menu, but you just can't eat" and "It's the last Piece of the puzzle, but you just can't make it fit," to describe the frustration of experiencing attraction but being unable to act on it, for whatever reason. On a deeper level it describes the pain of all unfulfilled desires and dreams inherent in the human condition.

*Howard Jones (born 23 February 1955) is an English musician, singer and songwriter.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/No_One_Is_to_Blame


No One Is To Blame - Howard Jones

You can look at the menu, but you just can't eat
You can feel the cushion, but you can't have a seat
You can dip your Foot in the pool, but you can't have a swim
You can feel the punishment, but you can't commit the sin

And you want her, and she wants you
We want everyone
And you want her and she wants you
No one, no one, no one ever is to blame
You can build a mansion, but you just can't live in it
You're the fastest runner but you're not allowed to win
Some break the rules, and let you cut the cost
The insecurity is the thing that won't get lost

You can see the summit but you can't reach it
It's the last Piece of the Puzzle but you just can't make it fit
Doctor says you're cured but you still feel the pain
Aspirations in the clouds but your hopes go down the drain

No one ever is to blame, No one ever is to blame

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pekhxxngQ3s

LOve & LIght ,
HRH

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Got the Wings of Heaven on my Shoes. I'm a dancin man and I just can't lose. You know it's all right. Its ok. I'll live to see another day. We can try to understand the New York Times' effect on man. Whether you're a Brother or whether you're a Mother, you're stayin' alive, stayin' alive.

Stayin' Alive ~ The Bee Gees

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posted March 25, 2014 12:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HRH-FishAreFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aloha HPDBlue,

I think about you every so often, wondering how you're doing, and how things are going with you and your Scorpio gal. I hope all is well on Pluto.

I am happy to report to you that the situation with my Scorpio guy has improved dramatically.

And you had asked before about his natal chart and I didn't know, but he did give me his birth information and I know now.

I thought it pretty interesting that...
I'm a Pisces and he has Pisces Rising...he's a Scorpio and I have Scorpio Rising...
And we both have Mercurial Moons...
Mine in Gemini and his in Virgo.

Anyways, I hope you get my message and I hear back from you. Until then, warmest regards & best wishes, Scorpio...

With LOve & LIght ,
HRH

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Got the Wings of Heaven on my Shoes. I'm a dancin man and I just can't lose. You know it's all right. Its ok. I'll live to see another day. We can try to understand the New York Times' effect on man. Whether you're a Brother or whether you're a Mother, you're stayin' alive, stayin' alive.

Stayin' Alive ~ The Bee Gees

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