posted January 15, 2014 05:36 PM            

I used to be with a libra man about 3 years. We were solid but he left for the military in the states on the third year. Thats when things got extremely complicated and very frustrating for the both of us.

That year, 2012, we both did things that hurt eachother. And I really complained about it with my family n close friends. I will admit, I let my negative emotions take over n said really horrid things. But after some time, I realize I was terrible for being so awful and learned not to ever do that again or even others. I took the time to better myself and always be mindful of my actions.

During the end of that year, the holidays, he came to visit but I could sense he was different and we argued. I thought we made up n everything was okay. But after he left, I found out he cheated on me. I was devastated.

Fast forward a few months and we were talking again n doing well. (He was still taken but we kept a respectful distance)Then he came to visit again and after a few events he broke up with his gf. Then he said he didnt feel our spark but wanted to try.

Recently, his ex went on his fb and saw my convo with him. He was furious and wanted to get back. He asked to use my fb and I let him because I trusted him. Eventually, I felt something was off n I talked to him tge next day. He had found the old convos of when I was angry with him.

posted January 18, 2014 08:55 PM            

I know it must be emotionally stressful and I hope you find a way to work though it and learn from your experience. I think this man will just bring you more pain. Remember that the opposite of love is not hate... it is indifference. If he has so much emotion toward this woman that he felt the need to use your account to "get back at her" then he is not detached from his feelings for her at all. He also won't handle your mistakes kindly. He is now involved in an extremely messy and sad way with BOTH of you. I pray you have the strength to go your own way and to find your own peace.