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JustAmanda1216
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posted March 28, 2014 10:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda1216     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
and I feel GOOD things on it's way to me in the ways of love...

So that said...

*sprinkles Happiness all over Soul Unions*

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Dancing Maenad
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posted March 28, 2014 11:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dancing Maenad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's the spirit!!

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~the raving one dancing in the nude~

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usc277
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posted April 25, 2014 06:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for usc277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by JustAmanda1216:
and I feel GOOD things on it's way to me in the ways of love...

So that said...

*sprinkles Happiness all over Soul Unions*



So, was that feeling legit ?

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JustAmanda1216
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posted April 25, 2014 12:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda1216     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
for a fleeting moment...and now it's gone again. and it just sucks.

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usc277
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posted April 25, 2014 01:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for usc277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by JustAmanda1216:
for a fleeting moment...and now it's gone again. and it just sucks.

What's the story behind that "feeling"

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JustAmanda1216
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posted April 25, 2014 04:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda1216     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well...I guess because the Aries that I have had my eye on for about a year now, was talking to me and making plans for us to go out...but then, just like he came into my life, he kinda disappeared just the same...we work in the same place, so I know he's around but talking to me? Not at this time...and this is what he does...he's hot, he's cold. He shows extreme interest in seeing me and the next thing I know, poof! He's no where to be found.

And it's not like we are teenagers in high school playing stupid games...I'm 43 yrs old and he's 59 yrs old. So I'm just not getting him at all and being a Sag, I MUST know what is going on. In his head that is. And I *don't* know what I've done, IF anything, to cause this. But this is about the 3rd time in a year that he's done this to me so I think it's time to call it done.

But I really do like him, despite his weird ways that I don't understand. And I feel a pull to him that I cannot explain.

But oh well...another love bites the dust.

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usc277
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posted April 26, 2014 09:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for usc277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by JustAmanda1216:
and the next thing I know, poof! He's no where to be found.


is he avoiding you ?

Do you u call/text ?

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jjj
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posted April 26, 2014 12:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for jjj     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does he have Aries venus, what are his other placements (moon-venus-mars, ac)? Im 43 toooooo... and I like a guy who is over 50, so I sympathize )

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JustAmanda1216
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posted April 28, 2014 08:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda1216     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not really sure of his placements because I don't know exactly where he was born or the time. =(

He seems to be avoiding me yes, we don't talk on the phone as neither one of us really like to, so we usually text. The last time we texted he was in an airport flying home which was last Monday. Then he was out 2 more days, returned to work last Thursday..I knew he would be swamped so I didn't bother him until about 3pm and just sent an im that said Hello! And nothing....I mean, he can't even say hello back to me?

He's not from here, he just moved about a year and a half ago so, I guess he doesn't get "Southern Hospitality" because I find this to be highly insolent. And it infuriates me. I don't understand how a man can express such extreme interest in a woman and then disappear, only to reappear later, express it again but stronger and then disappear again...then to reappear, talk more and then gone again.

I don't get this man, I don't think it's in the cards for us to be together in any capacity at this point. And I'm tired of being jerked around. But that seems to be the story of love life over the past few years. And it is such a sore spot for me and my heart. I just can't take anymore.

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Jo B
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posted April 28, 2014 05:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jo B     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
JustAmanda, I feel you're wasting your time with this man. It seems he must sense now that you'll be there when he decides to return to you, and he's perhaps taking this for granted (or it's a turn-off for him). He's definitely blowing hot and cold. Perhaps you should be blowing constantly cold in his direction now so you can allow for other more loving and consistent men to come into your life.

In my experience if a man really wants you he won't keep you at a distance, he'll be pursuing you. Unless he's just the game-playing sort.

I'm more older generation (49) and I think texting is just a lazy (and amibiguous) way of communicating. I'm really big on actual phone conversations and meetings, even if they're not as frequent as texts, emails and ims. Constant texting can really kill relationships.

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posted April 29, 2014 05:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for usc277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by JustAmanda1216:
I'm not really sure of his placements because I don't know exactly where he was born or the time. =(

He seems to be avoiding me yes, we don't talk on the phone as neither one of us really like to, so we usually text. The last time we texted he was in an airport flying home which was last Monday. Then he was out 2 more days, returned to work last Thursday..I knew he would be swamped so I didn't bother him until about 3pm and just sent an im that said Hello! And nothing....I mean, he can't even say hello back to me?

He's not from here, he just moved about a year and a half ago so, I guess he doesn't get "Southern Hospitality" because I find this to be highly insolent. And it infuriates me. I don't understand how a man can express such extreme interest in a woman and then disappear, only to reappear later, express it again but stronger and then disappear again...then to reappear, talk more and then gone again.

I don't get this man, I don't think it's in the cards for us to be together in any capacity at this point. And I'm tired of being jerked around. But that seems to be the story of love life over the past few years. And it is such a sore spot for me and my heart. I just can't take anymore.


if they miss you, they'll call, if he wants you he'll say it, if he cares, he'll show it..if not, he aint worth your time..life's too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you, if he wants you in his life he will make room for you, you shouldn't fight for a spot.

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Jo B
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posted April 29, 2014 08:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jo B     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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if they miss you, they'll call, if he wants you he'll say it, if he cares, he'll show it..if not, he aint worth your time..life's too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you, if he wants you in his life he will make room for you, you shouldn't fight for a spot.

I agree.

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JustAmanda1216
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posted April 29, 2014 08:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda1216     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
AMEN to you BOTH Jo, and USC77! I am quite done with being his door mat. And to be honest, I'd rather be alone for the rest of my life than sit around and be jerked around by someone so narcisstic. People just kill me with the way they act anymore. No one seems to know how to love people...how to trust people..how to earn trust themselves with people. It amazes me how they just skim through life with no regard for others or their feelings or thoughts. It's a bad time we live in.

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posted April 29, 2014 08:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda1216     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And to be completely honest...I just don't even believe in true love or soul mates anymore. I think it's great if other people do, but I sure don't.

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posted April 30, 2014 09:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for usc277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by JustAmanda1216:
And to be completely honest...I just don't even believe in true love or soul mates anymore. I think it's great if other people do, but I sure don't.

Believe me soulmates are real

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posted April 30, 2014 10:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda1216     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm really talking about a soulmate for myself. They do not exist for me. Other people sure, but not for me anymore. I thought I married my soulmate but after 20 years of grief and heartbreak I realized that he wasn't it.

But it's ok that I don't have one, no one really gets me anyway. Sometimes I don't even think I get myself LOL!

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posted April 30, 2014 12:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda1216     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So...I went out to lunch a bit ago and was standing outside on the sidewalk smoking with my sister...we started walking towards the cross walk and here he comes out the front door...he is walking right towards us...he saw me...and then by the time we reached each other, he was behind me...I half turned and said smiling "Hey, how are you?" and HE WAVED AT ME. HE IS RIGHT BEHIND ME AND HE WAVED AT ME? WTF? I turned back around and kept on talking to my sister...he followed us halfway up the street before crossing over.

And he had this horrible look on his face like he was mad or something...mad? Oh, maybe he's mad because he hasn't heard from me? That's right! He hasn't! And I bet he thinks he will hear from me this afternoon but GUESS WHAT? NOPE.

AAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH!

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posted April 30, 2014 01:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda1216     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
AND...he never ONCE took his eyes off of my face...

Now I know I could scream. Jeesh.

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posted April 30, 2014 02:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for usc277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by JustAmanda1216:
So...I went out to lunch a bit ago and was standing outside on the sidewalk smoking with my sister...we started walking towards the cross walk and here he comes out the front door...he is walking right towards us...he saw me...and then by the time we reached each other, he was behind me...I half turned and said smiling "Hey, how are you?" and HE WAVED AT ME. HE IS RIGHT BEHIND ME AND HE WAVED AT ME? WTF? I turned back around and kept on talking to my sister...he followed us halfway up the street before crossing over.

And he had this horrible look on his face like he was mad or something...mad? Oh, maybe he's mad because he hasn't heard from me? That's right! He hasn't! And I bet he thinks he will hear from me this afternoon but GUESS WHAT? NOPE.

AAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH!


That's odd behavior, borderline scary.

What's your sun/moon ?

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JustAmanda1216
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posted April 30, 2014 02:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda1216     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My sun is Sagittarius
Moon is in Leo
Ascendant is in Taurus

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usc277
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posted April 30, 2014 03:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for usc277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by JustAmanda1216:
My sun is Sagittarius
Moon is in Leo
Ascendant is in Taurus


I don't like SAG's but love Leo moons and am a Taurus asc myself..

Anyhow, this guy is clearly not interested in anything longterm

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JustAmanda1216
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posted April 30, 2014 04:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda1216     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What's wrong with Sags? I'm a Sag. And I think I'm a very nice person.

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posted April 30, 2014 04:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda1216     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Actually he's not interested in ANYTHING.

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posted April 30, 2014 04:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for usc277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Actually he's not interested in ANYTHING.

I think he's getting sex from someone..he ain't trying with you so he seems to be satisfied sexually.

Sags annoy me...they are inconsistent

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posted May 01, 2014 08:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda1216     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's not a very good to judge a person, by their Sun sign...I mean, I have an ex husband who is a Pisces and he was a complete jerk but that doesn't mean I can't stand all Pisces just because they are Pisces.

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