posted April 10, 2014 10:00 PM            

Last week on Friday, I told him.. I had a super busy weekend planned..
Then I said I had to go, cuz my other line was ringing.
He said ok..
We didn't talk over the weekend..
He called me Monday at 7am, asking about my weekend.. I said It was Great!!!!! Very productive.
He said cool, you must be glowing. (Lmao)
I played it off with my Leo style and said I'm always glowing!!! He said.. Humm yeah ....

So then, he said call me later, I said ok..
So later I called, he didn't answer.. He called me back a few min later... I didn't answer...
I called him back a few mins later, and said sorry I was talking to. (Guys name, who he knows)
He said WHAT the F$$$ are you talking to him about!!!
So I told him. ( business related, truth)
We talked about that for a bit...
The next day, he called me at the office in the AM, I said I was really busy, I'll call you later.
He said ok... So at the end of the day on my way home I called him back... He didn't answer..
He called me back 10 mins later.. I didn't answer..
About 15 mins later I text him, hey I got tied up, we can chat another day.... He didn't reply... Lol..

He text me first thing in the am, we had a few brief text.. Then I said.. I gotta go, getting busy.. He didn't reply.
I never called him back.

Then the next day he calls me at 2:00 saying I haven't heard from you.. I said wow!! I'm getting my butt kicked here, I'm super slammed... I'll call you on my way home..

So I called him, and he said soooo what did you do last weekend, you said it was productive.
I went into some stuff I'm working on... He said cool, but did you ever get dressed up and go out and look all pretty????
I said well of course I did!!!!!!!!! I said, I'm single why wouldn't I go out. He said where did you go...
I said to a bar.. He said what bar.. I said different bars you know bar hopping.. He was like OOooooooooo

I think I'm driving him crazy!!!

He wants to know where I went on the weekend, and what I did... What I wore.. Etc etc... I'm being very vague.. Answering his questions, but not telling him a damn thing... Leave him wondering..
I can tell he's getting curious, he wants to know my every move... Me not being available to him, is driving you nuts...

posted April 10, 2014 10:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
This Leo mars can give it back to your aqua mars!!!
Aloof is what you will get!!

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Lol. Leo mars here too. In my case with Leo Mars though I usually want to go for the throat! lol
Sounds like you might be playing games a bit with him here though. Why did you split up?

posted April 10, 2014 10:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Jo B:
Lol. Leo mars here too. In my case with Leo Mars though I usually want to go for the throat! lol
Sounds like you might be playing games a bit with him here though. Why did you split up?

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posted April 11, 2014 07:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Jerseyshore:
It's the thrill of the hunt - the forbidden fruit. Just because he's jealous or inquiring doesn't mean he's into you. It's probably an ego thing. You'd be better suited with a man who makes you a priority & wants to be with you because you're amazing - not because you're 'unavailable' to him. I say cut it off and move on...while you're distracted playing games you could be missing out on the real deal. x

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posted April 12, 2014 09:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
We just have this crazy connection that's hard to disconnect from, for what ever reason...
I call it karma... Lol.

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Maybe it's just habit.

I thought I had a crazy connection with a guy a couple of years ago. Gradually, since I stopped seeing him/communicating altogether, the feeling has worn off to the point where I wondered what I ever saw in him. It also gives space for other more productive/positive relationships to come into your life (which it has, for me). Seems with this one neither really wants to commit and you like to keep each other on a string and he certainly likes to keep tabs on you. It's that age old thing where they don't want you but don't want anyone else to have you either, so they don't quite let go, probably to boost their ego that they can still "get" you.

I know I sound cynical. lol But some relationships have an addictive air about them which is not good for either of you in the long run. Do you REALLY want this to continue indefinitely?