posted May 15, 2014 07:51 AM            

Getting to node you by Noel Tyl
http://www.astrologywithdonnalyn.com/articles/tyl_nodes.html

by Dawn Bodrogi http://theinnerwheel.com/2009/11/10/synastry-studies-the-nodes-an-introduction/
http://theinnerwheel.com/2009/11/20/the-hungry-moon-the-nodes-part-one/
http://theinnerwheel.com/2009/12/17/which-way-forward-the-nodes-part-two/

posted May 16, 2014 01:41 AM            

BTW Noel Tyl and Basil Fearrington interprete the nodal axis in terms of maternal symbolism (due to its relation to the Moon). So many different ways to approach this one. But Saturn squaring nodal axis certainly could feel like a smothering mother.

Actually June Carter`s Saturn was Johnny Cash`s nodal axis, and she surely acted like a mother to him and structured his life, just he was able to accept it and knew he needed it after all.
However when it comes to love there needs to be some more love-aspects. And it astounded me that you were having a rather loose connection in that regard. Especially your Sun-Moon-conjunction almost being unaspected. A sextile to his Moon, which would be important, but a widish one; this usually feels a little deceiving, like it is almost there, you know there is *something* but it seems to elude you somehow in the end.
It made me think that he did not quite know the real you, or did not connect to a vital part of you, at least not as strongly as a relationship needs. On top of that I think your mercuries were only weakly aspected, and they are very important, being both ASC-rulers.

posted May 16, 2014 02:24 AM            

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posted May 18, 2014 07:27 AM            

This might give a sense of direction and purpsoe or at least the pull to relationships that lead "somewhere".

There is also a strong interrelationb etween 10th and 6th house in his chart.

Neptune on MC trine Moon in 6th;
ruler of 6th in 10th.

posted May 18, 2014 09:46 AM            

You have the ruler of 7th house in 6th house, conjunct Venus there, so that is a common thing for you, too. And the 6th house stuff is compatible with the 10th house stuff.
It seems like you could agree on similiar things in a relationship. Which is a good start.

posted May 21, 2014 03:55 PM            

Anyway speaking of your charts, well I was a little surprised, I would have expected more dramatic aspects, as I usually find in synastries. Especially the aspects to 7th house rulers seem scarce, which puzzles me.

But nevertheless what I found on second glance is that his Jupiter and Saturn is conjunct your Sun and Moon and that looks TERRIFIC to be honest.
It falls into your 5th and his 7th house, so definitely relationship-oriented. Might actually be more serious for him (the 7th house is the cardinal one).

Also if I remember it right it represents a conjunction of his MC-ruler Jupiter to your IC-ruler Sun. While this is not crazy dreamy romantic passionate stuff, I find that very important.
While the ASC-DESC-connection is about magnetism and attraction and the whole "you are my significant other" thing (which is totally great, do not get me wrong), the IC-MC connection is so underrated in my opinion. It is very important though for without it no relationship can last for long.
There is a magnetism here, too, but it is one on an emotional-practical level. It gives a sense of purpose to a relationship, and in this case cause the IC is part of it, a sense of being "family", a sense of belonging, something the ASC-DESC does not provide (not in the family-kind-of-way).

So I really love that in your synastry.

I also see that your Jupiter is squaring his nodal axis, widely though, but I think it is still valid. squares to the nodal axis are very important, not always easy, but since Jupiter rules your DESC, there is definitely a strong pull into a relationship. Maybe something you couldn`t get to work in a past life. (your 12th house ruler EXACTLY quinkunx his 7th house ruler - karmic adjustment needed in a relationship that might form again from the past; the planets in question overlay your 5th and 8th house respectively, so definitely playing out in the context of relationships - though I suppose it is not everything smooth and easy).

I also notice that his Venus overlays your 7th house; I am usually not getting all excited oever planets in the 7th house, UNLESS in strong aspect to other planets. And the orb to a conjunction to DESC is pretty wide, though just in the valid range for me. But usually I would have glossed over it, as not being all that forefront-material.

HOWEVER, at the same time his Uranus is also almost conjunct your DESC, but from the 6th house. Actually Uranus and Venus are equidistant from your DESC-
That means your ASC (and DESC) falls onto his Venus/Uranus-mp, and I think that is definitely worth mentioning, especially with his Venus being the ruler of his intercepted 7th house, and, surprise surprise (or not), uranus ruling his 12th house.
You ARE coming out of his past-life scenario, or at least you are triggering these experiencees in him. With it being the Venus/Uranus-mp, it reminds me of a sudden, exciting, maybe unexpected feelng of being in love, not sure how lasting though. But on his side there seems to definitely be a spark there.

Actually there is something else I noticed and found a little weird or lopsided.

While you have strong Sun-Moon-triggering (by his Jupiter, SAturn and Venus and also Nn and Neptune to a certain degree) and the ruler of your 4th house also being triggered (as it is Sun), the aspects to your Venus and 5th house ruler are scarce.

There are a trine to his ASC and sextile to his Sun, so I DO think there is something there romantically speaking, but it is more flowing and harmonious than really providing a great passionate flair.
It almost seems to me like while you love him and feel emotionally bonded to him (your Moon and IC-ruler), you might not be totally madly in love with him.

Maybe I am wrong though, his Jupiter and Saturn are falling into your 5th house, so maybe it suffices, along with the nice aspects to his Sun and aSC. But all in all it looks more like friendly romantic feelings to me, instead of Grande amour.

And on his part, well, it is interesting, it seems like it is a little reversed for him.

his Venus has several aspects (including a square to SAturn) and his 5th house ruler squares Pluto.

his Sun and Moon do not have awfully strong aspects, though of course we have to make an exception for Moon, the square to Pluto is of course very intense.
Sun has nice sextiles to Mercury and Saturn, which is quite constructive, but there are no real strong aspects to his IC-ruler.
So there is something there for sure, but his "in love" aspects seem a little more dramatic.

Speaking of dramatic, I find it interesting that his Priapus is conjunct your natural Lilith exactly on 24 Taurus, opposing your Pluto, that is ultra intense, but probably not very smooth.

his Priapus falls into your 12th house (more subconscious or past life stuff), your Pluto falls into his 8th and your Lilith in his 2nd house.
Really intense soul stuff happening there.

Priapus is the supermoon, the feelings often get a little overblown. Also Priapus wants to merge (especially with Lilith), while Lilith, even though passionate on her own, insists on keeping her independence. In a way she is the expression of a cliched animus inside a woman, and Priapus is the cliche of an anima, expressed in a man. You know usually we say that women want to be as close as possible to their men, here it is Priapus who seeks this closeness and intimacy (no matter what price!), and Lilith maintains a little distance, not wanting to lose herself in a merging scenario.

Of course Priapus will usually seek physical intimacy, and lilith insists on her emotional/ spiritual independence - speaking in general terms.

But that is just a hypothesis so far, not sure yet it is really true. But in theory I think Priapus - him- would be pretty crazy with lust and desire for physical union with Lilith - her-.

posted May 29, 2014 03:13 PM            

Sometimes the time`s just not right.

BTW I have been very tired and exhausted myself, but actually after sleeping for 12 hours last night (12 hours, man I was really sleep-deprived I guess), I feel refreshed again.

posted May 29, 2014 03:52 PM            

Besides most horary astrologers I know do not use the outer planets anyway. However, I do tend to keep an eye on them, representing influences and colouring the scene.

I wouldn´t use them as significators, but exact aspect to Uranus, Neptune, Pluto will tell a little about the erraticness, confusion or obsession might play into it all.

posted May 29, 2014 03:52 PM            

Besides most horary astrologers I know do not use the outer planets anyway. However, I do tend to keep an eye on them, representing influences and colouring the scene.

I wouldn´t use them as significators, but exact aspect to Uranus, Neptune, Pluto will tell a little about the erraticness, confusion or obsession might play into it all.