posted April 22, 2014 02:56 PM            

I've liked a Scorpio man for a very long time (haha, I feel so juvenile saying that!) Maybe almost 5 years. We were friends before but I was always drawn to him for some reason. Anyways, I haven't seen him in over a year but he invited me to his "I'm back in the country" party and we had a good time. He was pretty flirty/touchy with everyone, including me but he was drinking. A small group of us were invited back to house party and on our walk there, we were heavily flirting and complimenting each other, which led to kissing which led to the two of us saying things like "oh my god, i can't believe this" etc. We were really playful and cute. We got back to the friend's house where another woman who was interested in him was waiting (I'm not too sure what was going on there). I played it casual and did my own thing... played with the cats.. socialized with other people as he sat on the couch with the girl. At some point though he left the girl to hang out with me. We started making out again and he suddenly got intense and started telling me that he wanted to sleep with me and all that typical romantic/sexy/passionate scorpio stuff. His friends told us to rejoin the party, so we did. But we kind of just cuddled on the couch while everyone partied around us. He seemed SO HAPPY being with me! It was probably the sweetest moment I've ever experienced. We ended up deciding that we'd get together "another time" since the sun was coming up and I had to go to work. Later that evening, he told me via text message that he was still a bit hungover and that he might go dancing that night. He didn't seem too interested in me. He said that he was going to take it easy because he was "quite wasted" the night before. I told him that I got a little silly too but I had fun and he responded with "me too!"

And that was it. That happened around 5/6 days ago.

Should I make anything out of that? Should I move on? Still try to be his friend? Wait until he sees we'd be perfect together? haha

I've never been good with relationship advice and I've always been a bit shy. Too shy to tell him how I feel. Although I'm pretty sure I spilt the beans the other night... haha

I feel so silly writing about this but I have no idea what else to do. Thanks for reading!!

~C

~Pisces sun - Scorpio moon - Virgo Asc - Taurus Mars - Cappy Venus

posted April 27, 2014 10:51 AM            

But in your case, I think that you are feeling for him more than he is feeling for you. He could have just responded to the attention you gave him and felt flattered.

I don't think you should hold anyone who is drunk to their word. Sometimes, it does happen that a person will give you the looks, the stares and underlying actions of being interested.

And then, when drunk, they can just pounce at you. The following morning they get all shy and timid about it- because all their feelings are now out in the open: That's different.

This situation sounds like nothing I've described.

You've liked this guy for 5 years???? It's likely you have been "friend zoned" and he may not see you in the same light.

If you feeling brave- state your case and put yourself out there. I mean , it's been 5 years.