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Topic: To all of you who have experienced synchronicity in your relationships
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Tulipe
Knowflake Posts: 1707
From: France
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 05, 2014 06:08 PM
  
what is the lesson you need to learn?A relationship is painful but when you try letting go synchronicity or some coincidences happen reminding you of that other person, is there any meaning for this? ------------------
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Swift Freeze
Moderator Posts: 708
From: One World
Registered: Nov 2009
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posted May 06, 2014 03:56 AM
For me, it means you're human, that you cared. If you could just leave a relationship, or have a relationship end, and move on as if nothing happened and not care one way or the other. Well, were you really in a relationship?------------------
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charmainec
Knowflake Posts: 8746
From: Venus next to Randall
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 06, 2014 04:03 AM
Hard to tell since we don't know the circumstances for the seperation.Maybe a sign to not give up or give it another try?
This thread reminds me of that movie Fools Rush In where a part of the movie focused on signs and synchronicity.. This may not be much help but I hope you figure it out.  ------------------
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Tulipe
Knowflake Posts: 1707
From: France
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 06, 2014 09:49 AM
Swift Freeze, I know it must take sometimes before I can move on. I expected a lot of pain, sadness, and melancholy. I can't count those sleepless nights I spent crying till sunrise. But I prefer to mourn in private, not some reminders at the office that make me paralyze and double over with pain. Is this a sign, a test, a reminder or a torture? That's what I want to know. It's been 10 months already and the signs just get more intense. Apparently I can't move on with my life in peace. @ Charmaine: thank you, I hope you doing well. I haven't see the movie yet, but it sounds like I should watch it  . As for the story, I'm being left behind, so I try to move on, surely there's nothing else for me to do. Sometimes when I thought I can do it, the signs and synchronicity would happen like a wound being teared open again. I'm lost and confused, if those signs are supposed to make me pay attention, then what do I need to do? Funny thing is I don't even know about soulmates or synchronicity before this relationship. I asked for guidance yesterday and today I saw 777, it's exhausting. How can we decode these signs? ------------------
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MineAgain
Knowflake Posts: 2040
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Registered: Nov 2013
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posted May 07, 2014 10:01 AM
Whenever I'm letting go and focusing on something else, I suddenly see reminders of him everywhere. (His name, hometown's name, birth date, places where he worked ...). I'm pretty adamant I'll never contact him again but these signs are annoying me. Now whenever I see them, I just roll my eyes and ignore them. The annoying thing is that his name can sometimes pop op multiple times an hour even when I'm not thinking about him. I could be at a café and then I'd hear someone saying his name after already seeing it three times in the previous hour. Weird. IP: Logged |
Tulipe
Knowflake Posts: 1707
From: France
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 08, 2014 05:33 AM
Mineagain, I understand exactly what you're saying . It's like some kind of torture, isn't it? Can't let go even if you try. Now whenever I think of meeting with him again, I see 1111, 111, 1122. It's been 4 days straight like that. I admitted I was a bit skeptical about seeing numbers before now, but yesterday when I was walking, thinking about randomly meeting him again. And I jokingly thought 'now when I look up I'll see those numbers, check it out'. Sure enough, immediately I looked up at the building and saw 111. I was dumbfounded for several minutes  . Then I thought 'So this is real? Angels exist?', that's when I saw 101. I said thank you and since then I have this peaceful feeling of comfort. Am I crazy?? ------------------
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Tulipe
Knowflake Posts: 1707
From: France
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted July 31, 2015 04:53 AM
Woa I came on here randomy but then stumbled upon my old thread.Since then more sinchronicities happened but I put less attention on them. Me and my ex even saw each other on the street, as he drove by the bus stop as I was sitting there. My old self would crumble and think about that event throughout the night, but now I can smile about it . I've been through a period of depression after this thread but then being one who doesn't accept defeat or sorrow, I pulled myself up. Now I'm happyly living with myself and enjoy new things that come to my life. I may never forget about this love, but it doesn't play a vital role in my life either. Well I guess this is the Venus Retrograde influence  . Anyway just want to give a tribute to my present by appreciating the past. Written in the stars IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
Knowflake Posts: 16216
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 26, 2015 07:09 PM
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Originally posted by Tulipe:
Woa I came on here randomy but then stumbled upon my old thread.Since then more sinchronicities happened but I put less attention on them. Me and my ex even saw each other on the street, as he drove by the bus stop as I was sitting there. My old self would crumble and think about that event throughout the night, but now I can smile about it . I've been through a period of depression after this thread but then being one who doesn't accept defeat or sorrow, I pulled myself up. Now I'm happyly living with myself and enjoy new things that come to my life. I may never forget about this love, but it doesn't play a vital role in my life either. Well I guess this is the Venus Retrograde influence . Anyway just want to give a tribute to my present by appreciating the past. Written in the stars
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Swift Freeze
Moderator Posts: 708
From: One World
Registered: Nov 2009
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posted August 26, 2015 07:28 PM
They say Ghosts are the ones that haunt us, I am not so sure. Our memories do a far better job and are far more punishing than another being could ever be.I am glad you found peace Tulipe. =) ------------------
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Charmaine
Moderator Posts: 687
From: Venus Next To Randall
Registered: Dec 2014
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posted August 27, 2015 06:01 AM
Any updates? How's life been treating you?These signs can also mean reflection. Hope they have made some sense to you thus far.
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Tulipe
Knowflake Posts: 1707
From: France
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted August 31, 2015 06:33 AM
Thank you Swift Freeze and Lee for your support. Indeed Swift Freeze, my memories did a better job at it since I have a good visual memory. They're like movies in my head, often playing without my permission lol. And it's just wrenching how it brought back emotions like it was just yesterday. And Lee, you've been with me through all of that and more. You witnessed my struggles, my cycles of grieve, love and hate. You're a gift to my life and I met you through LL, how cool is that ? Love you so so much 
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Tulipe
Knowflake Posts: 1707
From: France
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted August 31, 2015 06:46 AM
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Originally posted by Charmaine:
Any updates? How's life been treating you?These signs can also mean reflection. Hope they have made some sense to you thus far.
Thank you for asking. I'm still proccessing the break up although it was my decision. I still experience synchronicities, but I took that as a sign, like the universe is telling me : "Are you sure you've learned everything there is to learn about this experience ? It's time to reevaluate your feelings and your mindset now." These signs make me stronger in how I deal with my emotions. I'm not focus on how life's treating me right now but how I can make my life better, it's very rewarding. Wow I'm not usually a girl with many words like this. I suppose this Full Moon helps me opening up. I've been shut off from LL for months but I'm making my come back now to the wonderful people on LL  IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
Knowflake Posts: 16216
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted September 10, 2015 06:37 PM
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Originally posted by Tulipe:
Thank you Swift Freeze and Lee for your support. Indeed Swift Freeze, my memories did a better job at it since I have a good visual memory. They're like movies in my head, often playing without my permission lol. And it's just wrenching how it brought back emotions like it was just yesterday. And Lee, you've been with me through all of that and more. You witnessed my struggles, my cycles of grieve, love and hate. You're a gift to my life and I met you through LL, how cool is that ? Love you so so much
Thank you, dear Golden Flower  You are a precious gift in my life! IP: Logged |
Ceres_Moon
Knowflake Posts: 78
From: Netherlands
Registered: Sep 2015
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posted September 29, 2015 04:58 PM
I was once going through a breakup with a spiritual teacher. We weren't involved in a romantic way - but...it was time for me to move on.
I kept getting all these really crazy synchs and I thought it meant I was supposed to stay connected with them. Finally a friend pointed out that if the connection was bringing me so much pain - the time had come to end it and that all the synchronicity was actually signs for me to see that things weren't going to change until I decided to change them.
So - I got busy doing a lot of different clearing rituals - as well as removing the person physically from my life as well. It was really hard - but after a couple of months - I felt great and like a big heaviness was gone.So I think it just really depends on your situation. I'm just mentioning this because I always thought synchronicity was a sign to work things out until this situation. Glad you're in a better place with it all <3 IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 5294
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 29, 2015 09:18 PM
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Originally posted by Ceres_Moon:
I kept getting all these really crazy synchs and I thought it meant I was supposed to stay connected with them. Finally a friend pointed out that if the connection was bringing me so much pain - the time had come to end it and that all the synchronicity was actually signs for me to see that things weren't going to change until I decided to change them.
Absolutely. I can deeply relate to that. So much of that is what kept me confused and 'staying' with my false twin, rather than seeing what about it was inevitably going to lead me back to my actual twin -- if I let it. Though I'm starting to doubt the veracity of those words. Not the connexion; ohhh, no. But the words. Everything that's associated with them. I dunno ... I'm going through something. IP: Logged |
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