posted May 06, 2014 01:05 PM            

Do they really only attract drama and dysfunction and only want women with problems, ill, depressed, etc.

Do they swing from being lovely to being blunt and mean really quickly.

posted May 07, 2014 03:11 AM            

Yes they can be mean and then nice, but so can most people. It's just more noticeable with them bc they are so in touch with their emotions and if you spend a lot of time around them, you will get to SEE the broad spectrum of their emotions in one single day.

posted May 07, 2014 09:38 AM            

Prior to dating me, he dated a 28 year old woman who was already involved in a long term relationship with another individual. He then supposedly "dumped" her because she didn't want to ditch her boyfriend for him (sure!).

Then he and I dated (after a year of on and off contact), but I was seriously the last straw before he started looking for random chicks to sleep with. I'm slightly a mix of the "sweet girl" who can take care of him and make him feel loved (Cancer Asc), but I also happen to call him out on his BS (Scorpio Sun). Hence, I was not afraid of creating drama (because he hates confrontation) to make him understand that his behavior was unacceptable.

Sadly, I believe I was way too "sane" for him because I didn't show any signs of depression, insanity or emotional imbalance. He told me he didn't find me boring at all (Gemini Moon), but whenever I'd show him how much I cared, he'd start acting like a total jerk.

Thing is, unlike most girls he's dated, I was not afraid of dumping his sorry ass. He told me he dumped every single of his exes for different reasons (clinginess, insecurity, blah blah). Most of his exes were supposedly "afraid" of losing him (dude thought he was God's gift to women). I wasn't. I called our so-called fling off twice whenever I sensed he was BSing me and I was not afraid of outright telling him I wasn't buying whatever BS he was on about.

He told me he likes forthcoming girls who can call him out on his BS because he doesn't like doormats as he would get bored & take advantage of them. Well, he got a taste of that with me. I want nothing to do with this crazy and emotionally immature man, for sure.
The moment he sensed it could become serious, he disappeared. I called him out on it and cut contact.

Pisces have issues with "traditional" relationships. Monogamy and consistency is not their forte. They get bored easily. I believe they can only be involved in such type of relationship once they have reached a level of emotional maturity. They're very idealistic about love and they sound like smooth talkers, but when it comes to commitment, they get cold feet. I believe that they can only "love" in their dreams but can't materialize that in a relationship. They like the "idea" of love, the concept but not the practical aspect of it (i.e: monogamy, commitment, consistency).

The Pisces I met was a player and he'll probably always be. He's never been in a long term relationship as most of those only last up to 3 months (if the girl is lucky).

That's why it's said that usually Pisces settle for "Ms Good Enough" and not "Ms Right" because they exhausted all of their options during their "player" period. Hence, by the time they want to settle down, they have already missed out on the great girls. Not ALL of them, but a lot of them.

These men don't have their act together (mutable sign). They crave love but they can't stand to be tied down.

They claim they don't like drama, but the only problem in the relationship is them! They're the ONLY denominator.

posted May 07, 2014 10:41 PM            

The second one I met under false pretenses as he told me that he was "visiting his brother" who lived in my town. He was indeed staying with his brother, but what he did not tell me was that he had stolen a truck and was on the run from the police, and that he was an I.V. drug user. I dated him for months not knowing until one of my girlfriends called me hysterical, saying that she caught her husband and my BF in the bathroom shooting up drugs. He tried to commit suicide in front of me and when the ambulance came it also brought the police with it, which got him caught for the theft. So then he went to jail and I was heartbroken. We were still together for months afterwards, until he was finally released and went back to his home state, where he met a Virgo women and proceeded to have 2 children with her. She always worked and took care of everything while he struggled and flaked out all the time. 6 years ago he and I caught up with each other on myspace and the whole thing started up all over again, with more disastrous results. Then a couple weeks ago he came here again to visit, and I met with him. Even though we are now just friends, it was still very difficult for me emotionally. He wrote a bunch of stuff to me, a bunch of emotional stuff in FB messages, and I guess when he got home, his NEW Earth sign GF read them, so he called me to tell me that he wasn't allowed to talk to me on FB any more. Meanwhile I am scratching my head, as I have always done with this man. sigh. This new women is a hospital administrator and she makes the big bucks, so he is not going to mess this up, he told me. OK. lol

The third Pisces, OMG, most charming and handsome guy ever. We were together for 8 months and then he did a porno movie with an old rival of mine. For no reason, other than needing money, he flew to Chicago and made a low budget porno movie! I mean.... REALLY? What?? So that was the end of that, but every now and then he still sends me a text or something about getting back together or spending time together, etc. And I just brush him off bc I know next week, he'll have moved on to someone else.

posted July 11, 2014 12:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
On the one hand they have an official partner. She is tough, ambitious, cool headed and usually has a significant career that pays both of their bills (Think: Capricorn, Scorpio, Aries)
On the other hand they have any number of unofficial lady friends (on the side) who are usually feminine, fragile, emotional - the damsel in distress type. With these women they play the saint/saviour - and they never miss an opportunity to bit*ch about their cold hearted wife who treats them badly (while paying all those bills)

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posted July 11, 2014 02:49 PM            

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Odette:
[b]On the one hand they have an official partner. She is tough, ambitious, cool headed and usually has a significant career that pays both of their bills (Think: Capricorn, Scorpio, Aries)
On the other hand they have any number of unofficial lady friends (on the side) who are usually feminine, fragile, emotional - the damsel in distress type. With these women they play the saint/saviour - and they never miss an opportunity to bit*ch about their cold hearted wife who treats them badly (while paying all those bills)

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Your generalizing...no one pays my bills and I went out on thousands of dates, the lady never pays..but most of us are premiscuous. Which isn't necessarily a bad thing

posted July 13, 2014 03:50 PM            

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Your generalizing...no one pays my bills and I went out on thousands of dates, the lady never pays..but most of us are premiscuous. Which isn't necessarily a bad thing

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I have zero problem with the promiscuity if that's your thing - I'm no one to judge sexuality, ever. It's the inane webs of lies (dumb ones, at that) which drive me nuts. Just...silly, pointless lies. As for paying the bills? Ohh yeah. Sincerely, I'm glad to hear you're an exception to the rule, but every Pisces I've ever known has been this way to one degree or another: ZERO personal accountability financially, emotionally, developmentally...you name it.

posted July 13, 2014 10:37 PM            

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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
I have zero problem with the promiscuity if that's your thing

Yes its my thing for sure.

ZERO personal accountability financially, emotionally, developmentally...you name it.

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posted July 13, 2014 10:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
usc - Do you have significant earth placements in your chart?

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posted July 14, 2014 09:43 AM            

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Originally posted by usc277:
....developmentally I'm fine..trilingual

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posted July 15, 2014 03:58 AM            

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Originally posted by LostTaurus:
... As for paying the bills? Ohh yeah. Sincerely, I'm glad to hear you're an exception to the rule, but every Pisces I've ever known has been this way to one degree or another: ZERO personal accountability financially, emotionally, developmentally...you name it.

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posted July 15, 2014 05:43 AM            

Before he met her he was a philosophy teacher (Pisces dreamer ha), traveled to places, dated many girls .. He lived quite the lifestyle! He hated commitment. Even after he married my mom he still had issues with being at home all the time because he liked his "boys nights".

He's quite irresponsible with money though. He's also quite sensitive and lives in some sort of idealistic world which is quite strange to understand for a Scorpio like me. He always sees the glass half full and his entire life is made of shades of grey.

The one thing that drives me insane is that whenever something bad happens, he never accepts liability for anything even though he's the one who made the mistake. He's always the victim, never the perpetuator! It drives me insane when he's obviously wrong yet still claims to be right or blameless!

He also lies a lot about trivial things (why he didn't call on time, why he couldn't make it to an event). He genuinely thinks we're that naive.

My ex is exactly the same as my dad. I was shocked. The more I learned about him, the more I realized he was a copy of my father on so many levels. Aw. He even used to tell me the exact same things my dad tells me about me (i.e: I'm too "black and white, no grey", too harsh/dryp/sharp). They're very sensitive people but also very moody.

My dad is so sweet but he can turn into a secluded person in a second when he's stressed. Very moody.

Aw, those Pisces You have to love them!

posted July 19, 2014 07:54 PM            

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Originally posted by AmelieRose81:

he does lie about the silliest things though. Inconsequential things. I dont get it.
They were things that if he admitted I wouldnt have minded at all

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