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Topic: Cancerian girl is confusing me.
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geminichoo
Newflake Posts: 10
From: Singapore
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 12, 2014 11:52 PM
  
I've know this cancerian girl when I play soccer with my group of guys friends. She works at the soccer ground. Even we have seen each other many times, but we were just like "hi", "bye" friend. Until recently when she was talking to my friends, I sat beside them and we did talked a bit. The following week, she asked my friend for my number and she contacted me. We hit off very well with text messages, then she started calling me and we talk on the phone. She will always be the one who initial the contact. Things were going well for both of us but one day she suddenly stopped contacting me. I felt affected, so I texted her and asked her if there's anything wrong, and she replied that there's nothing wrong. The following day, she texted me again and asked me if I'm still affected and I said yes. She asked me don't feel that way and we chatted for a while. Still, she don't contact me like how she used to be. So a few days later, I wrote a long text and confessed to her that I like her and this feeling has been making me feeling sad when we don't communicate like how we used to be. Upon reading my message, she called me immediately and tell me that she will not ignore me and she went on telling me more about herself and what's her expectation in a relationship. We talked for 2 hours on the phone telling each other about our life and what we expect in a relationship. However after we hang up, there's still no contact from her. I am really confused by her actions, is this girl interested in moving our friendship to the next level? And why is it that she call me immediately after I confessed to her. I'm a guy that when I like a girl, I don't dare to show too much to her if she is not responding or showing much interest and this is making me crazy. Please help. Btw, I'm a gemini. IP: Logged |
Swift Freeze
Moderator Posts: 584
From: One World
Registered: Nov 2009
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posted May 13, 2014 05:22 AM
Call her, don't text her.If you feel like something is up, call her. I will go on record and happily say that 99.9% of Women would rather you call them, than text them. Hearing someone's voice makes a much deeper connection, affirms their importance to you because they are important enough to call and is immediate. 'I want to speak with you' A text message or email is very much, read it and respond whenever you want. Can come across as non-committal and not important. Only you know how you feel, if you like her, then tell her, preferably in person, but absolutely not by text. ------------------
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