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Topic: Our loving but extremely challenging marriage.
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moonram Knowflake Posts: 175 From: Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted May 13, 2014 11:21 AM
Happy Anniversary to me and my husband today. We made it one year! Wahoo. We chuckled over that today. And then we got into a fight.I am not asking for any advice, but I would be glad to engage in dialogue with anyone who has any comments. There is no question in my mind that we are deeply in love, but our relationship can be insanely unpleasant a lot of the time. Currently, we are working toward moving back in together. I had ("finally") booted him out several weeks ago. http://joshuakelcie.wordpress.com/ IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 406 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 13, 2014 11:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by moonram: Happy Anniversary to me and my husband today. We made it one year! Wahoo. We chuckled over that today. And then we got into a fight.
Sounds like a marriage to me. Now I don't really know much about composites. Are they interpreted the same way as one would a natal chart? Say ,for instance, the Ascendant; is it based on the time that you two met? Or the time that you got married? IP: Logged |
Swift Freeze Moderator Posts: 592 From: One World Registered: Nov 2009
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posted May 14, 2014 03:39 AM
I would suggest you talk to your Husband. Since it is between you two that this situation involves. Nothing works without communication, a lot of communication.------------------ Learn lots. Don't judge. Laugh for no reason. Be nice. Seek Happiness. Follow your dreams. IP: Logged |
moonram Knowflake Posts: 175 From: Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted May 16, 2014 10:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by Swift Freeze: I would suggest you talk to your Husband. Since it is between you two that this situation involves. Nothing works without communication, a lot of communication.
We have poor communication compatibility. IP: Logged |
moonram Knowflake Posts: 175 From: Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted May 16, 2014 10:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Sounds like a marriage to me.Now I don't really know much about composites. Are they interpreted the same way as one would a natal chart? Say ,for instance, the Ascendant; is it based on the time that you two met? Or the time that you got married?
I don't know much about composites either. I have read that it is the chart of our relationship, as if our relationship is a separate entity. My natal is me, his natal is him, and the composite is the chart of the relationship itself. IP: Logged |
Newrise Knowflake Posts: 618 From: Los angeles Registered: Jul 2013
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posted May 16, 2014 01:24 PM
Is your way of loving as a couple impulsive which you act out in a friendly and nurturing way? On unrelated note, One thing I'd like to point out is that your composite NN is in Aquarius which conjunct your composite moon in 7th house, so maybe emotional interaction in a friendly diplomatic manner would bring you two closer and also closer to your relationship purpose. What do you think? Happy anniversary! IP: Logged |
moonram Knowflake Posts: 175 From: Neptune Registered: May 2011
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posted May 23, 2014 09:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by Newrise: Is your way of loving as a couple impulsive which you act out in a friendly and nurturing way? On unrelated note, One thing I'd like to point out is that your composite NN is in Aquarius which conjunct your composite moon in 7th house, so maybe emotional interaction in a friendly diplomatic manner would bring you two closer and also closer to your relationship purpose. What do you think? Happy anniversary!
Your point about composite NN conjunct composite Moon is probably spot on. "Probably", because good luck with me sticking to a diplomatic manner of communicating. I am so angry all the time... I could probably commit to one diplomatic statement, but then I'd retract it or explain it away. IP: Logged |