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moonram
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posted May 13, 2014 11:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonram     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Happy Anniversary to me and my husband today. We made it one year! Wahoo. We chuckled over that today. And then we got into a fight.

I am not asking for any advice, but I would be glad to engage in dialogue with anyone who has any comments.

There is no question in my mind that we are deeply in love, but our relationship can be insanely unpleasant a lot of the time.

Currently, we are working toward moving back in together. I had ("finally") booted him out several weeks ago.

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Aries23Degrees
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posted May 13, 2014 11:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by moonram:
Happy Anniversary to me and my husband today. We made it one year! Wahoo. We chuckled over that today. And then we got into a fight.

Sounds like a marriage to me.

Now I don't really know much about composites. Are they interpreted the same way as one would a natal chart?

Say ,for instance, the Ascendant; is it based on the time that you two met? Or the time that you got married?

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Swift Freeze
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posted May 14, 2014 03:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Swift Freeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would suggest you talk to your Husband. Since it is between you two that this situation involves. Nothing works without communication, a lot of communication.

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moonram
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posted May 16, 2014 10:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonram     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Swift Freeze:
I would suggest you talk to your Husband. Since it is between you two that this situation involves. Nothing works without communication, a lot of communication.


We have poor communication compatibility.

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moonram
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posted May 16, 2014 10:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonram     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Sounds like a marriage to me.

Now I don't really know much about composites. Are they interpreted the same way as one would a natal chart?

Say ,for instance, the Ascendant; is it based on the time that you two met? Or the time that you got married?


I don't know much about composites either. I have read that it is the chart of our relationship, as if our relationship is a separate entity. My natal is me, his natal is him, and the composite is the chart of the relationship itself.

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Newrise
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posted May 16, 2014 01:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Newrise     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is your way of loving as a couple impulsive which you act out in a friendly and nurturing way?

On unrelated note,
One thing I'd like to point out is that your composite NN is in Aquarius which conjunct your composite moon in 7th house, so maybe emotional interaction in a friendly diplomatic manner would bring you two closer and also closer to your relationship purpose. What do you think?

Happy anniversary!

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moonram
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posted May 23, 2014 09:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonram     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Newrise:
Is your way of loving as a couple impulsive which you act out in a friendly and nurturing way?

On unrelated note,
One thing I'd like to point out is that your composite NN is in Aquarius which conjunct your composite moon in 7th house, so maybe emotional interaction in a friendly diplomatic manner would bring you two closer and also closer to your relationship purpose. What do you think?

Happy anniversary!


Your point about composite NN conjunct composite Moon is probably spot on. "Probably", because good luck with me sticking to a diplomatic manner of communicating. I am so angry all the time... I could probably commit to one diplomatic statement, but then I'd retract it or explain it away.

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