posted June 15, 2014 01:29 PM            

The stranger thing for me is that I am quite laid back since the beginning and he kept leading me on. I wonder why he think I was crazy falling in love with him since I was really just being friendly and polite. And I asked him help once and he did help me, and when I said I might need do something for return his favor, he swam away. And after one day, he came back and ask us to meet again. I don't know whether I really like him coz I never understand his behavior at all.

Do you guys think I should let him know how I feel about his behavior or something else? I don't want be musunderstood as well?

posted June 15, 2014 01:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Jo_Jo:
I am Scorpio sun and Taurus moon.

The stranger thing for me is that I am quite laid back since the beginning and he kept leading me on. I wonder why he think I was crazy falling in love with him since I was really just being friendly and polite. And I asked him help once and he did help me, and when I said I might need do something for return his favor, he swam away. And after one day, he came back and ask us to meet again. I don't know whether I really like him coz I never understand his behavior at all.

Do you guys think I should let him know how I feel about his behavior or something else? I don't want be musunderstood as well?

Thank you guys!

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posted June 15, 2014 01:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Jo_Jo:
Thank you, usc277! No worry about divorce rates. I still wonder I should keep him as my friend or not! However, there is some connection between us is weird, honestly speaking. Even with cancer man, I never feel like that way!

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Go for it !
This connection only happens between Scorpio and Pisces, its rare and magical no other signs come close to it... especially Pisces male/ Scorpio woman

posted June 15, 2014 02:52 PM            

I don't mind making friends with him but I can't be with him like the way it is. Since I have to live in my standards instead of changing myself because of him.

I am not gonna chasing him since I never chased anyone before, I don't know how and it won't end up good if I start it because of him, I guess.

From what I knew, he is not that kind of funny guy living a happy life. He has so many thoughts on his mind and he likes to lead women on and frustrated himself by our intensity, which I don't think it is very healthy for both parties. But maybe that's his nature is. I don't wanna change him because he will grow up by himself and realize he need change himself if he wanna live a happy life.

Maybe I am not that girl who make him change but It's ok! I would prefer to be crazy and happy rather than normal and bitter!

posted June 15, 2014 07:09 PM            

Besides Scorpio women in general are very fixed creatures, if we truly like someone, we're into that person only, very single-minded, and it seems that Pisces influenced people have so much "love" that they want to give it all around regardless of the consequences.

It's like Libran people - they take ages to make up their mind. Just make a decision and stick to it! Life is too short! And Scorpios know that, we know what we can have if we really put our mind to it, and if we don't get it, it's non-sense to stick around and see what happens next. Either you're with us 100%, or you're not with us and in this case, it's pointless.

So, Jo_Jo, if that dude doesn't know what he wants, don't break your brains trying to figure him out. I can see you're not the type, so that's good.

I can understand someone taking time at the very beginning, when things are uncertain and you're not quite sure of what you/the other person wants, but come on. I'm getting real tired of people who act without taking into consideration the other person and just go from one thing to another without TELLING you what is going on. If you have problems, say it. But acting all weird and unstable without justification is just plain retarded.

Anyhow, I don't know the situation exactly obviously, so it's not up to me to tell you what to do, in any way.

I trust that you have the ability to make the right decision for yourself, Jo_Jo.

Wish you the best.

posted June 15, 2014 07:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Jo_Jo:
Here what I have in my mind~

I don't mind making friends with him but I can't be with him like the way it is. Since I have to live in my standards instead of changing myself because of him.

I am not gonna chasing him since I never chased anyone before, I don't know how and it won't end up good if I start it because of him, I guess.

From what I knew, he is not that kind of funny guy living a happy life. He has so many thoughts on his mind and he likes to lead women on and frustrated himself by our intensity, which I don't think it is very healthy for both parties. But maybe that's his nature is. I don't wanna change him because he will grow up by himself and realize he need change himself if he wanna live a happy life.

Maybe I am not that girl who make him change but It's ok! I would prefer to be crazy and happy rather than normal and bitter!

It took me a week to figure out how to get out from his fish nest, it is so hard for me to go back again!

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posted June 15, 2014 08:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Scorpio woman + Pisces man isn't the best match... Pisces are too flakey, we don't like that. And they're usually womanizers; you of all people, usc, can't deny that. No respect for such people, sorry. You have a partner, stick to them, don't go around chasing other people, that's just not right.

Besides Scorpio women in general are very fixed creatures, if we truly like someone, we're into that person only, very single-minded, and it seems that Pisces influenced people have so much "love" that they want to give it all around regardless of the consequences.

It's like Libran people - they take ages to make up their mind. Just make a decision and stick to it! Life is too short! And Scorpios know that, we know what we can have if we really put our mind to it, and if we don't get it, it's non-sense to stick around and see what happens next. Either you're with us 100%, or you're not with us and in this case, it's pointless.

So, Jo_Jo, if that dude doesn't know what he wants, don't break your brains trying to figure him out. I can see you're not the type, so that's good.

I can understand someone taking time at the very beginning, when things are uncertain and you're not quite sure of what you/the other person wants, but come on. I'm getting real tired of people who act without taking into consideration the other person and just go from one thing to another without TELLING you what is going on. If you have problems, say it. But acting all weird and unstable without justification is just plain retarded.

Anyhow, I don't know the situation exactly obviously, so it's not up to me to tell you what to do, in any way.

I trust that you have the ability to make the right decision for yourself, Jo_Jo.

Wish you the best.

Ps. I don't mean to offend anyone, just saying it like it is.

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posted June 15, 2014 09:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
It may actually be all in your head...

Come back later & let us know if you finally caught the Scorp. Oh and don't forget to ask her her version of things.

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posted June 15, 2014 09:44 PM            

I am still learning that everyday and the only I don't get it from this experience is the communication part. I am not say we should put all the cards on the table, but every good relationship start as friends, friends who can understand, talk, make fun and back you up. I feel he just tried to hide himself and maybe because he has low self-esteem or doesn't want to be judged by other people. The more attention he wanted to get, the weaker he shows to me.

Last question, do you guys think I should talk straight with him since we are kind stuck in the middle of nowhere and it does feel like really uncomfortable when I can't express what I really feel.

posted June 15, 2014 09:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Jo_Jo:
Thank you guys' for your support and thoughts! I think love is not supposed to a competition but the way how to communicate and compromise and accept each other.

I am still learning that everyday and the only I don't get it from this experience is the communication part. I am not say we should put all the cards on the table, but every good relationship start as friends, friends who can understand, talk, make fun and back you up. I feel he just tried to hide himself and maybe because he has low self-esteem or doesn't want to be judged by other people. The more attention he wanted to get, the weaker he shows to me.

Last question, do you guys think I should talk straight with him since we are kind stuck in the middle of nowhere and it does feel like really uncomfortable when I can't express what I really feel.

Thank you again! Peace~

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posted June 15, 2014 09:55 PM            

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Originally posted by usc277:

Follow your heart.. I think its telling you to talk to him..what do you have to lose ? At least you'll know where things stand and you'll be less confused.. You only live once and life is short..like the Frenchy said

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posted June 16, 2014 08:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Jo_Jo:
Thank you usc277! I read you story as well, you are very nice. Hope your story has better ending and be happy no matter whom you are with!

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posted June 18, 2014 03:34 AM            

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HE STALKED ME for the first one and half months and we started to talk.

He is really shy and quiet. But I see him through every time when he made excuses and I knew he likes me. Since I am water sign myself, I can't stop myself being emotional intensity and I was show my care to him as friend for a little bit and until now he hasn't behavior extremely but maybe once or twice reply my email/text one day later but I feel he knew he should not do that. That's why he tried to make it right. But what I feel is that he likes me one moment and push to the corner and pick me up and do it again. I mean I don't understand if we are just friends, why did he do that? Meanwhile he does have many female friends like every Pisces Male has, I just wonder whether he really likes me or not before I put myself into trouble. I keep my distance with him now because I don't want to misjudge him or make bad decision for myself. So anyone Pisces Male/experts could help me to analyze the situation here.

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I'm a Pisces Sun-Scorpio Rising. My guy is a Scorpio Sun-Pisces Rising. I truly believe our love is a gift from the gods.

My eldest daughter is a Scorpio and her guy is a Pisces. They have been together for longer than most of the other young couples I have known and are extremely devoted to each other.

Does your Pisces know anything about astrology? Does he know about legendary Scorpio intensity, passion and desire?

Did you perchance stalk him in return?

<-- Pluto with Neptune's Trident in hand.

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Got the Wings of Heaven on my Shoes. I'm a dancin man and I just can't lose. You know it's all right. Its ok. I'll live to see another day. We can try to understand the New York Times' effect on man. Whether you're a Brother or whether you're a Mother, you're stayin' alive, stayin' alive.

posted June 22, 2014 11:53 PM            

I personally feel you deserve more!

posted July 01, 2014 10:08 PM            

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Seems like everyone is reading too much on the sign thing. Look I get that you guys all want your relationships to work and all but just because one scorpio doesn't have a good experience with a Pisces doesn't mean your own scorpio hates you okay?

Anyways regardless of sign, just forget this guy. Does he have any aqua placements? Looks like he's doing just enough to get you on the hook and then ******* off to somewhere else. Either show him you mean business and set boundaries. (As in if he wants to be with you stop bein flaky and inconsistent) or push him out of your mind and move on. Pisces are the masters at making women feel like they have a once in a lifetime connection. I've seen it a lot of times. For some reason life keep bringing me pisces.

No matter what his sign is if he actually truly wants to be with you and you were meant to be with him you wouldn't have to try so hard t make it work with him. Yeah its true they like being pursued but the pisces that likes someone enough will actually get off his ass and try to pursue you more than that. Stalking isn't pursuing. The thing that is alarming is when you said he pushes you to the corner. I used to let guys do that to me so trust me. If you let them do that they will never come around. They will always always do that and you heart will be starving.

I'm dating a Pisces now and in the beginning he didn't behave like this. Also try to check his chart. I've had pisces pursue me in the past and I have Pisces friends. They do that pop in and out of your life thing because they don't know what they want, and it breaks my heart when i read about some confused girl wondering why her pisces keeps dissapearing. It's always because he's got other options! They flirt! They like to keep people interested. They aren't above playing these games. They wear their heart on their sleeve so one minute they will say you took their breath away, the next minute they'll be fantasizing about a high school girlfriend. And their heart is fully into whatever they're experiencing at the moment.

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