posted June 25, 2014 01:57 PM            

Also fitting is the fact that he has Moon in Sagittarius. How about that?

Is this depression "normal"? Well depression is part of life, its only a problem when it starts to seriously debilitate one's aptitude for objective reasoning.

Neptune widely squares his Aquarius Mercury; this could bring about the depressive states.

And that Saturn in Scorpio squaring Jupiter in cautious Virgo suggests that he "caps" his happiness; always thinking about or anticipating the worst that might befall him.

He also has Pluto conjunct Jupiter; he digs deeply and emotions tend to linger. This aspect can also make one think that they can "save the world". They feel guilty when they discover that they can't.

Venus in Aquarius squaring Mars in Scorpio and both opposing and squaring Pluto in Leo respectively,suggests much passion but lots of drama in the romantic area of life/

Pluto sqaures Saturn which suggests that life kinds of "pulls" the proverbial rug right from under his feet. Just when he thinks things are stabilizing(Saturn), things fall apart or completely change(Pluto).

The key to dealing with this aspect is accepting whatever changes come. the more the person holds on to the status quo(Saturn), the more psychologically damaged they become(Pluto).

I think this aspect is responsible for him feeling that he has being "wronged" or that life has been "unfair" and "heartbreaking" for him.

I don't think its healthy for him to regurgitate the past. It spoils the present

The need to "reconnect" with his son could be his Moon in Sagittarius reaching out; Sagittarius lunar people become more maternal and become better parents when they are older.

It is also true that Pluto interacting with Venus/Mars wants close bonds and cannot live without showing and receiving affection-no matter how volatile. So long as they add depth and value to the individual.

posted June 25, 2014 03:39 PM            

You have life path number 1- this is the initiator.

You also have the same Moon position as your mate-Moon in Sagittarius. So here there is an intuitive understanding of each other from an emotional point of view.

You also have a Venus/Mars square(excluding Pluto), but a very wide square aspect of Venus with Saturn and the opposition aspect of Saturn with Mars.

You both probably had to wait for a long time for love. Saturn aspecting Venus does that. It can make one live through many disappointments in search of the ultimate love.

Your Uranus conjuncts Jupiter and so, with you, changes are not only accepted and encouraged. But they are also a natural part of life.

Your Mercury squares Saturn and opposes Pluto. You are also capable of deep thoughts and "picking" up what his thoughts are. But the Saturn square does tend you towards more "reasoning" approach.