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Topic: To my Pisces
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usc277
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posted June 30, 2014 05:23 PM
  
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Originally posted by MineAgain:
Yeah but that Scorpio woman had reasons to cut you off. You know the reasons why she chose to turned ice cold and disappear. Plus, she had warned you. You kinda sensed she was pushing you away.
What reason and what warning did she give me ? Refresh my memory please ?
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bansheequeen
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posted June 30, 2014 06:02 PM
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Originally posted by MineAgain:
Yeah but that Scorpio woman had reasons to cut you off. You know the reasons why she chose to turned ice cold and disappear. Plus, she had warned you. You kinda sensed she was pushing you away. Whereas this one talked about love on Saturday and ignored me on Sunday.At the end of the day, astrology is only a small component of the dynamic. That said, I thought Pisces were the most sensitive and gentle individuals of the zodiac. Well, this one proved me otherwise. Scorpios are know for being ice cold and quite harsh.
There's steel inside those Pisces lol. Cancer is hard on the outside soft on the inside. I sometimes think Pisces is soft on the outside and hard on the inside. Theyre sensitive so they are sweet and gentle towards people but they are easily hurt so they grow cold inside. They're so elusive because you can never fathom or own what's inside. Most Pisces men I know are players. Their soft emotional exterior makes them excellent at fooling women. Pisces women are the most delicate women ever, but they're never as helpless as they seem. Honestly I've seen more cold cutthroat selfish Pisces than the type described by astrology.... IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted June 30, 2014 06:16 PM
Pisces are... not to be trusted, 9/10 times.I don't care how good they seem. Pisces Moon, Venus or Sun and I'm outta there. No way. Like Gemini. Gemini is in the same boat. You can even add Sagittarius. Basically, mutable = trouble. Unless you're that way yourself and it doesnt bother you that they have feelings for 376465 people at the same time, or that they basically change their feelings for you everyday, and that they're in and out of the relationship at the drop of a hat. You want consistency, go for Fixed energy. Especially Fixed Sun, Moon or Venus. IP: Logged |
sugarflapjacks
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posted June 30, 2014 06:41 PM
mineAgain, your post is beautiful. I think any man who is worth his salt would be all in for an open conversation after reading or hearing something like this. No matter what sign, a jerk is a jerk, and if your ex is adverse to something as thoughtful as this from you, you need to kick him to the curb. You will definitely be free for going through that purging fire and able to move on with or without him.IP: Logged |
sugarflapjacks
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posted June 30, 2014 06:53 PM
As far as pisces being cold or steely, yes, we can be. But it's only after we have been very deeply hurt or badly burned. The hurt is part our fault sometimes as much as the other person's, so we need to own ours. In love, it's our part because we put up with poor treatment from our beloved perhaps believing it will get better, or their part because that person exploits our kindness while we continue to empower them by our idealism. If we are burned, it's usually a trust issue that doesnt' really include us loving you, but us trusting you with something very important to us. Once that has been exploited, it's no holds barred. We are done and it's over. You will never get us to trust you again. We may not ever want to see you again either and if we do, you are invisible. For Pisces, self-sacrifice comes a little easier so we are more open to love, but trust is an entirely different thing and it usually involves us protecting someone or something else and we are fierce on that and you don't want to mess with us.IP: Logged |
usc277
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posted June 30, 2014 07:00 PM
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Originally posted by sugarflapjacks:
As far as pisces being cold or steely, yes, we can be. But it's only after we have been very deeply hurt or badly burned. The hurt is part our fault sometimes as much as the other person's, so we need to own ours. In love, it's our part because we put up with poor treatment from our beloved perhaps believing it will get better, or their part because that person exploits our kindness while we continue to empower them by our idealism. If we are burned, it's usually a trust issue that doesnt' really include us loving you, but us trusting you with something very important to us. Once that has been exploited, it's no holds barred. We are done and it's over. You will never get us to trust you again. We may not ever want to see you again either and if we do, you are invisible. For Pisces, self-sacrifice comes a little easier so we are more open to love, but trust is an entirely different thing and it usually involves us protecting someone or something else and we are fierce on that and you don't want to mess with us.
Perfect, 100% true
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usc277
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posted June 30, 2014 07:13 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Pisces are... not to be trusted, 9/10 times.I don't care how good they seem. Pisces Moon, Venus or Sun and I'm outta there. No way. Like Gemini. Gemini is in the same boat. You can even add Sagittarius. Basically, mutable = trouble. Unless you're that way yourself and it doesnt bother you that they have feelings for 376465 people at the same time, or that they basically change their feelings for you everyday, and that they're in and out of the relationship at the drop of a hat. You want consistency, go for Fixed energy. Especially Fixed Sun, Moon or Venus.
Somewhat true..but Scorpio's have fixed sexual energy with like 376465 people... IP: Logged |
MineAgain
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posted June 30, 2014 07:15 PM
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Doux Rêve
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posted June 30, 2014 07:30 PM
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Originally posted by usc277:
Somewhat true..but Scorpio's have fixed sexual energy with like 376465 people...
Lmao.
I admit I exaggerated a bit.
Was feeling tense. IP: Logged |
MineAgain
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posted June 30, 2014 07:37 PM
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usc277
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posted June 30, 2014 07:42 PM
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Originally posted by MineAgain:
All I did was to tell him how much I liked him, how smart, funny, handsome he is. I told him this every single day. He even thanked me for not giving up on him. Obviously, I didn't do anything to him otherwise would have apologized a long time ago.
Exactly how I felt with my scorp.. Last time we spoke she told me she wished she wasn't married and that she would marry me and life isn't fair etc...I stopped pursuing her and she hasn't contacted me since..in part because we both know how much pain this will become should we pursue each other..and she's pregnant..
Asia, You need to move on. Email him all this, get your point across..or just move on. And I believe its best you distance yourself and start a new page with yourself...you will be hit several times in life, every time you fall you need to stand up again. Don't allow a human being to bring you down like that. Be strong. Be a true water.
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Doux Rêve
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posted June 30, 2014 08:00 PM
Allow yourself to feel things.That's my advice. Don't just pretend you've moved on if you haven't. Getting over someone you love is very hard and takes a long time, especially for Scorpios. So, give yourself time. And if you feel like doing it, send him a message and ask for an explanation, or something along those lines. IP: Logged |
sugarflapjacks
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From: southeasternseaboard
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posted June 30, 2014 08:53 PM
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Originally posted by MineAgain:
I agree but that's absolutely not what happened here. There was no betrayal involved and he even told me no other girl has ever put him on a pedestal like I did. Believe me, I was obsessed with him from the moment I first saw him. No other compared and no guy still compares. I only had eyes for him. To this day, I'm so hung up on him, I don't even look at men.All I did was to tell him how much I liked him, how smart, funny, handsome he is. I told him this every single day. He even thanked me for not giving up on him. Obviously, I didn't do anything to him otherwise would have apologized a long time ago.
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Originally posted by MineAgain:
Thank you ♥♥I had zero idea he would let me go right after I put my heart on the line. Moreover, he already had burned me pretty badly and came back with an apology. His apologetic behavior didn't last long as he ditched me a couple weeks later.
MineAgain, I think you scared him. Scorpios can be so calm, cool and collected, others don't know what is going on at the core. Once they tell you, it can be overwhelming, not just for other signs, but especially for water folk. It will always be felt more powerful for us as kindred water than for other signs. As such, your guy knew he either wasn't ready or didn't want to commit for whatever reasons. He also knew, he shouldn't try to play with it. We can be delusional at times and live in our world where our reality may not be the same as others, and this is our thing, good or bad. Normally, we don't really pry to much into something we aren't that interested in. We form opinions on those types of things based on experiences or feelings we have or have had. So when/if we find that our reality is not the same as it truly is, we can go in one of two directions, towards it or away from it. In your case, it sounds like even though he may have sensed your passion for him, it wasn't exactly real until you said it, but once it was said, he had to make a decision. I don't agree with the fact that he just left you hanging like this. He is obviously immature and punishing himself knowing full well that he hurt you and doesn't deserve anything "real". Thus, going for "fantasy" of hookers. This he can control. I'm not making excuses for him, because he could just be a total douchbag, but it could also be something else that causes him to retreat. My advice to you is just to let him be. He needs to grow some balls and come clean with you, but until he does, I dont think anything he can say or do concerning your relationship will make any sense (to him or you).
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bansheequeen
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posted July 01, 2014 11:35 PM
Don't tell him how you feel!!!!!!!!!!If you must talk to him don't let him know how much you're hurting because of him. He doesn't give a damn about you all you will do is feed his stupid ego. Don't give him that satisfaction. IP: Logged | |
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