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Topic: Cap Man & Space
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Steph314
Newflake Posts: 21
From: CT, USA
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted June 29, 2014 08:16 AM
  
I'm Pisces he's a Cap, been together for a year. Everything was fine up till Friday, had an upset (not with me) and decided he needed a little space, he didn't feel like himself and felt overwhelmed. He's a typical Cap, a workaholic and I say he worries about things that may not happen. We are in our late 50's and have a good relationship.
The question is, if he does not contact me, how long do I wait without "bothering" him or having him think I don't care?IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Moderator Posts: 8721
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 29, 2014 12:51 PM
Oh, Lord.No idea? You've been together for a year, you should know how he works by now... I think you should leave him alone and let him figure it out for himself. But that's just my humble opinion. If he keeps silent for ages then contact him and let him know you care and all that stuff. IP: Logged |
Steph314
Newflake Posts: 21
From: CT, USA
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted June 29, 2014 12:57 PM
He has never done this in the year we've been together. I have not texted or called since Friday. He said he needs a "time out". Of course others have suggested maybe someone else; he truly is against infidelity since it was done to him in his marriage. The fear of the unknown is awful for a Pisces like me.Thanks IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Moderator Posts: 8721
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posted June 29, 2014 01:29 PM
You're welcome, Steph.Hm, I don't get the impression that he's cheating... I doubt it. (But then again, who am I to tell?) Trust is important for a relationship to function optimally. Give him the benefit of the doubt. I think you can still send him a text to let him know you're thinking of him. Something short and caring. But don't do it today.
Wait a little. Try to relax, okay? IP: Logged |
Steph314
Newflake Posts: 21
From: CT, USA
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted June 29, 2014 01:39 PM
You are very kind and it is appreciated! Especially today, with everyone doing something. I have always trusted him and said he was the only man who has taken at least 99% of those insecurities of mine. The last text I got was yesterday saying he didn't feel like himself, just wanted some time alone. And reiterated it was not me. We have a lot going on in the next few months, including another trip to Jamaica. Someone even said that he knows I am always there for him, so don't be. Nothing yet today, which I didn't expect. I'm keeping positive thoughts!
Thanks again!IP: Logged |
sugarflapjacks
Knowflake Posts: 97
From: southeasternseaboard
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted July 01, 2014 12:29 AM
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Originally posted by Steph314:
I'm Pisces he's a Cap, been together for a year. Everything was fine up till Friday, had an upset (not with me) and decided he needed a little space, he didn't feel like himself and felt overwhelmed. He's a typical Cap, a workaholic and I say he worries about things that may not happen. We are in our late 50's and have a good relationship.
The question is, if he does not contact me, how long do I wait without "bothering" him or having him think I don't care?
@Steph314, with all due respect, chill. Please. Why are you so insecure with him? IP: Logged |
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