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Topic: Is this even Aries behavior?
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Cancer/Scorpio729
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posted July 22, 2014 03:25 AM
  
He's an Aries sun, Sagi moon, Libra rising, and has Venus in Taurus.He's liked me for the last two years and only acted upon it recently, and he's quite choosy with what emotions he decides to show me. Just slowly feeds me scraps of information about how he feels about me over time and takes it very slow. You would think with this configuration that his attention would wander somewhere in those two years, or that he would have made a move earlier and he did neither. I'm confused  Is there something I'm missing? IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 22, 2014 01:57 PM
Aries Sun is aggressive; however, Sag Moon wants freedom from attachment, Libra ASC is fickle, and Taurus Venus feels that slow and steady wins the race.IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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posted July 23, 2014 01:42 PM
I have 3 out of those 4 placements, minus the rising. I can act aloof sometimes, if there's stuff going on in my life that I am preoccupied about or if I don't really know you all that well - or smell competition. I am serious about the last part, even though I am generally competitive, I find it degradating to compete for your attention and/or affection. There are a lot of Aries types and there's quite a few of us mellow ones - though I can also pursue if I feel like. Taurus Venus indeed takes its sweet time, seriously I LOVE the courting phase, part of me wishes never to end! lol All that anticipation!!  ------------------
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Cancer/Scorpio729
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posted July 31, 2014 04:43 PM
I can definitely see that prolonged courting phase, the tension is quite savory He's not aloof, he's just taking his sweet time. So. Much. Time. That's where I get a little nervous. IP: Logged |
charmainec
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From: Venus next to Randall
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 01, 2014 05:28 AM
Elo, CS.Aries men usually know what they want and they are not always "aggressive" when it comes to pursuing someone they fancy. It's possible that this one sees a quality in you which he really likes..ie. An innocence or sweetness you possess and because he likes you so much..it comes across as aloof. Touching on what DM said: if he has to compete for your attention, he might get jealous and resort to doing the same to you just to make you jealous. The thing is..if he likes you then you will know. He will make it obvious. :/ ------------------
Remember, love can conquer the influences of the planets....It can even eliminate karma. Linda Goodman "DON'T EVER try and destroy someone's life with a LIE.....when yours can be destroyed with the TRUTH...." S.Jacobs IP: Logged |
Cancer/Scorpio729
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posted August 01, 2014 08:58 PM
Charm! Ah, but he has made it obvious  He's told me! Now I'm just waiting around for it to become official. I was expecting him to be a lot more aggressive but I guess that Venus in Taurus is really rearing its head. I do hope I've never made him feel like he was competing  IP: Logged |
Cancer/Scorpio729
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posted August 04, 2014 09:03 PM
And now he's ignoring me, I will take that as the official disinterest sign. Not really sure what I did there, it's not as if he got anything significant out of this short lived escapade IP: Logged |
Jerseyshore
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posted August 05, 2014 05:43 PM
I've had two very intense relationships with Aries men, and me being a libra, the magnetic pull is insane. The one commonality they both shared...they love the chase!!! I'm not saying ALL Aries are like this, but these guys were all about the thrill of the hunt. And now that I think about it, they both had long term commitment phobia. Ugh! *Note to self - stay away from Aries men*  IP: Logged |
Cancer/Scorpio729
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posted August 08, 2014 03:39 AM
Would have to agree with you there Jerseyshore!IP: Logged |
redshoes
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posted August 09, 2014 01:35 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Jerseyshore:
I've had two very intense relationships with Aries men, and me being a libra, the magnetic pull is insane. The one commonality they both shared...they love the chase!!! I'm not saying ALL Aries are like this, but these guys were all about the thrill of the hunt. And now that I think about it, they both had long term commitment phobia. Ugh! *Note to self - stay away from Aries men*
I agree....they are all about *onto the next thing*..i have had more than one Aries man in my life ~~~~ never again. they are way too scared to commit to one woman IP: Logged |
Cancer/Scorpio729
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posted August 11, 2014 01:55 AM
Ah I got suckered in, shame, I'm too fab for this IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 11, 2014 04:00 PM
I am sorry, C/S! I do ignore the people I am interested in (or used to, when I was younger and stupider lol), but that is certainly not acceptable behavior, interest or no interest. Indeed, you are too fab for this! Dude needs to clean up his act. ------------------
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Cancer/Scorpio729
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posted August 12, 2014 01:14 AM
"Younger and stupider"
How fitting Thank you DM!IP: Logged |
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