posted August 25, 2014 07:22 PM            

I need your help and advice. I met a wonderful cancer man about 3 months ago. We hit it off instantly and I never thought I would meet anyone like him. We are do similar in thoughts and values and I really liked him and felt that he liked me too.

We went out to see a band about a month ago, and I met his friend who was visiting from another state. While talking to his friend, I noticed that he became distant and he looked like it was bothering him. This was platonic conversation and in no way was I flirting.

After that evening, the cancer man will not return my texts (just once a week) and I called him the other night and left a message saying that I was sorry if I did anything to upset him and to please talk to me. No response. This non-response period has lasted 4 weeks so far.

Can cancer men be that jealous at the start of a new relationship?

posted August 27, 2014 09:23 AM            

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Originally posted by Virgo24:
Hi!

I need your help and advice. I met a wonderful cancer man about 3 months ago. We hit it off instantly and I never thought I would meet anyone like him. We are do similar in thoughts and values and I really liked him and felt that he liked me too.

We went out to see a band about a month ago, and I met his friend who was visiting from another state. While talking to his friend, I noticed that he became distant and he looked like it was bothering him. This was platonic conversation and in no way was I flirting.

After that evening, the cancer man will not return my texts (just once a week) and I called him the other night and left a message saying that I was sorry if I did anything to upset him and to please talk to me. No response. This non-response period has lasted 4 weeks so far.

Can cancer men be that jealous at the start of a new relationship?

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I agree with Vajra. Mega red-flag right off the bat. Cancer men can be incredibly charming and their sensitivity is alluring, but they are prone to moodiness. I am dating a Cancer man currently and while he does have his highs and lows, he has never given me the silent treatment. To me that speaks of this man's immaturity more than anything.

My advice is to let him be and let him come to you. Trying to evoke a response out of him probably won't get you far. If he comes back to you as if nothing is wrong, you might want to give him a second chance but be weary of this pattern repeating. If he doesn't, then take that as a sign and find someone worth your love

posted August 28, 2014 01:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Vajra:
Honestly, if the guy cuts you out for something like that, what is he going to do once the two of you have a real disagreement? He is not worth your time. I'm a Cancer Sun myself, that's absolutely not an excuse for being a dick.

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Originally posted by margym0o:
I agree with Vajra. Mega red-flag right off the bat.

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I will third these opinions, not a good sign.

Your life is your life, your choices are your choices.