posted September 30, 2014 10:53 AM              

When will he be returning to you?

posted October 23, 2014 08:06 AM            

I found out a guy was open to contact again because I contacted him.

If you dont try you will never know and we're a long time dead.

posted November 01, 2014 05:12 PM            

I agree that it should be fun from the outset and it shouldnt be work but I am struggling to understand what happened with a connection of mine with a Gemini I met nearly 3 years ago.

We met online and from the moment we saw each other it was an instant and powerful connection. We were smitten and very much in love.

He ended it a long time later in the cruelest way blaming me for everything when I had not done anything wrong and there was nothing wrong with our relationship. I couldn't understand what had gone wrong when we never fought and had a good time together.

I found out many months later that he had lied...he had cheated on me and was seeing someone else for a couple of months before we broke up. But i was surprised at the person he cheated on me with and left me for.

He had met her before he met me online and he met her once and didmt want her. He kept dating and met me afterwards and we were smitten. Not only did he not feel it for her, he met someone else amd fell in love...me.

But she got back in touch with him and kept contacting him. I knew about the friendship amd wasnt concerned as Id met all his family and he'd intimated we'd have a future together.

He was your typical Gemini, quick witted doesnt dwell on the past etc. And yet he looked back and not forward and left me for a woman he had already rejected before he met me. They are living together now.

posted November 01, 2014 06:31 PM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
I agree. I think things will never be the same. I've had enough bad memories with him as it is. When two people start dating, it should be fun and enjoyable. If it goes so badly from the start, it's not worth it. I came to the conclusion he was never the one to begin with because if he were, he would have made efforts from the get go. A guy would never let the right woman slip away no matter what the circumstances are.

If he truly were into me, he wouldn't have disappeared and I wouldn't have to post threads on here. When a guy likes you, you know it. You don't have to ask tons of questions, beg or chase to get a few words out of him.

It's just sad that he wasn't man enough to tell me he just wasn't into me. He took the corwards way out and I won't forget.

The right guy won't make you chase him or ignore you. The right guy certainly wouldn't want to hurt you. He clearly wasn't considerate enough to spare me the pain. I definitely won't make the first move again. His loss, my gain.

He's just not the one This whole connection will remain a mystery I suppose.

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This is a learning lesson for you.

And hey, this has happened to almost everyone.

I too, had an intense connection with a woman and she too disappeared fearing she would get attached I assume or maybe other reason's she never mentioned.
No sense. I still reach out to her but she never responds. Its her birthday today, I sent her a happy birthday message from a different number (since she blocked my number) and she didn't respond and even blocked the new number.