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posted October 10, 2014 10:45 AM            

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How can you tell when a Gemini man is actually in love with you? His birthday is 5/26/52 and mine is 3/14/55. It is very early. Known each other for a month and he keeps telling me he is really "in like". Says he loves it when I take control and we have such fun together. And he said we are in the battle of the "givers". He loves to give as I do and not just materialistic things. I don't want to assume anything!

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posted October 12, 2014 11:47 PM            

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Fascinated with your conversation, perhaps.

Loves to laugh with you.

Loves learning new things/going to new places with you.

Not afraid to show their darker side (good twin evil twin). Could be melancholy/depressive side, not just "dark."

Seeks out your company doing casual things.

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posted October 21, 2014 11:27 AM            

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Thank you Lonake! And here we are another month later and it cannot be better my Gemini man is a gem and he is forever chasing me. In one breath he says "i love you" and I hear "I hate you" so I reply "I hate you to the moon and back." Last night he said that is starting to "really care, in case I hadn't noticed." He is 62 and I am 59 and he says he has never been happier and he wants to enjoy life with me. A good start I am thinking!

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posted October 21, 2014 02:26 PM            

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posted October 21, 2014 03:13 PM            

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Thank you so much Vajra! And I was always frightened of Gemini men (astrologically that is)

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posted October 22, 2014 05:39 PM            

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Talks to you often and is not disengaged while conversing (looks you in the eyes).

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posted October 22, 2014 06:27 PM            

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Yes he does Randall! Has to hold my hand.'Extremely affectionate. Always tells me how I make him laugh, loves the fun we are having and cannot wait to get here Friday night. Wants to share his wealth with me because what good is money if you have no one to share it with.
Really a doll!

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posted October 25, 2014 02:13 AM            

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Hi Steph314, just came across read your post and another"Is It Over",I met a cancer man who acted like this, until now, I still haven't got an answer from him, luckily, I moved on.

I am happy you finally move on with a witty, playful and smart Gemini. Wish you two the best!!!

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posted October 26, 2014 06:47 PM            

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Hi Mollywu! It is wonderful with my Gem man. I don't take anything for granted and he is the kindest, most passionate giving man! I am not used to that!
Thanks so much for writing!

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posted October 29, 2014 11:07 PM            

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Cool.,they can be a lot,of fun :-)

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posted November 06, 2014 01:47 PM            

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First kind of breakdown from Mr. Gemini. Our usual bantering back and forth on text and really not sure what I said and he became upset and wouldn't talk for about an hour but when he finally called, he couldn't tell me what happened. But he bounced back to his normal self telling me that he is so "in like" with me he can't stand it. I have had a few I love you's but and he gets them back but very casually.
Is this normal or can I chalk it up to the full moon?

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posted November 06, 2014 05:16 PM            

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posted November 09, 2014 08:55 AM            

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astrologically, sun sings only, they say its the worse combination ?!

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posted November 10, 2014 01:44 PM            

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thank you so much Vajra! You were so very right about what to do. He lives about an hour from me and I go there on a Friday night and stay till Sunday. I am treated like a queen and he even gets teary eyed when I leave. His saying is "go with the flow" and I have certainly learned how. I know Pisces & Gemini's are not supposed to be the best match, but this relationship is still surreal because of the way I am being treated. I could not of dreamed of a fier man. Maybe it is our age, but his other favorite saying is "this is OUR TIME". Not sure what his time of birth on May 26, 1952 is but there have to be somedreamy planets in there!. Thanks Again!

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posted November 17, 2014 09:51 PM            

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Hi Steph,
Nice to see your updated news. Gemini can be fun, chatty, and sometimes detached. They are quite smart, but all depends on their natal placement. Follow your instinct!

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posted November 18, 2014 09:11 AM            

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Hi Mollywu,
Once again, things are magical with this Gem of a man. I am not used to being treated like this and it is kind of surreal! His generosity is overwhelming, but it is the man himself that is amazing. Kind, sentimental,caring, loving and fun! If I had to try to construct my soulmate, it would end up being him. We are so much on the same page, that we either finish each other's sentences, or one will say something that the otherwas about to say. But I am going to find out what his birth time is for sure! Thanks again for your insight!

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