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AmelieRose81
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posted November 09, 2014 03:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We broke up a year ago. We only dated for a few weeks.

dinner was the second time we met up.

Im not mad at him. Why would I be after a short dating thing.

He shows so much interest when we are together.

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GoingDutch
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posted November 10, 2014 04:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GoingDutch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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AmelieRose81
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posted November 10, 2014 05:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes. We texted wach other the next day.

He lent me something of his which I have to give back at some point. He said see you soon when he said bye.

thing is he will reply if I text him. Hw always does. But do I have to be the one to initiate?

I think he is handsome. But my friends say he is ugly....it isnt about looks and beauty is in the eye of the beholder anyway.

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posted November 10, 2014 05:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GoingDutch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted November 10, 2014 05:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by GoingDutch:
Who start the text first, after the Tuesday dinner? Was it you or him?
If it you, then seem like you gonna have to initiate.
And who asked who out for the Tuesday dinner first? Was it you also?
Ouch then, it going to be a tough ride with him. Being a man and never initiate things sure is a turn off.
Before when you date him (before you guys broke up). Did he initiated anything? Was he always like this? Or it just begin to happen after you guys get back together?

He was always like this even when we dated ladt year. He would initiate sometimes but mostly me. Always happy to hear though.

I initiated contact the day after. He had contacted me first and asked for dinner though.

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posted November 10, 2014 05:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GoingDutch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted November 10, 2014 05:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im not sure. I dont think he is seeing someone seriously. Ive been to his home twice and his flat mate saw me there.

He did have a short relationship end in January nearly a year ago now. He dated someone after me and they broke up. I don't know who ended it but it lasted only 3-4 months.

But he keeps making his profile pic online one of him that his ex gf took of him. Its him at her house with her pet next to him..Is it possible his behaviour with me is because he's not over her.

I wouldn't put a pic of me and my exes pet as my profile pic if we'd split up. Unless I still wanted him back.

Do they really hang on so long to a short lived relationship?

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posted November 10, 2014 06:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GoingDutch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted November 12, 2014 04:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can't tell anyone this in real life. So here goes. He texted me twice today unprompted and mentioned meeting me again soon. I didnt even reply to his message in the morning and he messaged me again in the afternoon. Sending me pictures of us together. He said it was something for me to look forward to.....seeing him.

only I opened the attachments and he'd sent me pictures of him and another girl. I asked ifit was an accident and he dodged the question saying our pics were too big could he have my email address so I gave it to him. He is very socially awkward and didnt apologise or anything.

What do I make of this? Seeing someone else, cwas it an ex or what. I wont bother asking him he probably wont tell the truth.

But it seems silly that he texted ne twice yoday telling me this was what I could look forward to and it was the wrong picture.

What should I do or say now.

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posted November 12, 2014 04:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted November 12, 2014 10:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GoingDutch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted November 13, 2014 02:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It was definitely a mistake.....he had texted me twice that day and was asking me out when he sent it to me.

it wasn't his ex.

I dont understand him either nor do my friends.

It was a mistake. What do I say now.

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posted November 13, 2014 03:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GoingDutch     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted November 13, 2014 03:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AmelieRose81     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It really upset me. He apologised. But I'm still shocked he did it.

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posted November 22, 2014 03:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bluejay     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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