posted October 25, 2014 11:38 AM            

He was attracted to you, looked at you when he saw you, hoped he would bump into during his day and was interested enough to ask after you. What has he done wrong?

I dont see any red flags. The usual red flags are lying, disrespectful behaviour, selfishness, disregard for others, etc.

posted October 25, 2014 01:24 PM            

YOUR behaviour is a red flag. You know he wants you, you dont want him but you are leading him on.

Venus in aqua guy I dated a while ago drove me crazy. All over me, break up I want to be friends he says...multiply that 5 or more times. I told him to go to hell in the end.

posted October 28, 2014 12:09 AM            

Do you like this guy in a romantic sense? Then full speed ahead! It may be faster than you want but it's now or never.

If not, then make it clear you're not into him. And no, you can't "just be friends," that will never do with him, so if there is no romance then there is to be no friendship either. Of course this could reject his family as well, but oh well. It's simply not worth all this worry you're putting yourself through. You don't owe him anything, just tell him to get lost, even if he's intentions are pure. If he continues to stalk you then get a restraining order.

posted October 28, 2014 04:36 AM            

Why is your intuition going haywire over this guy?
I mean something must be going on beneath the surface that bothers you.
The fact that he likes you - doesn't mean you *have to* like him back. You're not committed here.

He doesn't seem very communicative or open.. and he doesn't seem to truly understand you. His behaviour is kind of like "I think this girl is gorgeous - so I am willing to do anything to be with her"... That's what it sounds like to me.
This doesn't mean he wants a fling. He may well want relationship, but possibly for superficial reasons.

Do you feel a deeper, spiritual or mental connection with him? Is he someone you could talk to for hours on end and never get bored? Do you have many things/interests or hobbies in common?

posted October 28, 2014 09:55 AM            

And I don't feel anything for him in this regard, I'm just trying to analyze the sitch as best I can. The question is what do you want?

It seems to me that all you can do is worry and are uncomfortable so maybe you shouldn't, especially if you feel that by his "winning" that you "lose." If your doubts are correct then you don't need him, and if your doubts are wrong then he needs a woman who can appreciate him, not constantly question his motives.

OTOH, if you want him but are simply paralyzed with insecurity then I think you should just jump in, and hopefully the fears will go away (like jumping into a lake thinking it will be cold or slimy but then quickly finding it fine). I'd only want you to give him a chance if you WANTED to, however, and not out of pity or worried how the neighbors will see if you don't (btw, most American neighbors won't think bad of you for leaving him out on the staircase, especially if you and he is of a different race and in this case they may prefer that you did keep him out--not that I think you should let them dictate your actions in this matter).

But I'm glad you appreciated my help.

I haven't seen Saving Face but I've found it and will give it a view when I have a couple of hours, maybe today, maybe in a day or two.

posted October 28, 2014 10:53 PM            

I'm surprised a Libra would bad mouth his step-dad like that without much reason. Maybe that's his Taurus ASC at work who care a lot more about tradition and old fashion values, and his step-dad would seem like an interruption of tradition. Some (especially the very old fashion) also identify strongly with their biological father seeing the blood and all as the soul and believing no one could love a child as a biological parent (or at least blood relative).

And black people are just as prone to racism as white people, and both black and white people who seem to lack racist tendencies can suddenly show them if they catch one of their own dating outside their race (this is especially likely to rankle some black people if the black man or woman dating outside his or her race happens to be successful and stable, or possibly beautiful in the case of a woman, a "prize catch" in any case), though one night stands usually don't count for these types. And in both Houston and Los Angeles (at least back in the 90s) I've known of hostility between Asian & African Americans worse than between black and white, though I've heard it's lessened somewhat in LA as the growing violence of the Mexican drug cartels is felt strongly in LA to unite Asian & African Americans together (or at least agree that they both have much bigger concerns than each other) against this new development. Of course it could be different where you're at, and I think racism is slowly dying out among everyone (though still kicking).

posted October 29, 2014 07:15 PM            

Maybe you just dont feel strongly for this man.

posted October 30, 2014 04:45 AM            

Could you be asexual? Sure. I don't think the stars have much to say about it...I think they may create inclinations but not everyone born with your placements is going to be asexual. Interesting fact, plenty of identical twins raised in the same home are such that one who is gay and the other straight. Granted, I think there's at least a 50% chance that if one identical twin is gay then so is the other...but not all the other babies born with them (that is with the same natal chart). I read the biology on that (though it's all still being debated) but it's too late for me to try to remember now...it's pretty advanced genetic stuff. Basically biology and environment are important but there's a bit of randomness in the genes which make the finished person, so in the case of identical twins they both have the same potential but the random part was triggered in one but not the other, and no one really knows why. (And I see asexuality about the same way.)

posted October 30, 2014 04:49 AM            

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Originally posted by GoingDutch:

Oh and I was wondering, do you think babies that premature born early, or babies that have early C-section would have effects in their astro sign?

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posted October 30, 2014 04:25 PM            

I am a taurus, my sister is an aquarius, my niece is an aries, my cousin is a scorpio.