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posted November 30, 2014 08:06 PM            

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He responded with his number. Told me to call him. I sent him a text. We exchanged messages for a week. He asked me to come over to his place. The following day I went over to his place. We hung out and then I came home. After that he and i met up for 1 year for just sex. He wouldn't even talk to me when I would go over. We would have sex, not exchange one word then he would tell me to leave. I was mentally unstable at this point in my life and he used me and treated me like crap. Yes I allowed it to happen but I didn't know what I was doing.
Then one day out of the blue, after 1 year of asleeping with me, he told me he met someone and was in a relationship. He told me he couldn't see me. I left him alone. He contacted me 5 times while he was in a relationship, to ask me for sex. He was in a relationship for 1 year. Promptly after his breakup he contacted me and wanted to resume our sexual relationship. Well, after a year of not seeinge cuz he was in a relationship I lost interest in him. No longer emotionally attached I said no to him. For 2 years he contacted me asking me for sex. I continued to say no. The more I said no the more he would ask. He recently met a woman and he posts pictures of the two of them together on facebook. He never refers to her as his girlfriend, but he spends every weekend with her and has introduced her to his family. I know this cuz I check his facebook. He still contacts me and asks me for sex. I ask him if he has a girlfriend and he always says no. Then he says 'I'll prove it to you if u let me come over!' After 2 years of not seeing him I finally let him come over.
He walked into my home and we sat on my sofa. I was super shy and he was staring at me, which made me very shy. I couldn't make eye contact with him. He placed his hand on my knees and tried to put his hands on my leg. My body language was closed off. I told him I felt like I didn't know him. I felt scared and uncomfortable. He asked me if I wanted him to leave. I said ok. Then he said do u want me to tuck you in before I leave. I said 'I know what that means, you just wanna make moves on me. No thanks!' He said 'I can be a gentleman!' I said 'no, you're not!' He got up and put his shoes and jacket on. I got up and he stared at my body. He walked to me and hugged me. Then he came in for a kiss and I turned my head, so his lips landed on my cheek. He then smacked my ass and walked to my door. Before walking out he looked back at me. Almost like he wanted me to stop him. I didn't. After leaving he sent me a text and said he really wanted to have sex or at least get a kiss.
After that for a whole week he tried to get back into my place. The day after he sent me a text at 5am asking me if he could pop by. I replied at 7pm and asked when? The next day my apartment buzzer rang at 5am. I sent him a message and asked if it wa him. He never replied. The next morning my apartment buzzer rang again at 5am, I ignored it and sent him a text later that day I asked if it was him but no reply. That night I sent him and asked him why he came over. He said he didn't know what i want talking about. I told him that he was a liar. When he came to my place he lied about something and I caught him in a lie but never said anything. So I sent him a text telling him 'you're a liar. When you were here you lied to my face and I caught you!' He replied 'enough out of you' the next day my buzzer went off again at 5am. I then sent him another text telling him that his behaviour was creepy. I told him that him ringing my buzzer at 5am and then not bringing it up again was weird and it was scaring me. I asked him to stop doing it because I really felt scared. Now my buzzer doesn't ring at 5am. He sent me a text a few days later and asked me to come to his place. I said no.
I sent him a text and told him to never contact me unless he is asking me out on a date. I told him I demand to be treated like a lady.

My question is...is this scorpio just playing mind games? Does he like me?

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posted November 30, 2014 08:10 PM            

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I'm a Virgo. He's a Scorpio. When we are around each other we are both quite shy, he tries to do the only thing he seems to know how to do, turn it sexual asap. When I'm around him I find that my mind goes blank and I feel more. My analyzing mind stops and its scary yet freeing in a way. Hard to explain.

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posted December 01, 2014 12:11 AM            

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Originally posted by pwrofintent:
My question is...is this scorpio just playing mind games?

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No. You know what he wants. There is no game here.

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Originally posted by pwrofintent:
Does he like me?

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Another scorpio will have to answer this one. That's just one of those questions this Piscean woman would correct you to ask yourself: Do you like him? Seriously???

If you don't mind my asking, how old are you two?

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posted December 01, 2014 08:32 AM            

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I am a Scorpio female and would certainly never behave this way. I am also in my thirties. Can't speak for the men as I do not know any personally.

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posted January 15, 2015 11:10 PM            

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i am not sure where to start. no i dont think he's playing games. but its good you asked him to treat you like a lady and go on a date. but he likes you. i am not sure about his other girlfriend. he seems to like you alot. i am not sure about lies. but its good you are talking to each other. maybe open communication and lots of talking to know each other then just in bed.and go on lots of dates. good luck. i wish you all the best. lots of fun dates like the superbowl etc or wet and wild sports adventures. dont worry about his other girlfriend when hes with you hes with the one he loves. hugs

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posted January 18, 2015 04:40 PM            

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Honestly this sounds to me like a very unevolved Scorpio. I would call what he is doing to do the Scorpio "tests." Scorpios like to test you to see how far you will let them go. Yes, they are obsessive but they are also very loyal in relationships. I do think he likes you...you've stood up to him enough times that he could/and probably should have lost interest by now and moved on. Here's the thing...Scorps are very emotional but NEED sex as their way of expressing it. Scorps are just very sexual creatures. This could be the way he communicates that he cares for you because he can't/doesn't know how to verbalize them to you.

You did a great thing by standing up to him and telling him you want to be treated like a lady...you have drawn the line to tell him what is acceptable and what isn't. The next thing you need to do is tell him that if he wants sex with you, he needs to drop the other woman....you won't settle for being no. 2 and officially take you out on a DATE in which you two have fun together and actually communicate with words! If he does this...you know he's serious about you and the sex can continue. You can tell him you care for him if you do...but keep those lines crossed. He wants to know EXACTLY where he stands with you. Good luck sweetie

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posted January 18, 2015 05:39 PM            

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Welcome!

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posted January 20, 2015 10:50 AM            

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My question is why would you want a guy like him?
He's proven to be a liar, using you for sex, he cheats on his girlfriends and is disrespectful to you.

My suggestion is find someone who isn't a weirdo liar! Once you totally cut him off....unfortunately for a scorpio he will want you more. If he really wants you make him have to work his butt off in a respectful up front way, like announce you are his girlfriend, has pictures with you on FB, your meeting his friends and family and planning a future. If he can't produce that for you, you can do better!

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