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Topic: Help me please.How to mend a broken heart?
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VestaFlake
Knowflake Posts: 145
From: 5th house
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted January 19, 2015 07:02 PM
  
Dear all,
Recently I broke my SO's heart so badly, even I think I am a terrible person. I didn't cheat but I kind of lied, but it was to protect the relationship. ( guy X liked me, I told him to back off a year ago, he random called me the other night which drove my SO mad)Now, he feels betrayed (No, I did not betray) and he wanted time to think about it. If he wants to come back, I'm totally ok, but there must be something that will enable me to mend his heart and broken trust. Teach me knowflakes  IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81
Knowflake Posts: 306
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Registered: Nov 2013
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posted January 20, 2015 03:49 PM
If your SO went mad because a guy randomly called you and doesnt believe you that the attention was unwanted, I think you're better off without him. IP: Logged |
SDragon
Moderator Posts: 356
From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 21, 2015 09:15 AM
Over reaction in my opinion. Unless you've had a tendency in the past to be a bit deceptive, trying to make him jealous, etc, then trust is always going to be hard to rebuild and slipping back into that dynamic will be a struggle. IP: Logged |
Valentine
Knowflake Posts: 31
From: Canada
Registered: Dec 2014
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posted January 21, 2015 11:13 PM
Why don't you apologize to him? it will make you feel better. Some relationships just aren't meant to be. In my experience time heals.IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 49300
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 23, 2015 01:21 PM
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LucieLemonade
Knowflake Posts: 1385
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Registered: Sep 2013
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posted January 24, 2015 06:21 AM
I agree with what was said above. If you relationship can't handle a guy calling you then there is a problem. And when someone flies off the handle that is also a sign of trouble. You must inform him that acting that way is not allowed. If you let him get away with such behavior it will create a president and he will think he can do this all the time. Stamp it out before it gets out of control.
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