posted February 04, 2015 12:41 AM            

Just last night I've made a stupid and lame mistake of pretending to send the wrong message to this capricorn guy to gain his attention to show that I have a life. I purposely pretend that I was in the middle of the conversation with another friend and send to him instead. I now realised how stupid and desperate I must've seemed...;(

This capricorn guy was introduced to me by a family member and we've never met in real life. We're at a virtual courting stage before we see each other in few months.

After sending the lame message I noticed he was distancing himself from me with a short reply. I tried to keep the conversation going but after sending him good night message he never messaged me back. I think he's completely turned off by my behaviour and I was wondering will he forgive me and give me another chance or have I lost his trust for me completely?

I can't believe how stupid I've been..;( now I probably have lost him forever..I'm beating myself up over this.

Any answer will be greatly appreciated thank you

posted February 04, 2015 06:43 AM            

I think this definitely wasn't the right move, especially as you're not even dating. Capricorn people like to have some freedom but they're very very direct. If they're into you, you won't have to chase or play mind games.

If you play mind games, they'll just stir away from you because they're always on the go and they clearly don't have time for games.

posted February 04, 2015 12:19 PM            

I think anyone has done this at some point to get the attention of someone so stop beating yourself over it. Besides it can really happen.

posted February 04, 2015 02:15 PM            

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Originally posted by MineAgain:
I once "dated" a Capricorn male, and to be quite frank, they don't like playing games. They're very straight forward and decisive.

I think this definitely wasn't the right move, especially as you're not even dating. Capricorn people like to have some freedom but they're very very direct. If they're into you, you won't have to chase or play mind games.

If you play mind games, they'll just stir away from you because they're always on the go and they clearly don't have time for games.

You don't need to be "faking" accidentally sending a message to a man to prove you have a life. You have a life, that's all. They don't need to know what's going on in your life ... that's the proof you have one. Overthinking and playing games is the very proof you do not have much of a life (to these men).

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Thank you for your honest and direct answer MineAgain

Will he come back if I pull myself back at this stage? That means no contact and disappear and see how he'll respond. I'm a sun in leo but my moon is in Capricorn so that means no matter how much I want to contact him, my Capricorn controls me to be stable and restrain myself from doing so.

I understand playing mind games is not to a man's heart but due to him always acting hot and cold, his complex personality frustrated me to no end. I felt constantly drained by his unpredictable behaviour. Yes I was confused and felt insecure because our relationship didn't seem balanced. I've never played such mind games to guys before.

Him being capricorn they like the chase and I felt giving him too easily will lead to disinterest. He also have Mars in Aries so that means he gets bored easily. So far he's the most difficult man I've ever encountered with. Him having virgo in moon doesn't make anything easier either...

posted February 04, 2015 02:25 PM            

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Originally posted by ueharaa:
I'm girl a cap sun and moon.

I think anyone has done this at some point to get the attention of someone so stop beating yourself over it. Besides it can really happen.

Now if someone sent me a message that was not destined for me, then I guess I would feel a bit embarrassed to carry on the conversation. It's a bit like "ok you didn't really intend to talk to me so just don't push yourself it's okay".. At least that's how I'd feel

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Yes everyone make silly mistakes some point in their lives and in a way I do feel I deserve the silent treatment for acting so irrational.

Thank you for your opinion from double capricorn sided view. I noticed you're a true capricorn my real life bestie is also a double Capricorn and let me say they're the most royal friend I've came across.

I understand not all capricorns are going to act the same but in a circumstance like this, will he ever give me benefit of doubt? The only difference is he's a cap with Virgo in moon.

posted February 04, 2015 11:48 PM            

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Yes everyone make silly mistakes some point in their lives and in a way I do feel I deserve the silent treatment for acting so irrational.

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If you are getting the silent treatment from an Aries Mars man.. it's very likely not at all about anything you said - and purely connected to something sexual.

Has he seen you in real life or seen photos? If he was sexually attracted he would be all over you in such an aggressive way - you would need to hire bodyguards.

If you don't believe me - post some photos of yourself on Facebook wearing something like this (I'm assuming he's on your FB):

posted February 05, 2015 07:43 AM            

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Originally posted by LeoCap826:
Yes everyone make silly mistakes some point in their lives and in a way I do feel I deserve the silent treatment for acting so irrational.

Thank you for your opinion from double capricorn sided view. I noticed you're a true capricorn my real life bestie is also a double Capricorn and let me say they're the most royal friend I've came across.

I understand not all capricorns are going to act the same but in a circumstance like this, will he ever give me benefit of doubt? The only difference is he's a cap with Virgo in moon.

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posted February 06, 2015 04:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
It's kind of unfortunate that he has an Aries Mars.
If he had -any- other Mars sign, I would say you seem 'compatible' based on signs only.

I have an Aries Sun sign - and my Moon and Mars are in Capricorn (like yours). I couldn't personally date any of the Aries Mars men I have known in my life, because they don't know how to treat a woman. They just don't know *how* to behave.. basically. That's all in nutshell.
They need to grow up, but they probably never will - because it comes with the Ariesness.

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I personally have never encountered anyone with aries in Mars guys in real life. Can you please give an insightful personal experience of how aries in Mars treat woman? Do you mean by how selfish and insensitive they can be around woman?

posted February 06, 2015 04:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
It's kind of unfortunate that he has an Aries Mars.
If he had -any- other Mars sign, I would say you seem 'compatible' based on signs only.

I have an Aries Sun sign - and my Moon and Mars are in Capricorn (like yours). I couldn't personally date any of the Aries Mars men I have known in my life, because they don't know how to treat a woman. They just don't know *how* to behave.. basically. That's all in nutshell.
They need to grow up, but they probably never will - because it comes with the Ariesness.

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I've personally have never encountered much Mars in Aries guys and I was wondering if you can provide insightful personal experience you have with aries in Mars men? When you've mentioned they don't know how to treat woman, do you mean they're insensitive and selfish around their partner?

I've heard aries in Mars men are selfish partners when it comes to bed. They're known to always finish first at pleasuring themselves without considering their partner's sexual needs etc

Is there any truth to this?

posted February 06, 2015 04:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
If you are getting the silent treatment from an Aries Mars man.. it's very likely not at all about anything you said - and purely connected to something sexual.

Has he seen you in real life or seen photos? If he was sexually attracted he would be all over you in such an aggressive way - you would need to hire bodyguards.

If you don't believe me - post some photos of yourself on Facebook wearing something like this (I'm assuming he's on your FB):

He'll suddenly start messaging you again. Test my theory!
Then dump him. lol And don't look back.

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Haha thanks for ur naughty advice there He's seen my photos but it wasn't anything revealing or sexual. Just asked for a photo with make up on etc so far he haven't asked for anything suggestive due to his shy and conservative nature of his sun in Capricorn.

Lol I liked the part when you said I might need bodyguards away from aries in Mars men. He appear a lot more serious and reserved so my instinct tells me it's not related to anything sexual...or is it? Haha

posted February 09, 2015 09:31 PM            

Thank you for your insightful information and personal experience with Aries in Mars.