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From: Lily of The Valley
Registered: Feb 2015

posted February 10, 2015 02:29 AM            

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Can anyone help me figure out why my ex stared at me so long? I was working and I caught him staring at me for who knows how long. He was waiting for his friend at the Walmart checkout. It still bothers me because he kept his eyes locked on mine and it felt like time stopped. He didn't have a menacing look on, more of like a poker face. I looked away and could still see him staring at me in my peripheral vision. We never talk anymore.

He was the one who broke up with me because he was still in love with his ex. For now I don't know if they are still together. It's been almost 2 years since the breakup. We're both 21 (me technically still 20 until May 9)

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From: Saturn next to Charmaine
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posted February 11, 2015 01:18 PM            

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He was probably daydreaming.

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From: Lily of The Valley
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posted February 11, 2015 08:07 PM            

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He probably was. Weird

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From: southeasternseaboard
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posted February 12, 2015 08:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
He was probably daydreaming.

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dang, Randall!

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posted February 12, 2015 11:16 PM            

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He probably wants to tell you something. If he stared at you a long time its been scientifically proven he either hates you or loves you.

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From: Lily of The Valley
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posted February 14, 2015 09:29 PM            

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Originally posted by LexusVirgo:
He probably wants to tell you something. If he stared at you a long time its been scientifically proven he either hates you or loves you.

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Really? Hmmm. Well he was wearing a poker face the whole time.

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From: Lily of The Valley
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posted February 14, 2015 10:08 PM            

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Originally posted by LexusVirgo:
He probably wants to tell you something. If he stared at you a long time its been scientifically proven he either hates you or loves you.

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That's kind of scary and confusing. He might hate me then. There's no way he could love me after what he did.

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From: Illinios
Registered: Jan 2015

posted March 10, 2015 08:17 AM            

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He doesn't hate you! lol He was thinking of the memories and pondering whether he made the right decision and what his life would have been like if he chose differently etc. He's human. He might have even been wondering if the two of you could talk again or if YOU hated HIM because of what happened. It happens to all of us in our youth (sometimes when we are older too). It's just life. He was probably looking for any sign that you had forgiven him and let any anger or blame go.
He knows where you work now so if he comes in again be sure to approach him and say, "it's been a long time" or something neutral and friendly. Then he might feel safe enough to give you a hint of what he was thinking. I think it is best to end/heal old relationship wounds by telling the ex the things you learned from them and the positive memories you have that are special to you. If they want to apologize for anything, be grateful and tell them so. Appreciate whatever real love you had for one another. That's all there is in life.

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posted March 10, 2015 08:03 PM            

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