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Topic: Are libra men vindictive?
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LexusVirgo
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posted March 23, 2015 12:01 PM
  
How can you tell if you have hurt a libras feelings or made them jealous? I heard they don't get jealous, but I think I've made one very mad at me? How do I know for sure though?IP: Logged |
starr33
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posted March 23, 2015 12:44 PM
Are Libras vindictive? YES! We can be, especially when Mercury's in Scorpio or Venus is in Scorpio. What is his Moon sign? IP: Logged |
LexusVirgo
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posted March 23, 2015 02:32 PM
moon in gemini.IP: Logged |
LexusVirgo
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posted March 23, 2015 02:34 PM
Yeah I used to have this book on sun signs that said libra's dont get angrey they hate it and they dont get jealous. But if you did something your libra and then you just happen to slip on a banana pill and you look over and notice it is libra eating the banana dont say I did not warn you. I think this can be true.IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted March 23, 2015 02:59 PM
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Originally posted by starr33:
Are Libras vindictive? YES! We can be, especially when Mercury's in Scorpio or Venus is in Scorpio. What is his Moon sign?
It depends on the situation. I'm water dominant with Libra Sun/Moon/Merc/Asc with Cancer Mars and Scorpio Venus. If provoked I CAN be very vindictive. It takes a lot to get me there but it's possible. I'm not a jealous person don't know any Libra friend of mine (I have quite a few) that is. It's possible though as I don't think it's realistic to assume such things. You can tell you've hurt or upset them when they distance themselves from you. Libra is the sign that WILL fight for peace/balance if need be. If they aren't then you can be assured that you've upset them and or they no longer care. Give him some space and he may or may not come around. He is Gemini Moon which can sway things as well as the rest of his chart. IP: Logged |
starr33
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posted March 23, 2015 04:09 PM
What house is his Moon in Gemini in? Yes, it does depend on the situation or circumstances. I have Mercury in Scorpio in the 3rd house with a Cancer Moon. It doesn't take much. I'm working on it. Lol. But I'm learning about energy and where it's going or not going-most likely due to Pluto transiting my 5th house. Trust me: Karma is real. IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted March 23, 2015 09:25 PM
The only vindictive (and jealous) Libra I knew had a Scorpio rising and stellium...as well as her just being bat **** crazy. The others had the patience and understanding of a saint (not to say they WERE saints and one said himself he tried to be patient with others understanding it was only fair since others sometimes had to be patient with him).I did know one incredibly obnoxious Libra (blatantly stuck up and snooty with contempt for all of us sharing the flop house with him and turned out to be a thief, even a Libra like me gave up in trying to get along with him) but I'm not aware of his being vindictive...but it's possible that because he showed so much contempt for all of us from the start that we just couldn't tell when he was being vindictive rather than his usual obnoxious self. IP: Logged |
starr33
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posted March 24, 2015 10:41 AM
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
but it's possible that because he showed so much contempt for all of us from the start that we just couldn't tell when he was being vindictive rather than his usual obnoxious self.
I had to chuckle here. I'm sorry 
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Odette
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posted March 24, 2015 07:04 PM
I have never seen a Libra person take vindictive action, other than shutting someone out of their lives (but that's more self-protection). However... Libras with Scorpio placements can go on and on about how certain people betrayed them and how those people deserve all manner of horrible things to happen to them (in retribution). They wish negative things upon others when they feel strongly hurt, and with due reason (they seldom begrudge someone irrationally... since Libra is a very reasonable sign). But they don't actually take action to make these negative things happen. They believe that karma or a kind of supreme justice *should* exist in the world to punish the offenders.
The fact that this supreme justice malfunctions.. and sometimes the "offender" gets away with it - is very upsetting to Libra/Scorpio... but they tend to direct their anger towards the Universe itself for not punishing the individual in question. IP: Logged |
starr33
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posted March 24, 2015 08:41 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
They believe that karma or a kind of supreme justice *should* exist in the world to punish the offenders.
The fact that this supreme justice malfunctions.. and sometimes the "offender" gets away with it - is very upsetting to Libra/Scorpio... but they tend to direct their anger towards the Universe itself for not punishing the individual in question.
Definitely. Have you ever run into a Libran with passive/aggressive tendencies?
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Jo B
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posted April 01, 2015 10:12 AM
I wouldn't say Libras would go out of their way to be vindictive (in the sense that they'd enact revenge or anything) but they can be very fickle and then say the most hurtful, mentally cruel things to try to justify their own change of feelings towards you. It's happened at least twice for me. One was a complete psycho wolf in sheep's clothing - unfortunately I didn't discover that until he turned against me, although I sensed his nastiness towards other people before that so guess should have taken the hint. The other one was also really insulting, then several months later contacted me because he was obviously going through a rough patch in his life and said that I was the only person he got comfort from. I more or less told him to eff off. Needless to say I avoid romantic contact with Libra men at all costs these days! To answer the original question, I think some Libras get jealous, not all of them though. IP: Logged |
LexusVirgo
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posted April 03, 2015 04:23 AM
What about with venus and mars in leo. IP: Logged |
Jo B
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posted April 04, 2015 11:40 AM
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Originally posted by LexusVirgo:
What about with venus and mars in leo.
I have that. lol. (although I'm Virgo sun, not Libra). I'd say love and passion are enhanced by Mars and Mars can swing it either way - on the negative side it's emotions/passion mixed with agression/need to hurt someone if it's not going their way. Having it in Leo makes it even more explosive and bound up with ego. IP: Logged |
LexusVirgo
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posted April 04, 2015 11:56 PM
I have venus and mars in leo too. I get very jealous. I found out he had it too maybe he;s being an jerk because of this lol. Gotta pay the king proper homage or they will find anew court lol.IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
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posted April 13, 2015 04:20 AM
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sugarflapjacks
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posted April 14, 2015 05:40 PM
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Yes. A libra-Scorpio set out to ruin my life, even after he seemingly moved on and got married and had his own life he still wanted to **** over mine. Whatever. He's still the poisonous, annoying, unattractive man that I never wanted and I will keep moving on like I always do.
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bansheequeen
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posted April 16, 2015 07:55 AM
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bansheequeen
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posted April 16, 2015 07:57 AM
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sugarflapjacks
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posted April 16, 2015 11:41 PM
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Yeah he was. He wanted control even when he'd seemingly moved on with another woman! He needs to focus on making his wife happy not ruining some random ex!
I heard (or read) somewhere that they do this because they are not "done" with you. Honestly, the EGOs of some people! lolIP: Logged |
Gracha
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posted April 17, 2015 03:54 AM
I know a libra guy who dumped his girlfriend because she tried making him jealous by talking and flirting with another guy. He's got moon in taurus and scorpio venus.IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted April 17, 2015 05:41 AM
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Originally posted by Gracha:
I know a libra guy who dumped his girlfriend because she tried making him jealous by talking and flirting with another guy. He's got moon in taurus and scorpio venus.
That's not vindictive in my book, rather he saw what she did as a deal breaker and ended the relationship (and if he iced her out as opposed to making her life hell then it's not vindictive, though I'll count "making her walk home or get a cab" as mildly vindictive), IOW, he realized she was too immature for him so he ended the relationship rather than wasting anymore time with her. Good for him. If he'd tried to make her jealous the same way I'd hope she'd dump him as well. IP: Logged |
Gracha
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posted April 25, 2015 12:53 AM
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
That's not vindictive in my book, rather he saw what she did as a deal breaker and ended the relationship (and if he iced her out as opposed to making her life hell then it's not vindictive, though I'll count "making her walk home or get a cab" as mildly vindictive), IOW, he realized she was too immature for him so he ended the relationship rather than wasting anymore time with her. Good for him. If he'd tried to make her jealous the same way I'd hope she'd dump him as well.
I was answering based on what the original poster wrote, not the question heading.
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PixieJane
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posted April 25, 2015 01:20 AM
I don't think he was jealous or vindictive. I've cut some people out and it wasn't jealousy or vindictiveness it was "I don't need or want this drama." I don't even feel disgust (save one time but that was a very complicated sitch), just nothing other than I don't want them around me. At the very least I'd draw very firm boundary lines and tell them what happened if they crossed it again and that would be enforced with an appeal or another chance extremely unlikely. Either I trust you or I keep you at a distance, and if I think you're intentionally throwing my scales out of whack like that then it's actually even more of a turnoff than if the flirting were serious and I'd see you as treating the other person like crap by using them so callously as well as me. That is by flirting with someone just to make me jealous, I'd see you as someone who used people without a care on how you hurt them. Why would I want to be with such a person? (It's more philosophical than emotional.)Now if my feelings were hurt or I was made angry I'd say why and try to work it out. Assuming I thought it COULD be worked out. We don't all react to the same stimuli the same way. IP: Logged |
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