posted November 12, 2015 12:09 AM            

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Originally posted by Astro keen:
I am NEVER ill and since August I've had some bug or the other. It turned out that my distant bf was ill too around the same time with the same condition, although his was worse. Could his ill-health be affecting mine?

This seemed to be implied in a reading I had, so I wondered.

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Hi there, AK. I've definitely found that my 'soul network' and I can fall ill at the same time. An unusual feature with my boyfriend is that we'll often have the same physical issue, but the opposite of the other -- opposite limb, side of the body, the face, and so on.

Otherwise, he calls it being 'psychically linked', which is quite something for him to say! Not so uncommon these days, but awhile ago, it was a rather unthinkable statement for him to say that. He's very scientifically minded like I am.

posted November 12, 2015 08:09 AM            

Me - Scorpio Sun/Leo Asc/Aqua Moon
He - Leo Sun/Scorpio Asc/Aqua Moon

Ok, of the two, I think it's me who may be better at transmitting healing (Hygeia and Reiki conjunct Saturn). So will persevere.

posted November 13, 2015 02:15 AM            

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Originally posted by Astro keen:
Thank, Auby.

There must be a way of counteingr the effect by sending him healing energy. There must also be a technique to block negative energies from someone we are psychically linked to. Or is the sharing of ailments an avoidable downside of having a psychic link.

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I've definitely done that. I've noticed, if I'm 'feeling' something -- whether a sudden inexplicable mood drop, or 'sense of dread' -- or just suddenly under the weather, I'll often take that as a cue to give him a bit of love and attention that he's obviously not getting, nor giving to himself.

posted November 13, 2015 11:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Vajra:

Actually I feel that one can get over many relationship problems by simply accepting that people experience love differently and show it differently as well. If one keeps expecting the other person to "feel" the same and behave as one would do, one sets oneself up for a never-ending series of disappointments, while missing out on many great things one would never have expected.

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Vajra, what you said above didn't fit the context and I wondered why you added these words. Beacause they RESONATED big time! Were these intuitively inspired, because they were something I needed to hear, perhaps !? I'm intrigued.

posted November 14, 2015 10:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Vajra:
Thanks, I always enjoy your topics, AstroKeen!

You have the exakt same Sun/Moon/AC combo as my guy btw. And to imagine all that fixed energy in the same room with a Leo/Aqua/Scorp guy... gaaah! Obviously joking here, I like the fixed signs very much.

But in that case, maybe your health does indeed react more strongly to the link, as is the case with my guy compared with me. Scorp Suns are, at least in my experience, less stable and more sensitive than Leos. It doesn't mean the other side is not affected though. In our case, for instance, I often get clairvoyant dreams and premonitions about him. That's another manifestation of the link. He does not get those as far as I know...says he can't remember his dreams. But I can often help him solve problems and chart a course with the help of that gift.

Actually I feel that one can get over many relationship problems by simply accepting that people experience love differently and show it differently as well. If one keeps expecting the other person to "feel" the same and behave as one would do, one sets oneself up for a never-ending series of disappointments, while missing out on many great things one would never have expected.

Just checked the Hygiea and Reiki asteroids and in my chart they don't do much. In his, Hygiea is conj. his Uranus (7th H ruler) exact, at orb 0°00! In Scorpio no less, and it's also conj. his Scorp Venus at orb 3°16 so maybe his healing gift is thereby primarily directed to his partner. In your example, Saturn is a male planet (is your partner older than you per chance?) and with Leo rising it's possible Saturn could be your 5th H ruler, or does it rule the 6th? Interesting in any case, thanks for mentioning those placements.

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