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missblyss
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posted June 14, 2017 01:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for missblyss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
what was the defining moment?

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posted June 19, 2017 02:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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posted June 20, 2017 11:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haven't.

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posted June 21, 2017 06:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Perhaps, someday.

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posted June 22, 2017 02:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No rush!

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TaurusVenusGirl
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posted June 23, 2017 06:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol!

You dont question how you feel, you just know. I remember when I first fell in love. I saw him across the room and thought he was so hot! I told my gf who was with me at the time.. I said to her, hes too hot for me, he wouldn't be interested. She agreed. So I left it. Then later that night he approached me and asked for my phone number! It was when we looked into each others eyes, that I just knew he was my twin soul. I haven't seen him in 19 years, but he was definitely my twin. I still acknowledge it today. Even though we weren't meant to be, it was just far too intense.

Most people I've spoken too have said when they meet their husband/wife, they just both knew from the beginning when they first meet.

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posted July 03, 2017 06:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
After I first saw him I was surveying him from a distance for at least a month, because I found him very odd. There were also a lot of synchronicities happening. Then, one day I did not expect it to happen at all, but somehow we managed to stand there eye to eye. Damn, we locked eyes and it was SOOO intense and deep, he even started my awakening process. I had a lot of hidden problems at that time, but he touched me and my heart so deeply, it caused me pains and anxiety to resurface. I felt the attraction was mutual, but after a few months our lives took different paths, and since then I haven't seen him for almost 5 years now. He left so abruptly and without any warning that my whole life crashed, and when I heard the 'news' about him leaving, my world literally stopped turning. I felt immense pain and anxiety, like he was something dear and essential to me that was being cut out of my life. We didn't even talk to each other verbally, but the intense looks we gave each other, and the hidden, mysterious connection we share spoke a million words. Since then, my life has changed completely, it was a truly painful, but transformational "Phoenix rising" experience. No regrets or anything. I'm someone else now thanks to him.

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posted July 03, 2017 07:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Loveher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Randall is the best

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posted July 04, 2017 07:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted July 05, 2017 10:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Who, ME!?!

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posted July 05, 2017 04:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Loveher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol i have a feeling that u will meet ur soulmate soon

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posted July 05, 2017 06:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know because I trusted the universe when synchronicity presented us to each other. A couple months later when I was out of state for a while I used my Rhyolite stone to do a meditation (as described in The Crystal Bible) to inquire about our possible past life history together. Apparently there have been 2-3 lifetimes in which we've known each other, not nearly as many as is common for 'soul mates.' However, the trust was built in one particular lifetime and it was a solid basis for moving forward.

People normally have many soul mates living simultaneous with them, but that doesn't necessarily mean each one will be a possible mate. We incarnate in soul groups. Many people have already met numerous soul mates, but have not bonded romantically with them or have had misgivings based on karma, etc.

My wife and I have no karmic loose ends to tie up. It helps.

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posted July 06, 2017 03:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted July 07, 2017 02:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks, Kannon!

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posted July 07, 2017 04:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I will point out that I met someone else during that same period. I had a choice of a sort, but some circumstances and starting things with Heather first helped make that choice.

We don't have "a" soul mate. Maybe it is obvious to everyone by now, but it is worth repeating. We have soul mates -- plural. Some will make for more challenging relationships than others, but remember soul mates are made by being one.

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posted July 08, 2017 06:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Love the last nine words.

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posted August 09, 2017 10:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
MissBlyss,
I worked in the Activity Department of a nursing home for a few years. During that time I interviewed elderly couples and asked them about their first meeting. I do believe the placements of outer planets affect different generations in regards to ideas about marriage and how well marriages do work. That being said... many of them said they met in high school or right after high school. They said they thought the other was so beautiful or handsome etc. One of the men spoke of how he saw her as a princess or a queen when they first knew one another. He was currently visiting his wife in the nursing home. He visited every single day.
I would ask them how they knew and most would say they "just knew". At the time I mentally scoffed at that answer as it could be applied to literally every relationship. You can "just know" you are meant to have a relationship with a person, whether it be as your banker, your friend, your enemy, your teacher, your boss... whatever.
Immediately after this time in my life of asking these questions and then praying for my partner and best friend for life, my literal best friend that I'd had all of my life (who is male) came back into my life. It really does mean more when applied to Knowing it is a Soul Mate or the One for you. There is just so MUCH that falls into place. So many questions that up to that point had remained unanswered. So many signs you experienced in the past come together as your full story.
It is fuller Knowing depending of the depth of the relationship is my guess. I experienced a "Knowing" with some dangerous soul mates in my past. They were flashes when I looked into their eyes and then a strong pull to have a romantic relationship. I believe they were karmic relationships and destined. A meeting with a soul mate/partner for life is a deeper and fuller experience and Knowing. It requires just as challenging lessons... but you are ready and willing to learn them.
This is my understanding at this time. I offer it with an open heart.


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With my husband, it seemed that we fit together like an old pair of socks. We were introduced by my sister and when dating, we clicked.

I remember seeing him at my other sister's wedding after party and desiring to speak to him, wanting him, but never having a chance to speak to him. It sucked lol. He tells me that he wanted to speak to me originally but also did not have the chance. Thought I was cute.

My ex before him, I met him online. I remember even knowing how his voice sounded before I actually heard it, and it was exactly as I pictured.

My ex husband, much of the same. I wished on a star for him. Thought he was out of my league, but he was drawn to me, and ended up approaching me.

The common factor was that I just "knew," in the sense that all of my senses, physical and otherwise, were tweaked to the point where I felt as if my spirit clicked with theirs, like a lego or something. Then magic would happen lol. Spending time together always seems to melt away. My sense of time gets weird and I lose time.

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posted August 12, 2017 05:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
MetalAphrodite beautiful

I like that he was part of your family/friend circle (sister introduced you and you saw him first at her wedding). I think I remember reading some synastry aspects you listed on another thread and they were striking.

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posted August 13, 2017 01:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for sharing, Metal.

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I don't know about "Soul mate". But I do know about intense "time moves slowly" attractions that feel so overwhelming, they spin your solar plexus into overdrive.

I have yet to experience this

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posted April 05, 2018 10:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Same.

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posted April 23, 2018 07:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I don't know about "Soul mate". But I do know about intense "time moves slowly" attractions that feel so overwhelming, they spin your solar plexus into overdrive.

I have yet to experience this


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posted April 24, 2018 03:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Definitely believe in the plural version of the word and that they are part of our soul GROUP and not necessarily meant to be with us in a romantic sense.

I've only experienced it once so far, where I too met him online and before ever seeing a picture of him or getting to know him in any way, the SECOND I heard his voice I felt this strange sense of familiarity. We clicked in the same way once we finally met in person...it was as if I had known him my whole life. We were BEST friends for many years and though we did end up officially dating for a few of them, it was clear we were not meant to be romantically involved. Still there were no bitter feelings, no animosity, no weirdness...it was just kinda like "ok" and that was the end of the romance. We carried on as only friends but time and distance has gotten the best of us now.

I wholeheartedly believe he came into my life for a reason during that 6-7 year period and though we only check in once every now and again with each other he is still very dear to me.

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