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Loveher
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posted September 23, 2020 07:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Loveher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We met in 2017 at a lecture. I was by myself standing she walked pass me and smiled without looking at me. Later we met and I was intimidated by her. She could not take her eyes off me she tried to be around me. Then we met the third time she walked up to me and introduced herself. I still felt intimidated by her for some reason that I could not understand.
We both observed each other and had our guards up. We had to spend time around each other five days a week for three months. We started to get closer. After that I had to move to another place. She caught me off guard and told me that she misses me. We had this weird connection we can sense and know each other thoughts without talking and silence between us was peaceful. When I looked at her eyes I felt a past life connection. We liked just being around each other on the same room. We made each other feel very happy. For the first time in my life I felt safe around someone. She accepted for who I am and liked all of me even the flaws. Last day I saw her I was leaving work She hugged me and I felt like hugging a part of my soul not a person. She did not want to let me go she just hugged me for a while. That was the last time I saw her an year ago.

Meeting her triggered a chain of major transformations in my life, my life still going through major changes.
After being around her and the way she treated me I realized how toxic people are with me even my own family. I cut off family members and still planning to cut off more of them. I reevaluated everyone and everything in my life.
For her she changed her friends circles. She became friends with people who are from similar backgrounds as me. (we have social media so we still watch but not talk)

we are still changing. The most difficult transformation and changes. Its like our worlds kept getting shaking up and changing. Its like we came to each others lives to trigger all of this.
The thing is I cannot let her go I still think of her. and I am not sure how to reconnect. Plus we trigger each others worst insecurities. For me rejection by her. For her she has a fear of abandonment. Thats why we cannot talk anymore.

What kind of connection is this?

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GalacticCoreExplosion
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posted September 23, 2020 10:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What do you think/feel?

Rather than telling you this or that, I would dedicate a deep meditation to this. Before you go into the meditation, saying something like, "I deeply desire and ask for the help, wisdom, and guidance of the most Love attuned, helpful, positive, and aware sources or those that these may send to me."

Do a few minutes of some toning/chanting as a charge up/clearing technique (Ahh Omm type stuff).

Then, remember a time when you felt a lot of love or gratitude. Just remembering same tends to re-bring up those feelings. Let those feelings well up in you. Feel them towards all of creation.

Then, ask your question with no preconceptions as to the answer (very important) or how an answer may come, but go deep within and get very still/quiet and just listen. Pay attention to any out of the blue thoughts, feelings, visuals, etc that don't feel self generated. The answers may come immediately, or may happen later like during a dream or a beyond chance synchronicity with another. Just be open and receptive.

I've found that this process and technique is the most effective and most helpful way to get one's own answers. Expanded Guidance knows you and others better than any other human does, and even better than you know yourself. Part of Expanded Guidance is our own, original, larger Spirit self. Sometimes graduate Soul selves that are part of your Spirit, also act as helpers/guides for you. Then, occasionally, sometimes spiritual teachers or helpers from other Spirits help us. Really just depends.

But the important point is, that they are not connected to a human body with all it's ego and distortions. Most guides/helpers, even the less experienced and mature ones, tend to be more clear perceiving than most humans--even rather mature ones.

It's just the nature of this dimension, the collective slow vibration of the consciousness of humanity, and the slow vibratory nature of the physical body which is so based on fear and the perception of separation.

This is why Yeshua said some odd, extreme and contrasting things about Yohannan ("John") the Baptist, such as, there has been no greater born of woman than him, but even the least in Heaven are greater than him.

Because, he was connected to a human body, and the body influence caused him to doubt and falter at times (especially towards the end while he was in prison).

I have some ideas and inklings about your connection, but really the best resource is your own internal guidance system. I don't understand why we constantly look outside of ourselves and in other humans for answers, when we have the best and most helpful resource within--one free of human ego and distortions.

I don't know any who is connected to a human form who is completely free of the above--I do know of one, but I haven't met him in this life so far, and he keeps very incognito.

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Loveher
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posted September 23, 2020 11:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Loveher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Appreciate the idea
But I have been trying for a year to get the answer from within and I couldnít find it. And its impossible to find it now with all those transformations
Thatís why I am asking others for inputs to help guiding me and maybe one day I will understand on my own

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GalacticCoreExplosion
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posted September 24, 2020 01:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok. I have noticed there are certain patterns/indications that are common between twin souls.

Number 1 and perhaps most important/indicative: A very strong and almost automatic psychic-intuitive-empathic connection; even if one or both partners wouldn't be classified as particularly or unusually energy sensitive normally. But between each other, it's strong, with almost a conscious telepathic like attunement at times. Also lots of crazy, way beyond chance synchronicity tends to happen.

2. They facilitate major transformations for each other in different ways. This can happen through extremes of pain/loss and great joy, nearly unconditional love for each other, and harmony. Basically, they hit each others hearts harder than others do, and this can facilitate some definite changes.

3. Very powerful Synastric chart comparison that is all level/all center oriented. Everything from the slowest vibratory symbols to the fastest vibratory symbols are connected between more personal/sensitive points, and especially with a strong emphasis on the 1/7th House axis either through direct placements or strong aspects with the ruler(s) of same. To a lesser extent, 4th, 5th, and/or 8th tend to be very highlighted as well.

4. The least reliable indication/pattern (because it can also apply to karmic Soulmate situations)--when not family members, when not a huge age gap, when not both of the same sex and not being gay or being of opposite genders when gay, etc, etc, a very strong holistic attraction and draw to each other. It's always mutual, though one or both may try to suppress/repress at times because it's so intense and can feel overwhelming to some types (especially very logical, practical, in head types).

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Loveher
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posted September 27, 2020 10:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Loveher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosion:
Ok. I have noticed there are certain patterns/indications that are common between twin souls.

Number 1 and perhaps most important/indicative: A very strong and almost automatic psychic-intuitive-empathic connection; even if one or both partners wouldn't be classified as particularly or unusually energy sensitive normally. But between each other, it's strong, with almost a conscious telepathic like attunement at times. Also lots of crazy, way beyond chance synchronicity tends to happen.

2. They facilitate major transformations for each other in different ways. This can happen through extremes of pain/loss and great joy, nearly unconditional love for each other, and harmony. Basically, they hit each others hearts harder than others do, and this can facilitate some definite changes.

3. Very powerful Synastric chart comparison that is all level/all center oriented. Everything from the slowest vibratory symbols to the fastest vibratory symbols are connected between more personal/sensitive points, and especially with a strong emphasis on the 1/7th House axis either through direct placements or strong aspects with the ruler(s) of same. To a lesser extent, 4th, 5th, and/or 8th tend to be very highlighted as well.

4. The least reliable indication/pattern (because it can also apply to karmic Soulmate situations)--when not family members, when not a huge age gap, when not both of the same sex and not being gay or being of opposite genders when gay, etc, etc, a very strong holistic attraction and draw to each other. It's always mutual, though one or both may try to suppress/repress at times because it's so intense and can feel overwhelming to some types (especially very logical, practical, in head types).


I am not very sure about her birth time, but she has neptune in my 7th house and mars, uranus, lilith and pluto in my 5th house

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GalacticCoreExplosion
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posted September 29, 2020 11:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's not really enough to go on, especially since Neptune and Pluto are such slow moving and generational Planets, and Uranus to a slightly lesser extent.

I pay most attention to the outer Planets, especially Neptune and Pluto, when the aspects are very close, the people are of a different generation, and/or both people are particularly and strongly attuned to that outer Planet(s).

Otherwise, they are rather subtle notes and we share so many similar aspects and positions with so many people born within a couple years or so of us.

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Randall
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posted October 18, 2020 04:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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