Topic: What does it mean when you have feelings for the same sex?
ChildofVenus Knowflake
Posts: 5535 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
posted March 12, 2021 04:28 AM
But you’ve never been romantically involved with a woman before? I’m just trying to understand what I’m feeling. I guess that means I’m bisexual? I don’t generally feel romantic feelings for women. There was one woman who I had a crush and I wanted to experiment with her. And when I was a teenager I messed around with a girl once but it was only a one time thing. I wasn’t really attracted to her and there weren’t feelings involved. And now I have romantic feelings for this woman who flirts with me. It’s confusing I guess it’s just a certain type of woman that ignites those feelings.
posted March 12, 2021 02:08 PM
I am classed as bisexual, I've known from a young age. Simply because I don't really see gender. And I am more attracted to the energy someone gives off than their body parts. I don't really say I'm bisexual because I don't really care, I just like who I like. In saying that, I have never had a long emotional relationship with a woman. The deepest love I have felt was for a man. But neither have many women approached me, so who knows.
If you want to call it something, then yeah I would say 'bisexual', but really it's just a heart/body/soul urge. If you're reacting positively to her flirtations then I guess there's something for you to find out. Happy adventure!
------------------ Don’t judge each day by the harvest you reap but by the seeds that you plant - Robert Louis Stevenson
Posts: 1096 From: Heavens Above Registered: Aug 2016
posted March 30, 2021 04:52 PM
I'd call it pansexual. They really do have a name for everything these days. I'm not a fan of labels but I'd say I was a demisexual.